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    I'm 40 and put my cam age at age at 39. I constantly get harassed that I'm older, STFU, and be truthful. Most of the time I get guessed younger. I think it's my cam room and if I want to be a year younger than they can bite me, but maybe I'm out of line here. Should I put older to shut those people up? Is this a common thing when people do this and just want to get a rise out of you?

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    If someone can't find anything to pick on you, than your age, clearly those guys find out above their level and don't know what else to say about you.
    I never stand the idiots who accuse me I lie about my age/ location. Like... why the fuck would you care?
    I am 24 and they either tell me I look 38, either I look younger and I like to lie that I am older.
    Ban them and move on. Put whatever age you want.
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    If YOU are comfortable at 39 then put that and fuck them! You can't control the filter and perception of what people have of you. What you CAN control is blocking these losers.
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    I always encourage people to post their real age instead of posting younger (a year, eh) but that's just because I think there's a belief that women who are older can't make as much money so they lie down a few years (sometimes to a point that is quuuuiiite noticable) and it's just not necessary. If you can make money with a younger posted age you can make money with your actual age.

    But in the end it's your hustle and if it makes you more comfortable posting younger, then, yeah, fuck em.

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    I gotta say sometimes when I look on streamate I laugh a bit about girls who advertise themselves at 18, and they CLEARLY look like waaaay more. Just saw one today in the first page, she looks over 40, if not more and says she is 18 hahahaha. I guess guys don't like lies when the woman's age is clear. But in your case, just an year won't make ANY difference. In fact, I advertise myself way younger, I'm 23 but I do look way younger as well.
    So, just tell them to gtfo hahaha

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    Well, I am 31 but I advertise 19 to 22. It goes with my hustle and cam personas. Guys are fine with that However, I still look 19 and have a very young voice. My voice is stuck at 16 Plus, I have this innocence look to me....so it works. However, it does not matter if you advertise at your real age or younger/older. We are just offering them illusions and fantasies anyways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Well, I am 31 but I advertise 19 to 22. It goes with my hustle and cam personas. Guys are fine with that However, I still look 19 and have a very young voice. My voice is stuck at 16 Plus, I have this innocence look to me....so it works. However, it does not matter if you advertise at your real age or younger/older. We are just offering them illusions and fantasies anyways.
    True. But when I used to be an escort guys would ALWAYS complain in a forum about girls advertising their age when they don't look like it at all.
    In your case it's fine since you do look like that age but this person in specific looks way over 40 and advertises at 18. Really not realistic at all

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    Put the age that you feel like putting as long as it realistic. A lot of the ladies I know knock off a few years but not too much. Im 37 on SM and no one says shit to me about my age. I always get I look younger.

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    I generally take what guys say worth a grain of salt, tbh. I hear "no WAY you're 42, you look too young" all day, but they're in a chickas room who is clearly in her 40's saying "no WAY you're 32, you look so much younger" a few seconds before (literally happened to me 2 days ago)

    Also, I think the difference between 21-31 can be marginal, but it's a gaping chasm between 32-42+. Sorry, people will hate me for saying it, BUT....

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    I refuse to lie about my age on sm for two reasons. 1. I'm 30 and I look 30. I don't want to perpetuate this ridiculous belief guys have that at 30 you should look old. You don't.. at 30 you simply look like an adult.
    2. My hustle is based on transparency with my customers. If I lie about something as silly as my age why should they trust anything i say?
    No power in the 'verse can stop me.

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    ^THIS.
    I'm taking off the gloves, sorry, it's time.
    Why are you ashamed of your age by saying you're younger? Because, nope, you are, you say you aren't but you are. Sorry, I am throwing my hat in the ring on this one. You can say a million times that you hate how you get told you look younger every day, or guys ask you for creepy weird rp when you list your age, but GUESS WHAT??? They say that shit to people ten years younger than you, and ask for creepy weird rp for women ten years younger than you. CHANGING YOUR AGE DOESN'T STOP THAT SHIT!!!

    I'm sorry, I'm just fucking sick of it, say your age ladies, and if you look awesome for your age, that's fucking fantastic,but stop feeding into this concept that youth is beauty in women, because its not. Its not just being young, its being amazing, so stop cutting yourself short and be your age.

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    Why care if anyone lies about their age? Pretty sure we all lie about our names, many lie about location, relationship status, etc. If someone wants to change their age its really none of our business. We have fake personas, sometimes people dont feel comfortable posting their real actual info. I've seen 25 years olds look twenty years older and Ive seen women 50 years old look 30. Genes and lifestyle play a huge factor in how you look, not just your real age. I put 37 on SM because when I started modeling back in the early 2000's everyone said to cut off five years so I did. Freeones and all the huge sites have me at my fake age and it would be a pain to change it. No one cares if Im really 42. I've posted my real age on social media and no one cared. People could care less what your real age is, assholes will say you look older, younger, half dead, on crack, etc because they are assholes.

