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    OK despite being fairly smart and pretty, I failed at body rubs. For months ive been kicking around the idea of doing this. Finally took out ad on BP, and NR. At first I just wanted to do out call. But everyone who contacted me wanted in call. I realized they are married, and needed me to host. So I got motel room (it was clean and not in a bad area), and tried to schedule. Unfortunately, it was "too far" for many of these men. I should have gotten room by airport or downtown.
    The one I actually scheduled, called me from the parking lot to tell me two police officers were at the motel, a few feet from my room. I opened the door and inquired what was up. (I have girl next door look and have never been afraid of cops). Long story short, an underage teen girl ran away, hooked up with guy she met online, they ended up two doors down from me. The girls mother found out where she was, called the police and he was arrested. It took 3 hours for them to clear out. I made zero $, became disgusted and gave up.
    But I'm back at square one, in vanilla job barely making it.
    Should I try again? Many BP guys were a huge waste of time, wanting me to send nude pics but not making apt. Also some of them pushed for "full service" and acted offended when I said no. But by and large, BP at least got the phone ringing

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    Try again and this time get a nice business class hotel if you can afford it.

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    Keep demanding they pay for the room. One of them will. & Screen these guys...let them know you know how to find them.

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    Chin up Mary! Im in the same boat as you. It will take some time to build up a regular clientele. I personally like to tell myself "you have to spend money to make money." Although Im practically at zero, and have taken a part time job, I still plan to continue.

    It sounds like an airport area, business class hotel may be a good area for you. I would wait until a paycheck comes in from the regular job and try again or, ask the fella to get the location as mentioned above. I was able to do that my very first night, but I offer a bit more than body rubs and offered it as a trade + a required minimum tip.

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    Regarding BP since the media got all over it the amount of flakes on there increased. Beware of most Google Voice calls you get from BP...most Cheapo guys & pranksters use that right away.

    There are normal guys on BP but you have to weed through them.

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    Thanks for the advice, I'll give it another try. The jackass who called me regarding the police, is the guy who pushed me to get the room. Then he backed out like a whiney girl.

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    Btw Google Voice calls are distinctive from the 1980s ringtone that you hear when the call is being connected.

    True story- I had to keep my door locked at a hotel once when a guy showed up for a last minute appointment at the same time as 2 police cars. Turns out the cops were there for a parking lot fight. I felt bad cancelling the appointment like that BUT if that dude could not put two & two together....he was too much trouble to deal with.....

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    I would also try Eros for body rub, you'd be surprised how many guys browse at work and go out on their lunch break. I wouldn't get the room until I had at least 2 bookings. Also see if another girl is willing to share the cost of a room. be friendly, flirtatious but professional during phone calls, I guarantee they will call you back. also make a free website and get good pics. A lot of guys choose body rub cause they're not comfortable with full service so you almost have to appeal to them in the same way as an escort. Finally, try to offer other services like body-to-body, naru, body shampoo for variety. Good luck girlie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post
    Try again and this time get a nice business class hotel if you can afford it.
    Despite ny lack of experience, this was my first thought.

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    It takes a while before the business starts coming in. Screen, screen, screen! Keep at it, even just little by little. Some guys won't even feel comfortable contacting you until they've seen you posting for a while. Many body rub appointments are married guys in the daytime. Also, remember that guys who try to negotiate rates are the ones most likely to try and negotiate other stuff that you're not comfortable with in person. So stay away from them if you can.
    I have the misfortune to believe neither in promises nor in fidelity. ~Marie Duplessis

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