If you click your "settings" icon, and then click "payout info", to the right of the screen, there's a "tell a friend" link. That will go directly to your profile!![]()



If you click your "settings" icon, and then click "payout info", to the right of the screen, there's a "tell a friend" link. That will go directly to your profile!![]()



Woke up to a message from a guy at 1 am. Wonder how far I'll drop in rankings for not waking up for that one.
I had a conversation with a guy this morning where he complained about the girls on the site asking for iTunes gift cards, saying they would come and meet him but only if he paid their airfare and other extortionate situations. I told him those girls were breaking TOS and no one should offer to meet him or talk offsite. He responded by trying to send me his phone number (which Phrendly blocked). Then he told me what other two sites I could find him on to talk for free. When I explained the purposed of Phrendly, he stopped responding...
So, I've been thinking more and more about what the Phrendly rep said about not wanting us to make the site seem "scammy". And I understand why girls lying through their teeth about meeting can indeed make the guys feels scammed. However, more than once, I know that TELLING THE TRUTH about how the site isn't for real-life meetings and isn't a dating site makes the guys feel scammed. There's something wrong with your model if the truth feels like a scam.
Phrendly, if you want your site not to seem "scammy", I suggest you make it 100% crystal clear what the site is offering in return for the money the guys are spending. Don't blame us for guys feeling scammed. You're the one setting up the scam.



This from last night illustrates everything that is wrong with Phrendly! How could I keep this guy talking longer.......since we are scored on the length of our interactions. Also, how could I not discuss meeting or not meeting him when it was clear that was all he wanted. I had 3 people like this yesterday. One guy came right out and said I am here to meet for dating, I am on the wrong site. If girls hadn't of let on some guys noone would have made a dime after the free money they get and Phrendly would not be in the position they are in right now! That's something to think about. And yes it is just a fantasy for some of them, they don't really want to meet. The adult business is not black & white like regular businesses. A lot of innuendo and grey in between!! (i'm sorry I'm new to this so mixed up the screenshots, Page 3 is the last page please look at times to view it correctly thanks!) katydiamond123 :-))
Screenshots below:Screen Shot 2017-06-18 at 12.22.59 PM.png[/ATTACH]Attachment 48314[ATTACH=CONFIG]48315[/ATTACH[ATTACH=CONFIG][/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]48316
Last edited by katydiamond123; 06-18-2017 at 11:55 AM.
Yep, same here. I have plenty of guys where I could have at least asked "well what would we do if we met?" and play to that fantasy, but I'm not trying to get banned. Then of course since I don't live nearby, my conversation only lasts one message, and I go farther back into the list of girls. Meh.
"The prize never goes to the fastest guy, it goes to the guy who slows down the least."
Discord Support Group for Cammodels and Strippers - https://discord.gg/JtGdjv6zWZ



I know. I am up all night lately so I don't miss anything. Sometimes you just miss one though! Very difficult to stay available 24/7. The way we are ranked does not seem fair to me at all. I should have had my cleavage showing all this time I bet I'd get starred even more & go up a page. Another person might get one expensive video call in the entire week and be ahead of me when I'm up 24/7!! And I'm wondering about having the last word too. I have actually told clients: Please don't talk back, if I don't answer you again I will go down a page in the listings. That doesn't sound good either. Phrendly is doing it to keep them talking and Phrendly earning but sometimes enough is enough!! ...Katydiamond123 :-)))



Guys don't read what this site is all about. I had one guy last night who was like "girls get paid to talk to guys on here?" After I explained to him how the site works, he STILL tried to give me his phone number. Like you just learned that I am being paid to talk to you. Why do you still think I would talk to you for free??
I got a text at 2 am last night of a guy asking for nudes while I was getting fluids at the hospital. I was BEYOND annoyed and put it off for an hour before responding he'd have to gift me a bouquet of roses for any pics of my kitty. Sent him off which I was actually kinda relieved. I felt too shitty. Hopefully me not responding for an hour didn't fuck up my placement lmao
If they ask me where I live, I tell them "you first". Usually, I try to be the one to ask them where they live first so I'm prepared to lie about where I live. I'll tell them one state over from where they are which still seems to get them excited about meeting. Obviously, I have no intent of meeting them. Just keeps the convo going. I'm also the queen of sly subject changes.
I guess I'd just like to know from support where the line is when it comes to "leading them on"
"The prize never goes to the fastest guy, it goes to the guy who slows down the least."
Discord Support Group for Cammodels and Strippers - https://discord.gg/JtGdjv6zWZ



I feel like the ones being "sanctioned" for "scamming" are only girls here on SW. I don't think any of us have asked for iTunes cards or airfare. Maybe I have a skewed world view, but it feels like they are punishing us for talking amongst ourselves. Phrendly? Jamma? Care to weigh in?



And also, I know some of y'all are friends with Lightening, but how is her GIF okay and the rest of our pretty much tame pics with slight cleavage aren't? What am I missing?!?
Last edited by ChubbyCherub; 06-18-2017 at 03:01 PM. Reason: Typos. All the typos



She reads this forum like I do, but doesn't engage. She has tried to change her gif but is going through the same issues that everybody else has. Taking 3 to 4 days to approve a gif just for it to be denied for bs reasons. She's my boo, and I would never wish for her to lose her top spot because she works as hard or even harder than I do.



Oh my gawd! Why does everyone think I'm out to get her? I'm so not! Geezus H! I happy she's still on top, and I'm thrilled she still has her gif, actually! It gives me hope! I just wish the rest of us were treated as fairly! I'm glad to know you all think I'm such a bitch though.. Good night.
Last edited by ChubbyCherub; 06-18-2017 at 06:36 PM. Reason: Fuck off





Guys, all ChubbyCherub is saying is that she wishes ALL of us on Phrendly were treated the same...with the same rules applying to ALL of us. That's all.
My referral link for models to join the Boleyn Models daily pay program
https://cammodelpay.com/ref?page=&campaign=&affToken=NDcx





I tried to take a new gif about 2 weeks abo & the dam thing gt rejected & I wasn't showing shit LoL. I can't wait to hear the reasonings behind all of these rejected gifs lately.... something is def up. I wish that they'd change it somehow to where we could message them or get their attention more for free for us but they still have to pay, like if they decide to send dick pics or whatever. There must be an easier way for those of us that have shitty placement. I mean it's only fair that everyone get the same shot to excel as the peeps on first page.
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"





All that time spent sitting there taking these damn snapshots (only to get rejected), it'd be nice if those rejected pics would at least save to our phones or something. Lol. I looked pretty damn good in the first batch of snapshots I took (which wete rejected). Haha.
My referral link for models to join the Boleyn Models daily pay program
https://cammodelpay.com/ref?page=&campaign=&affToken=NDcx





"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"
Bookmarks