




MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
Can't trust most of these people out here. Never bump uglies with anyone raw. Gotta see those test results!
Oh and I like how the article mentioned dating apps and hookup apps. Yeah although there a tons of "normal" sane people, you never know what kind of unsavory people you may meet from online dating so definitely be safe with sexual health.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”
Yet another reason I avoid online dating like the plague and will never online date again. Never got an STD, but too many crazy people. The guys (most) have no respect, the minute you turn them down they freak out and call you fat and ugly (lol if I'm fat and ugly why click on my profile) and they don't even want to have protected sex. Nope not falling for that! Seriously, ladies if anyone online or not, pressures you to have unsafe sex, run! Don't let these pigs guilt you!




I'm not a hoe BUT lol.... in my experience most men don't use condoms, they "think" they're clean because they don't have symptoms. They also don't care if who they're fucking has something, they're just glad to be fucking something.
And they almost always NEVER go get tested. Even if they tell you they did, they're full of shit unless you see a paper stating so. Idc how big his dick is or how sexy he looks, ladies please make him wear a condom or you will end up with something you cannot wash off. TRUST ME .
Granted we all have HPV. everyone has it. But that shit can cause cancer and warts (sometimes). Most HPV is harmless and just hangs out but still.... MEN. WEAR SOME GOD DAMN CONDOMS . Stop taking other's lives into your own hands just so you can get off . IF you have an STD and you fuck a chick raw and don't tell her or lie to her and say you didn't know, i'm pretty sure she can take your ass to court just saying.
A friend of mine got herpes from her then BF and he "claimed" he didn't know, which very well could be true as most men don't have symptoms, but you know what, he would have known had he been a responsible adult and gotten tested while he was out fucking everything that walked. I actually saw how in pain she was from her inital outbreak . It was so sad, but for some bizarre reason, after that, she didn't get another outbreak and it's been forever like this shit was back in highschool. But anyway WEAR CONDOMS. GET TESTED DAMMIT





Most ppl (especially men) just don't care since there's medication out there for everything. Why be careless on purpose to live on meds? Especially permanent meds.
Yeah I take multivitamins daily but the fewer pills the better. I guess people have lapses in judgment especially when horny or naive but yeah it's no joke and can happen to anyone.
Speaking of herpes be careful with oral sex too. My last venture I used condoms but not for oral sex. I did dick and mouth check and saw nothing however that asymptomatic shedding scares me and this fool mentioned afterwards that he gets cold sores. So yeah ...... not good. I'm thinking I'm doing good using condoms but for oral sex I took a risk by just looking at his skin for any abnormalities vs seeing test results and knowing he is monogamous/safe if sleeping with others.
according to an older thread most people don't use protection giving / receiving oral sex. You can get genital herpes if you receive oral sex fromsomeone with active cold sores and you can get cold sores if you give oral sex to someone with genital herpes. Also herpes can be transmitted genital to genital (vaginal / anal sex) and mouth to mouth (kissing). I think people assume, like that one troll on customer section, that herpes can only be transmitted genital to genital and might be confused on how they or their partners ended up with it.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





I never worried about STD's until I got HPV from a fuckboy I should never have gotten involved with. The only guy who ever pressured me to not use condoms.
Do you ladies really have guys get tested before sleeping with them? I feel like that makes complete sense, but I would be nervous to ask. How do you go about discussing that?
Depends on your threshold for risk.
If you're just hooking up/dating/casual sex/fwb and certain they don't have active lesions on their mouth/genitals you should be fine with condom.
I would request test results if they agree to be monogamous (or open relationships with condoms) and want To go bare with me only.
Also the unprotected oral sex thing is freaking me out a little. I may start requesting tests for bare oral action. Most people don't use dental dams or even condoms for blow jobs. so I'd want to know before I receive oral sex. I've used dick check method and never gotten disease from giving oral sex thankfully - I don't swallow cum otherwise this method would not suffice. But that's just me though.
Don't be nervous. Some guys are more willing to go get tested/provide current results than others. The best thing would be to go together. But I'd do it before any sex (especially condomless sex) goes down. Most guys are so glad to possibly fucking you they'll get tested with you if you ask. If they say no then they look like the idiots who turned down sex cause they were either hiding something or to scary to take charge of their health which is not good.
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“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Eh, none of 'em are trustworthy test or no..the test is current, but in the meantime what if they have/get something?
& yea they're clueless about it, it's condom or nothing for me, but also I have to feel comfortable.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
^^^yeah I think same thing like what if he photoshopped his results or what if he had risky sex after the test.
I personally would feel more comfortable going together same place for testing.
And yeah I guess after you take precautions (youve done everything you could do) then you just have to have some level of trust that the guy going bare only with you and is not some reckless cheater with a sex addiction.
And depending on your style threaten to go Lorena Bobbitt on his a$$ or be ready to sue in court if despite your best efforts he still manages to deceive you about his sexual health status.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”
I'm a full panel kinda girl. Lol The guy I'm currently with, we got tested the same day and exchanged results when they came back. I don't date casually, but even ltr still get regular testing.





Get tested together, full panel, same clinic. Repeat in one month.
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In a class I once had, I learned that the STD rates are highest among the wealthy believe it or not. I never fact checked this, but I believe it. I think people with money value pleasure and thrill over safety since their money can buy them out of most things.










Actually, STD transmission rate in the modern era is the highest among the young. About half of all New STD cases occur among people aged 15-24.
http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/statistics/
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My partner of 2 years and I got tested after he got a rash from shaving (he got on webMD and thought the worst, ugh).
Thankfully everything was fine but regardless. We get it 2x a year but we don't swing or poly or w/e.





I personally think at least part of this is the result of there not being a huge HIV/AIDS scare. I grew up in the 90's and someone I know died of AIDS in the late 1980's (when I was a very young kid) but I saw what happened to him and his body. Young kids these days are not "scared" of HIV/AIDS anymore. The risk is still just as real, and in certain areas (like MINE) http://www.miamiherald.com/news/stat...e56192770.html there is a crisis.
I guess if you don't think/ realize that you could die from having unprotected sex, the actual reality if how serious the whole thing is does not set in. I had a guy friend of mine make a joke about how he has gotten chlamydia a few times and it was no big deal because he just took a Z-PAck. Um... helllo???
Maybe it's different for women because we can lose our fertility... maybe its generational or regional but I know for me; I used condoms all the time; every time with the exception of a boyfriend I was with for 7 years and on occasion with one I lived with for 18 months.
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