    On SM if you're thirty or over we are in the mature section. When did thirty become mature?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    ^THIS.
    I'm taking off the gloves, sorry, it's time.
    Why are you ashamed of your age by saying you're younger? Because, nope, you are, you say you aren't but you are. Sorry, I am throwing my hat in the ring on this one. You can say a million times that you hate how you get told you look younger every day, or guys ask you for creepy weird rp when you list your age, but GUESS WHAT??? They say that shit to people ten years younger than you, and ask for creepy weird rp for women ten years younger than you. CHANGING YOUR AGE DOESN'T STOP THAT SHIT!!!

    I'm sorry, I'm just fucking sick of it, say your age ladies, and if you look awesome for your age, that's fucking fantastic,but stop feeding into this concept that youth is beauty in women, because its not. Its not just being young, its being amazing, so stop cutting yourself short and be your age.
    Indeed! Women can be beautiful at all sort of ages. Actually, the most sucessful and well-paid escort in Sydney is in her 40's...

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    But that's what I'm saying Jane, if no one cares, why do it? I get it if the model is concerned about privacy issues, but mostly people only lie "up" as a joke because clearly being older and actually being young is hilarious. It smacks of ageism to me, and I haaaate that. Why do we all need to be younger? Because women who are older aren't desirable except as a niche market? I just don't think that's true. Clearly we can all do anything we want and if we make money, who gaf, but it really does bug me that we can't just be okay with our age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JaneBurgess View Post
    On SM if you're thirty or over we are in the mature section. When did thirty become mature?
    bahahaha, I am 40 and just barley becoming mature....barely.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    But that's what I'm saying Jane, if no one cares, why do it? I get it if the model is concerned about privacy issues, but mostly people only lie "up" as a joke because clearly being older and actually being young is hilarious. It smacks of ageism to me, and I haaaate that. Why do we all need to be younger? Because women who are older aren't desirable except as a niche market? I just don't think that's true. Clearly we can all do anything we want and if we make money, who gaf, but it really does bug me that we can't just be okay with our age.
    I totally understand what you're saying. I personally dont want to be younger, I like how I look now better than I did when I was 25. I think some people lie because they dont want to be in the MILF niche. I personally hate that niche myself. I dont want some weirdo asking me if I have kids, I dont even want to talk about kids on a cam site. At our age people think we are MILFs or cougars and that I hate.

    I also dont think Streamate did any of us a favor by saying if we are 30 or older we are mature. If we want to be in the mature category we should be able to put ourself in there, not have a site do it for us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JackAlexander View Post
    bahahaha, I am 40 and just barley becoming mature....barely.....
    Ha me too. I keep getting 22 year olds asking me if Im a cougar. Ugh

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    Personally, I look at sex work like it is all a big illusion. This is a fantasy gig.Now, some women can make money off being themselves. Which is great. I say that I am younger because it makes me more money.However, I make money off showing different sides of myself. As a pso, I play women from 18 to 40. I am about my money and I will do tons of things to make more. Now, I believe that women can make money at any age, race, size, and etc... However, I make cam money off playing 19 to 22. That has nothing to do with ageism or other people's insecurities. It has everything to do with my hustle. I am about make the maximum amount in this industry. If I need to play younger, so be it. I will play younger on cam, over the phone, and as a sugar baby. I did not grow up with Western Beauty standards. So, this youth and beauty concept means nothing to me. Nor, do I buy into that! I am simply playing young to grain more money. If men will give me more money to play 19 to 22, then I will do so. If I am still in this industry pass 35, then I will play the milf if I can. Everything is a money dance in this industry to me. I will alter my looks,age,name and wardrobe for that money. Plus, customers do not need to know anything about the real me. I keep everything an illusion because that is how I was taught. Customers come for the fantasy....not for the real me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    ^THIS.
    I'm taking off the gloves, sorry, it's time.
    Why are you ashamed of your age by saying you're younger? Because, nope, you are, you say you aren't but you are. Sorry, I am throwing my hat in the ring on this one. You can say a million times that you hate how you get told you look younger every day, or guys ask you for creepy weird rp when you list your age, but GUESS WHAT??? They say that shit to people ten years younger than you, and ask for creepy weird rp for women ten years younger than you. CHANGING YOUR AGE DOESN'T STOP THAT SHIT!!!

    I'm sorry, I'm just fucking sick of it, say your age ladies, and if you look awesome for your age, that's fucking fantastic,but stop feeding into this concept that youth is beauty in women, because its not. Its not just being young, its being amazing, so stop cutting yourself short and be your age.
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    Why do you care if your customers trust you or not? This is sex work! This is entertainment! They are buying your time for an illusion and fantasy. You perform, get paid, they jack off and they will come back if they like your performance. Some of them may pay for you to pretend to be their girlfriends or wives. But they do not want the real us. They come to have fun and we should have fun. It is not like they are your friends, lovers, or family members. They are just customers. I assure you that most of them do not care for the real us. We are just jack off material,their comfort until, objects to use for their desires, or their entertainment. Very few actually care about your true self. So, why be transparent to them?

