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    How do you guys go about greeting members on Streamate? This is something i consistently struggle with because I'm shy. I just do the standard "hi there!" w a smile but it seems to drive away members.

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    I have the following pretyped:

    1. Hi, how are you? Can you see me?! (fucking black screen)

    2. What's your name?

    3. NTMU

    4. What are you in the mood for?!
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    I don't talk to them until they talk to me. There is no right or wrong way to greet members, do whatever you are comfortable with. The more comfortable you are the better you will be on cam just in general.

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    I also have this pretyped when I want them to tip:

    Please tip golds because you appreciate my time and admire my beauty
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    Quote Originally Posted by angelbby View Post
    I just do the standard "hi there!" w a smile but it seems to drive away members.
    No, in SM members come and go all the time. It's a normal part of the customer culture. Feels stink, but it's not you driving them away. they're just too used to browsing.


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    ^^ Yes! there are just tons of rubberneckers around dont take it personal. I also greet I wait for them to talk but mostly Im already talking to someone else cause I normally have lots of people.

    If Im alone and guys are popping in and out I just stare right into the camera with my sexiest look! Play with my hair, blink often teasing little smile on my face but the trick is stare straight into your camera while you do it dont look at yourself on the screen and dont look at the chat log right away you need to make that connection!

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    As of lately, "What's up fuckboys and boypussies"





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    I ignore them all until they say hello to me first. I like to be chased...I never do the chasing.

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    I do not greet them either, unless it is a long time reg that I adore- I do not even greet a lot of regs.

    Every so often, I will make a comment about their name, but not say it.

    For instance, member name flexilover, I would say something like, "I have been flexible since I was born, I bet I can get my legs behind my head." Catches their attention far better than saying Hi. Typically after a comment like this convo or private begin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SoloDesire View Post
    I ignore them all until they say hello to me first. I like to be chased...I never do the chasing.
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    I also ignore until they say hi. A lot of guys are just checking you out, why waste your energy on a guy who's not really into you. If they make an effort to say hello, you've got something to work with.
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    With so many who come in and out constantly i usually wait until they stay for a min or so and if they do ill say hi sometimes but lately i have been trying to not say hi unless they do first. Wears on my voice all night long.

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    I don't greet them individually unless they say something first or it's one of my long-term regs. But I do greet the room collectively every few minutes to encourage them to engage with me. And I'm always pushing for shows. "Hi everyone! Who's ready to fuck?" works like a charm.


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    I say what's up guys, how's it going, etc. to my room in general every so often. I don't ever call them out by name unless it's a regular. Sometimes when I ignore my room I get more shows.

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