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GAHHHHHHH!!!!! This fucking guy!!! And WE'RE the ones being sanctioned for "trying to meet"? He's been at it for months!!!!



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GAHHHHHHH!!!!! This fucking guy!!! And WE'RE the ones being sanctioned for "trying to meet"? He's been at it for months!!!!
at one point i was one the 1st or 2nd page and made legit $50 that week...
Professional badgal.





I've been on for a solid week.
Made a total of $8.
I get the lonely hearts, as I mentioned, but they only engage in a text or 2 before disappearing.
I'm going to switch it up, and be sexy. I'm also going to redirect all the hundreds of guys I get who message me on dating sites.
Also, care to explain why the fuck a guy with his ACTUAL DICK as his gif was deemed "appropriate" but cleavage isn't? The guy is literally talking to me and his gif is just of his dick.



Misogyny at its finest....



Just another fine example of Phrendly fucking people in the ass
That makes sense. I wonder if their admins find it useful if we report those profiles?
Well, I reported the dude and it looks like he already got shut down.




Took a great new gif that was rejected for the cleavage. I would like to know where they think I should hide my cleavage - I could wear a sports bra and still have it! Unless they would like me to wear a crew neck shirt (horribly unflattering) or not show my bust area at all...?
Originally Posted by temptingmodel





I just took a look at some of Phrendly's ads, and damn... it is almost impossible to tell this is NOT a dating site. I feel kind of bad for the dudes on here legitimately looking for a date. I mean this site is gold for the majority of dating site creeps out there, but... ugh.
I got too close with a dude on here. I want to keep talking to him, but this is not good for my camgirl mental health. I told him I'm a camgirl, so at least I'm not leading him on.



A guy with a picture like that has not asked for his profile to be public, and so it hasn’t been reviewed internally. We only review photos (male or female) when the owner desires his or her profile to be public, i.e. searchable and browsable by anyone on the site. We did this to balance some phrends' desire for privacy with the desire of the other person to see with whom they are talking. Having said that, we are working on a feature that will blur out non-reviewed photos and show them only if you explicitly click on them. This should help with “dick pic shock”. A “report this” button will make its way to the web app, too (it exists in both the iOS and Android apps today). We do review reported profiles and will un-accept inappropriate ones regardless of private/public status. In this case, the unapproved pic is replaced with a placeholder.
Earn while having fun flirting on your phone at Phrendly.com. Sign-up here.
That's lovely. Avoided my question about algorithm, though. Even though we have all called bullshit. I think we deserve an answer. Especially considering one lady on here who makes her living on this site got pushed so far back that she can no longer make ends meet here and is obviously one of the top earners on here. Cmon, dude. This is getting old. All we ask is a better algorithm system. How are people that are making 10 bucks a MONTH up in the top and those of us getting 700 a week are still in the back. I know we are responding quickly. Those of us that are SERIOUS about this website are losing out on money due to our placement. And that means you're losing out too.


I use the site really casually, usually when I'm getting ready for cam, or else just in the evenings. So I don't push for high earnings, and I don't make them, either. I moved from page 16 to page 9 last night by making $20, and I'll be the first to admit there are a bunch of other girls in this thread alone who should be above me. The algorithm seems to really REALLY favour responding to things in milliseconds. So don't worry, I'll miss another singular message while I'm sleeping and get bumped back to 20 again soon enough :\
But that's the thing. I do respond in miliseconds. I have a set up where I place my laptop in the living room with the volume turned up all the way up so I can hear the ding anywhere in the house. I keep my phone volume on for when I'm not on and respond immediately. Every single time. If I miss one, it's an emergency situation for me. I take my laptop into the dang bathroom with me lol. But yeah I made 90 dollars last night and my placement still sucks so idk man...


In that case I really have NO idea what they're doing. I asked support a while back why I suddenly dropped so much in placement even though I hadn't been doing anything differently, and that's the one thing they told me: "Normally, all browse results are weighted by responsiveness. If you are being as responsive as possible, there isn't too much more you can do to get noticed on Phrendly". I already respond within seconds, so... ok. I guess everyone on the first page must be responding to messages before they even get them. I can't compete with time travel.
A guy requested that I dominate him. I told him okay, pay me then bitch. And he said pay for what. You realize nothing is free for one thing and two, you have no idea how to be a sub so get up out my face. Literally had to give him a step by step guide on domination and he's just now getting it. 35 cents a text is not enough for this bullshittery sometimes I swear.
lmaaaao how is going to ask u to dominate him and he doesn't even know what domination is?????????? i can not with these fake subs. lmao! and even if he did know what domination truly was, nobody is going to dominate for free. nothing in this world is free, especially when it comes to a woman!
Professional badgal.





How do you ladies advertise on the dating sites?
I messaged back guys who messaged me first (ok cupid and Plenty of fish).
I said that I'm over on phrendly now, gave my name on there, then waited for their response.
I got one guy tonight from ok cupid. He messaged back and forth for a few times, then when I suggested he call me...radio silence.
What the heck am I doing wrong?
I just don't get it.
Are guys easier to pull in when You advertise blatantly on craigslist or back page?
Thanks in advance.




I think I'm chatting with the hottest guy on Phrendly. I totally want to throw all my sex worker principles out the window and just trade him free nudes. I won't though.
This is the first time I've had that impulse. Weird.
Originally Posted by temptingmodel
I'll let you in on something that works for me.
When a guy asks me "why should I pay to chat with you or why should I pay for nudes" I tell them this. Well, I technically saved your ass. Would you rather spend your whole fucking day being unproductive, messaging girl after girl on your typical dating website only to be rudely ignored and feeling worthless at the end of it all or would you rather simply pay to chat with a sweet lady who is willing and nice and wants to please you. Guys need to feel wanted and I'm giving you that need. In return, you pay me. You're not just paying for me to talk to you, you're paying for an experience as you wouldn't ask a therapist for a freebie.
Pretty much exactly what I tell them and they always say I have a point.
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