    Quote Originally Posted by oCURIOUSo View Post
    I refuse to lie about my age on sm for two reasons. 1. I'm 30 and I look 30. I don't want to perpetuate this ridiculous belief guys have that at 30 you should look old. You don't.. at 30 you simply look like an adult.
    2. My hustle is based on transparency with my customers. If I lie about something as silly as my age why should they trust anything i say?

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    Let me put this another way. If you think you can make more money hustling at a younger age, great, that's your hustle, go for it. Though I have to ask, how do you know it makes you more money? (I'm honestly curious, I'm not trying to be a shit bag). I'm saying people seem to think the well dries up somewhere around 37 and suddenly start back tracking their age, and that, to me it's terribly disappointing. Being over 40 is not all MILF and Cougar and mommy play and somewhere along the line we got this idea that that's the only role for a woman that age and dear CHRIST NO I want to be sexy *readjusts button back to 30's*.
    I get requests for milf and cougar and mommy play, but I can guaren-fucking-tee so does 0Curious0 at 30 so who the fuck cares about age? Guys who are younger than you with a penchant for it will always ask, fuck, so will guys who are older. I just hate people thinking there is some kind of time frame on what an attractive woman is, like you hit 40 and suddenly all you are is a dried up sack of shit no one wants to stick their dick in.

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    I love it when Kitcatt gets fired up! LOL Personally, the comparison thing about wondering why other models do this or that is a waste of time for me. If a performer wants to say she is 18 and she is 40 knock yourself out. Who cares? I would never take the time to peek in on a performer and then look at her profile and say SHIT! No way she is 25! Who has the time? Go for it. Nothing anybody should call another performer out on. Go and make money anyway you can. How they do it is none of my business. Love ya Kitcatt!

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    Point taken Ginger, *smooch*.

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    Because after saying that I was 19.....I start making extra 600 and up camming. Plus, my phone listings featuring myself as 19 year old.....have been getting tons of customers.For me, playing younger works and it is fitting. Also, it is pretty good to do that camming part-time on the weekends.Actually, I soon as I start marketing myself as 19 year old....then my camming and private phone listings sales have hit the roof. Age is just a marketing device for me. Personally, I never believed in the whole women stop being sexy after 37 thing. That is not apart of my cultural traditions...so I only care about that stuff when it comes to this industry or the vanilla workforce. Other than that, I could less what people think about age.


    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    Let me put this another way. If you think you can make more money hustling at a younger age, great, that's your hustle, go for it. Though I have to ask, how do you know it makes you more money? (I'm honestly curious, I'm not trying to be a shit bag). I'm saying people seem to think the well dries up somewhere around 37 and suddenly start back tracking their age, and that, to me it's terribly disappointing. Being over 40 is not all MILF and Cougar and mommy play and somewhere along the line we got this idea that that's the only role for a woman that age and dear CHRIST NO I want to be sexy *readjusts button back to 30's*.
    I get requests for milf and cougar and mommy play, but I can guaren-fucking-tee so does 0Curious0 at 30 so who the fuck cares about age? Guys who are younger than you with a penchant for it will always ask, fuck, so will guys who are older. I just hate people thinking there is some kind of time frame on what an attractive woman is, like you hit 40 and suddenly all you are is a dried up sack of shit no one wants to stick their dick in.

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    I lie about my age, so what? I lie about my age in my chat room when my profile states my fake age I add/subtract what I feel like at the time. All I hear is 'no you're not you're X, says on the profile' then I roll my eyes, smile widely and exclaim 'so some of you do read it then?!' and pretend to faint.

    My age is 21 because I like to play the persona of college girl putting myself through school as it has always been a lucrative hustle for me, especially when I was using sex work to put myself through school. I'm 27 but look and sound much younger, however I just started getting my small wrinkles and love them, when it suits me I will whack a few years on overnight and if anyone mentions the discrepancy I'll say, so what? I'm not of the thought that older means past my sell by date, if anything I look better now than at 21!
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    I lie about my age but I look much younger than I am. I am 33, say I'm 28 and most guys guess 25-26. I feel like staying in my 20s keeps me open to an entire other tier of men. So if you wanna stay 39, stick at 39!

    I have no idea what you look like or what you wear on cam but it might not even be your looks. Many men pick up on social cues that are a give away to real age even over cam. Twenty two year olds for instance, have a completely different outlook on life as opposed to say me who is 33 and is no longer naive and carefree. Always an exception but you get what I'm saying? So my cam persona is much more curious and exploring than in real life.
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