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    Default Newbie escort here...need advice

    Okay so I am brand new to this. I've done research and all that good stuff. I've been taking appointments for about a week now. I'm loving it, I never realized bbw was such a high demand thing. Now I had a man wanting to meet and it seemed like the universe was protecting me from him. His car broke down on the way to town, his text messages were getting lost and not making it to me. Something at the last minute just said "don't go, danger Will Robinson". Now he's threatening bad reviews. I've not cancelled a single set appointment until this guy. I went with my gut. How do I combat a negative review?

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    I'm paranoid so I think he might have been trying to lure you somewhere to rob you. Broken down car plus texts not getting through just sounds so.....ton of bad luck you know? Btw I had a guy lie about standing me up for a date claiming his brakes went out.... anyway time bore out it was a fib. If he is making threats message the admin of the forum... believe it or not some bad reviews are pretty transparent.

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    I appreciate the peace of mind. I'm by nature untrusting of people in general, I've got a great gut instinct about the majority of possible scenarios in life. His car breaking down made my radar go up. He was coming to get a room and picked a place I know to be sketchy. It was just all red flags flyin. I'm going to be investing in some dog mace, it's way more damaging than the human kind. He sent me a message informing me of all the bad possibilities I'm fully aware of lol, trying to warn me against it. I'm more than capable of handling physical confrontation, it's those mind game life ruiners that I fear the most like this guy was threatening. Unlucky for him and anyone like him, most phone numbers lead you directly to a Facebook profile chalked full of reasons they don't wanna take me to task.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hippievirgo View Post
    Okay so I am brand new to this. I've done research and all that good stuff. I've been taking appointments for about a week now. I'm loving it, I never realized bbw was such a high demand thing. Now I had a man wanting to meet and it seemed like the universe was protecting me from him. His car broke down on the way to town, his text messages were getting lost and not making it to me. Something at the last minute just said "don't go, danger Will Robinson". Now he's threatening bad reviews. I've not cancelled a single set appointment until this guy. I went with my gut. How do I combat a negative review?
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    I just wasn't sure how seriously online reviews were taken. In my life experience usually people only leave mean reviews about things when they don't quite understand that it's their own mistakes that caused an issue. I was hoping this wasn't much different.

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    He can't review you unless he has met you.

    How did you screen him? Do you know his real info or did you use references? This is one of the reasons I don't think it is a good idea to screen using references alone. Generally, a kind is less likely to leave a bad review when you have his real info- just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    He can't review you unless he has met you.

    How did you screen him? Do you know his real info or did you use references? This is one of the reasons I don't think it is a good idea to screen using references alone. Generally, a kind is less likely to leave a bad review when you have his real info- just my opinion.
    I found a nice set of reference questions I pull from. So far everyone has been connected to Facebook through their phone numbers, so verifying their identity has been quite easy. I'm thankful for my social media detective skills lol, and that it's been that easy so far. I know it won't always be, but while I'm building money so i can be in a position to do official background checks it helps.

    I want to do a website or blog, the only thing that scares me is people I know finding it. I've got my very closest people that won't rat me out, but I know the best way to keep that from happening is to keep my circle very small. I'm still building my business and figuring things out.

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    This what you say, "sometimes life takes a turn where you know that something is not right. My gentleman friend never seem to get his act together. His text messages were garbled, his car broke down and after trying to connect I knew it just wasn't gonna work. We all recognize bad vibes. That's life."

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    depending on how many good reviews you have so far it usually has no affect on business. prepare to have many more experiences with time wasters in the future.

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    If it's OK, I hope a man's perspective may be helpful. A normal guy wouldn't be so focused on just you, especially since he has never even met you. He should be looking at his other options if some dates don't work out, the "many fish in the sea" attitude. This is supposed to be fun. Instead, he is obviously an angry and controlling type. It's YOU who should be posting a review about him someplace warning your fellow providers. Any business will tell you about the customer (or potential one) who is not worth the trouble.

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    Thanks y'all. I guess I just worried cus it's still so new to me. The online reviews as though they bought a faulty charger from amazon really concerned me. I have noticed through finding some that those particular men seem to think buying our time means they can do literally anything, and if we say no to something that makes us uncomfortable we're going to get a bad review. Obviously men are pigs or we'd have to find other jobs, but some guys really take the cake.

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    If you never met the guy and he leaves a TER review - write to them, explain that you have simply never met him, copy and paste or screen shot the texts if you want, and they'll more than likely remove.

    Guys use reviews to try and manipulate a situation - if you provide good service then the majority of your reviews will be great and the odd maniac leaving false info or a bad one isn't going to make or break you. Just like with Yelp.

    Stand your ground, go with your gut and politely and calmly don't give in to any shit.

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    Get verify him or whatever the site is ... it's helpful and you can warn other females about idiots you run across.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hippievirgo View Post
    Thanks y'all. I guess I just worried cus it's still so new to me. The online reviews as though they bought a faulty charger from amazon really concerned me. I have noticed through finding some that those particular men seem to think buying our time means they can do literally anything, and if we say no to something that makes us uncomfortable we're going to get a bad review. Obviously men are pigs or we'd have to find other jobs, but some guys really take the cake.


    I've noticed guys with deep personality disorder take hobby ing waaaay too seriously. They're basically the runt of the football team trying to run his mouth in a locker room full of bigger dudes.

    Once you catch on to this....slice these mother thumpers out of your life....

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    Haha he kept on until I just said I screenshoted everything and was just gonna post that as my review of him. He got really nice really fast.

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