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    I have had both regular dancers I have seen and other dancers that aren't regulars. Too often when I become a regular of a dancer she will start wanting more money or try to get me to agree to same thing for more money, this is when either I leave her for other dancers or will slowly stop seeing her. What was once a good deal, becomes a bad deal overtime.

    For instance I had a dancer who wanted $500 for her to just sit in club with me all night. At first I said ok, but then other dancers came up to me in club and started saying they know this dancer is demanding $500 to sit with her all night, but they will say something like I will charge you only $200 to sit with you all night and if you come in when it's not busy and there are almost no customers here I will sit with you for free until the club starts to get busy. It kind of is like that song, "You got to shop around".

    I have had several dancers get very ticked off at me for ditching them for other dancers. They will say things like ,"I don't understand what you see in that girl and why your buying dances from her instead of me? She is stupid and I am way more attractive then her. My friend and I think your crazy for spending money on that girl instead of me."

    One girl had told me no negotiations and wouldn't budge on anything even on how much money she wanted in tips from dances. She said if I didn't like her price what you do is find another dancer. So I found other dancers, she sees me coming in club and spending money on other dancers who give me a better deal and she goes into this temper tantrum blowing up at me and getting really ticked off. This is a problem run into a lot of dancers, they see you shopping around in club for other dancers instead of spending money on them they tend to get very ticked off.

    How do you politely shop around in the club without really ticking off other dancers and saving myself from the verbal lashing because I am shopping around?

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Well you just do what you do and ignore the static.

    You shouldn't even be discussing other dancers and their agreements with others. Keep it to yourself. Don't lie to them and promise you're going to be their regular. It's pretty much understood that club customers are NOT any dancers husband even if they are "regulars" it's not a monogamous commitment. Only immature foolish dancers don't get that.

    It sounds like you slick like them fighting for you though.
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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Also, good for the one dancer who wouldn't settle for less money. Now, she needs to go find another customer. The reason you are asking how to "politely" do it is because you seem to have a vested interest in these girl's emotions. While, I 100% expect you to be cordial, respectful and polite you do not need to feed into the drama of these 18-19 girls (as I am certain this is the type of girl you like based on other posts).
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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    I think you're fueling the fire by discussing what Girl A charges with Girl B. Just politely tell her "I don't want to discuss Girl A's prices" or something, even if she brings it up.

    Personally I think that girl is hella stupid. They are literally training you TO shop around and undercutting each other in a race to the bottom. Sigh. Just remember, you may get company for $200/all night, but it may not be very good company...
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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Personally, I think that you like starting drama with those strippers. Because why are you even discussing one girl's prices with other dancers? Also, I feel that dancer should be demanding high prices for just sitting with you. Lucky, you stop wasting her time and let her go. Seriously, why are all of your threads always about either trying to get the cheapest dancers or looking for the cheapest prices? Plus, you said yourself in other threads that you go after dancers that you find not as attractive in order to give them less money. So one wonders what really is going on with customers like you?



    Quote Originally Posted by November_Scorpio View Post
    I have had both regular dancers I have seen and other dancers that aren't regulars. Too often when I become a regular of a dancer she will start wanting more money or try to get me to agree to same thing for more money, this is when either I leave her for other dancers or will slowly stop seeing her. What was once a good deal, becomes a bad deal overtime.

    For instance I had a dancer who wanted $500 for her to just sit in club with me all night. At first I said ok, but then other dancers came up to me in club and started saying they know this dancer is demanding $500 to sit with her all night, but they will say something like I will charge you only $200 to sit with you all night and if you come in when it's not busy and there are almost no customers here I will sit with you for free until the club starts to get busy. It kind of is like that song, "You got to shop around".

    I have had several dancers get very ticked off at me for ditching them for other dancers. They will say things like ,"I don't understand what you see in that girl and why your buying dances from her instead of me? She is stupid and I am way more attractive then her. My friend and I think your crazy for spending money on that girl instead of me."

    One girl had told me no negotiations and wouldn't budge on anything even on how much money she wanted in tips from dances. She said if I didn't like her price what you do is find another dancer. So I found other dancers, she sees me coming in club and spending money on other dancers who give me a better deal and she goes into this temper tantrum blowing up at me and getting really ticked off. This is a problem run into a lot of dancers, they see you shopping around in club for other dancers instead of spending money on them they tend to get very ticked off.

    How do you politely shop around in the club without really ticking off other dancers and saving myself from the verbal lashing because I am shopping around?

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    I think you're fueling the fire by discussing what Girl A charges with Girl B. Just politely tell her "I don't want to discuss Girl A's prices" or something, even if she brings it up.

    Personally I think that girl is hella stupid. They are literally training you TO shop around and undercutting each other in a race to the bottom. Sigh. Just remember, you may get company for $200/all night, but it may not be very good company...
    You make a good point a lot of dancers have made to me at clubs, but hey my strategy it works like a charm can't complain and the only downside is I get some dancers angry at me which I consider no big deal plenty of other dancers who won't get offended by offering only $200 and will take me up on the offer.
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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    You literally just try to piss dancers off in the club AND online, nice..

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    You literally just try to piss dancers off in the club AND online, nice..
    No I just try to get the best deal I can in the club, dancers who give me the best deal are happy in the end with the deal in the club so I see no harm. I am not trying to piss anyone off. If your unhappy by what I said I am sorry, no harm was intended. Just explaining how from experience I know how to get the best deals in the clubs.

