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    Have you ever dealt with people telling you "You're so pretty no one deserves to see your body you're too good for that" blah blah blah. But, um, shouldn't sex workers be gorgeous? To be honest it still doesnt sit *too* well with me that guys that hound me for my number will now be able to see me naked but they are paying. They are advancing me.
    So I've been working lame rat race jobs through college (aside from PSO work). But what ive noticed over the years is that I don't meet women of my caliber in rat race jobs, even if they too are in college or just need a job. I dont meet women that are beautiful, motivated and are determined to better their lives. i think they decided not to waste thier time. I began to notice that sex workers were some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. I'm beginning to feel that many beautiful motivated women who aren't born rich dabble in sex work to advance themselves.
    I just got hired at my first exotic dancer job and I start this weekend bc I've decided I'm done making $11/hr and sitting at a cubicle all day or serving tables and cleaning up peoples snot rags. I only live once and I often feel so sad bc I can't do any of the things my soul yearns for bc I never have money. I'm fed up. I've never been so excited to be an exotic dancer and experiment with cams and start LIVING.

    Did any of you ladies struggle in the beginning with thoughts of being too good for sex work or too good for the rat race lifestyle?
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    I came from a culture that's possibly more sexually backwards than American culture. Only the lowest of the most desperate do sex work. Its something that haunted me every time I had a bad day. The next day when I see a few hundred $$$ though, the feeling tends to go away.

    If you're hot and willing to take charge of your life and do adult work of any kind, $11/hour will be known as "that humiliating time in my life when I worked for chump change."

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    This has got to be a troll post....if not...OP might be to delicate for camming. Just a hunch.

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    Hey sunshine,
    It is not all rainbows and diamonds. This is some of the hardest work in the world. Besides, no one is too special for sex work. However, you need some sort of personality and hustle because you will not make it on looks alone. So, make sure you develop your hustle very well before you get too excited.



    Quote Originally Posted by ChocBrunette View Post
    I have been wanting to get into sex work for YEARS but I have been going back and forth with myself and some other people over the years on if I'm "too cute" for sex work.
    I am a beautiful woman (like many of us are). One of those women that other women walk up to and say "you are really beautiful".
    So for years I didn't get into sex work bc I felt like my "cute ass" was too special. "You're so pretty no one deserves to see your body you're too good for that" blah blah blah is what I've heard for years from people. But, um, shouldn't sex workers be gorgeous? To be honest it still doesnt sit *too* well with me that guys that hound me for my number will now be able to see me naked but they are paying. They are advancing me.
    So I've been working lame rat race jobs through college (aside from PSO work) bc I bought into being "too special" for sex work. But what ive noticed over the years is that I don't meet women of my caliber in rat race jobs, even if they too are in college or just need a job. I dont meet women that are beautiful, motivated and are determined to better their lives. i think they decided not to waste their time. They decided to cash in on their looks and charm. I began to notice that sex workers were some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. I'm beginning to feel that many beautiful motivated women who aren't born rich dabble in sex work to advance themselves.
    I just got hired at my first exotic dancer job and I start this weekend bc I've decided I'm "too cute" to make $11/hr and sit at a cubicle all day or serve tables and clean up people's snot rags. Im "too cute" to not yet have the mustang I've been wanting and too cute to not be able to travel bc I make shit money. I only live once and I often feel so sad bc I can't do any of the things my soul years for bc I never have money. I'm fed up. I've never been so excited to be an exotic dancer and experiment with cams and start LIVING.

    Did any of you ladies struggle in the beginning with thoughts of being too good for sex work or too good for the rat race lifestyle?

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    ChocBrunette, I will say this. Although I have never danced, escorted, or been on a web cam, 5 years of being a heroin dealer brought me into contact with several dozen of all the above.

    Surprisingly enough, looks played only a small role in regards to who would or would not be some of the biggest earners I encountered. I agree as to the accuracy of payscale.com's statistics that strippers have a wide average salary range of $19,653 - $122,890. I've seen girls who hated their job and would pay their way out of center stage dances, work only to obtain some small meager goal of 30 dollars and bail. One in particular didn't buy a new pair of stripper heels in the several years I'd known her!