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    So does Donald trump. . What's your point? The "polite" way to shop around in the club is to grant the dancers wishes of not revealing their prices but you're not gonna do that anyways so what's the point of this thread ?

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    To me "shopping" for company based primarily upon price is like the tail wagging the dog. This is the second thread in which the OP has basically said that he doesn't really care about who he spends his time with as long as she is the cheapest option. To each his own I suppose, but if I hang out with a girl for hours ITC or OTC (or both), my primary consideration is whether she is good company. Perhaps the OP is just easily entertained.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    To me "shopping" for company based primarily upon price is like the tail wagging the dog. This is the second thread in which the OP has basically said that he doesn't really care about who he spends his time with as long as she is the cheapest option. To each his own I suppose, but if I hang out with a girl for hours ITC or OTC (or both), my primary consideration is whether she is good company. Perhaps the OP is just easily entertained.
    Agree with this...I go to the club t enjoy myself and have some good company, "shopping" for the bargains doesn't interest me.

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Why not just spend a quiet night in with Molly and her five sisters?? Can't beat that price! Lmao

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    Default Re: How to politely shop around for dancers in the club?

    Obviously you can complain and do care that girls are getting pissy, you made this thread. Dur!

    I was not offended or pissed off either. (That seems to be your hope though, I agree with DonaDiabla in that you seem to delight in such reactions.) If you offered me $200 for the whole night, I would pity you and move on without a second thought.
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    For starters, I definitely agree you should be polite and cordial, no matter what. I always try to be.

    That being said, try to remember that every dance or every minute of a stripper's time is all business. It's a transaction. Every one of us guys has fallen in stripper love. I did it once, early on. My mistake, and I was quickly slapped back into reality. I hold no ill feelings toward her; it was my mistake not to remember that it's just work for her.

    I bring this part about the stripper love up because the fact that it is just business, goes two ways. I see dancers here recommending that you don't discuss one stripper's prices with another. I can see some wisdom in that if you want to avoid some drama, but fundamentally I disagree. Why? Because to them it is just a business transaction, and it should be to you as well. As a consumer of goods/services, pitting two vendors against each other to have them compete is good for price reduction. Simple supply and demand, or Adam Smith's invisible hand of economics. Whatever you want to call it.
    One caveat... don't expect to make stripper friends doing this... but you're not there for that, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    Why not just spend a quiet night in with Molly and her five sisters?? Can't beat that price! Lmao
    Three of the sisters didn't pass his test so it's a little awkward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toddsullivan55 View Post
    For starters, I definitely agree you should be polite and cordial, no matter what. I always try to be.

    That being said, try to remember that every dance or every minute of a stripper's time is all business. It's a transaction. Every one of us guys has fallen in stripper love. I did it once, early on. My mistake, and I was quickly slapped back into reality. I hold no ill feelings toward her; it was my mistake not to remember that it's just work for her.

    I bring this part about the stripper love up because the fact that it is just business, goes two ways. I see dancers here recommending that you don't discuss one stripper's prices with another. I can see some wisdom in that if you want to avoid some drama, but fundamentally I disagree. Why? Because to them it is just a business transaction, and it should be to you as well. As a consumer of goods/services, pitting two vendors against each other to have them compete is good for price reduction. Simple supply and demand, or Adam Smith's invisible hand of economics. Whatever you want to call it.
    One caveat... don't expect to make stripper friends doing this... but you're not there for that, right?
    Yes that works great if you're buying a car or something like that, but you wouldn't go into your grocery store and do it there right? Not all transactions are the same, especially when you factor in the personal nature of a girl selling her time and body. I'm not saying not to see what different girls are willing to charge but leveraging them against each other just makes you look cheap and will make them resent you. If he's there for the "fantasy" like he has mentioned before he better have a really good imagination and suspension of disbelief if he's gonna end up having a good time because there is a fine line between appreciation and acceptance.

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    ^^^ Double thanks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    Yes that works great if you're buying a car or something like that, but you wouldn't go into your grocery store and do it there right? Not all transactions are the same, especially when you factor in the personal nature of a girl selling her time and body. I'm not saying not to see what different girls are willing to charge but leveraging them against each other just makes you look cheap and will make them resent you. If he's there for the "fantasy" like he has mentioned before he better have a really good imagination and suspension of disbelief if he's gonna end up having a good time because there is a fine line between appreciation and acceptance.
    I feel you, and I was fair in stating that it wouldn't make you popular. But not only that, this was my solution to his dilemma, and not how I club myself. Because the problem of this concept of looking for the cheapest price negates the fact that you might not be interested in the cheapest price. If you want to spend time with the $500 girl, and don't want to spend time with the $200 girl, it's silly to choose the latter.

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    So there are girls willing to lose out on potential $$$$$$ in order to sit with you all night for a measly $200? What kind of club is this?

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    Allegedly ^ LMAO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbwbrianna View Post
    So there are girls willing to lose out on potential $$$$$$ in order to sit with you all night for a measly $200? What kind of club is this?
    lmao right? Most girls I've worked with charge closer to 1,000 to sit with a guy for the entire night. 200 dollars is not worth spending your entire shift with one person who isn't buying dances or anything else.

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    If a girl is willing to sit with you for 200 a night - you're damn lucky. Even the new girls know they're worth more than that. Sounds like you just like the drama. There's no "nice" way to sell out another girls prices.

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