    On the flip side, the strippers that are legendary in my area, were motivated, showed up at least five times a week, and mastered the job in all aspects be it pole dancing, social engineering, target selection, and up selling. In a nutshell they were hustlers! As DonaDiabla said, the stripping line of work is rough. The escort gig takes a toll on any person doing it as well! Although most guys can't grasp the concept, sex for money is a traumatic experience for a girl! Sure the money is quick, but some of the girls I knew in the hooking game literally destroyed their enjoyment of recreational sex entirely! :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChocBrunette View Post
    Have you ever dealt with people telling you "You're so pretty no one deserves to see your body you're too good for that" blah blah blah. But, um, shouldn't sex workers be gorgeous? To be honest it still doesnt sit *too* well with me that guys that hound me for my number will now be able to see me naked but they are paying. They are advancing me.
    So I've been working lame rat race jobs through college (aside from PSO work). But what ive noticed over the years is that I don't meet women of my caliber in rat race jobs, even if they too are in college or just need a job. I dont meet women that are beautiful, motivated and are determined to better their lives. i think they decided not to waste thier time. I began to notice that sex workers were some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. I'm beginning to feel that many beautiful motivated women who aren't born rich dabble in sex work to advance themselves.
    I just got hired at my first exotic dancer job and I start this weekend bc I've decided I'm done making $11/hr and sitting at a cubicle all day or serving tables and cleaning up peoples snot rags. I only live once and I often feel so sad bc I can't do any of the things my soul yearns for bc I never have money. I'm fed up. I've never been so excited to be an exotic dancer and experiment with cams and start LIVING.

    Did any of you ladies struggle in the beginning with thoughts of being too good for sex work or too good for the rat race lifestyle?
    Can't wait to hear you report back in a year from now after you learn what it takes to last longer than a 30-year old male virgin.

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    The ladies I've encountered that claimed to be too good for sexwork have all been broke.

    I knew one that worked for verizon, bragged about her $12 an hour position there and went on and on about how classy she was until she was laid off. She was evicted from her apartment just two weeks ago.

    These women will Netflix and Chill for free and go out with broke bums from some online dating site and look down on women like me for getting paid for it.

    I just laugh ... all the way to the bank.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post
    The ladies I've encountered that claimed to be too good for sexwork have all been broke.

    I knew one that worked for verizon, bragged about her $12 an hour position there and went on and on about how classy she was until she was laid off. She was evicted from her apartment just two weeks ago.

    These women will Netflix and Chill for free and go out with broke bums from some online dating site and look down on women like me for getting paid for it.

    I just laugh ... all the way to the bank.

    Yup. That's basically it

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post
    The ladies I've encountered that claimed to be too good for sexwork have all been broke.

    I knew one that worked for verizon, bragged about her $12 an hour position there and went on and on about how classy she was until she was laid off. She was evicted from her apartment just two weeks ago.

    These women will Netflix and Chill for free and go out with broke bums from some online dating site and look down on women like me for getting paid for it.

    I just laugh ... all the way to the bank.
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    Any guy saying "you're too good for..." is playing Captain Save a Ho. Male control tactic.

    However it is much harder than you seem to think. I'm sensing a bit of an ego from your original unedited post. Newbies that start with an arrogant attitude tend to get it knocked out of them by their first negative money night or a customer getting one over on them.
    If you seriously want to do this, go read a lot of Hustle Hut and lower your expectations. Highly unlikely you will be making good money right off the bat.
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    I'm not understanding your comment ..

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    I guess it did come off as arrogance but it was actually sarcasm. People always tell me I'm "too cute or too good" so what I mean is no im "too cute or too good" to work shitty jobs. Id rather take my chances with sex work. You need confidence to be a dancer so that's nothing negative. I have to believe I'll do well, why wouldn't I? I know i have to learn to hustle and not just depend on my looks, that's a given.

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    So true! And its always the ones who are really easy to get into bed with guys that judge sex worker's the most!

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