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    Default How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    I'll try not to start too many new threads since I've just landed on this thread, but I'm really curious: I've been going go to a club every 3-6 months for about a few years now, and somehow dancers who undoubtedly have lots of customers come in between there still know my first name instantly along with details about what I said conversationally 6 months ago or even something I said to an entirely different dancer. I wouldn't be able to memorize this stuff and suck with names so it's foreign to me, Is this a trick of the trade or some sort of mnemonic thing?

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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    I actually have notes in my phone about every customer..lol.

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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    ^Can't believe I didn't think of that!

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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    Quote Originally Posted by EbinV View Post
    I'll try not to start too many new threads since I've just landed on this thread, but I'm really curious: I've been going go to a club every 3-6 months for about a few years now, and somehow dancers who undoubtedly have lots of customers come in between there still know my first name instantly along with details about what I said conversationally 6 months ago or even something I said to an entirely different dancer. I wouldn't be able to memorize this stuff and suck with names so it's foreign to me, Is this a trick of the trade or some sort of mnemonic thing?
    I have had many dancers completely forget me if I only saw them a few times after sometime has lapsed. Often I notice if haven't seen a dancer in a longtime that only got maybe a few dances and VIPs from she will confuse me with a different customer or confuse details about me: like where I work, where I went to college, my hobbies, what other clubs I told her I have gone to, etc.

    So maybe the dancers who remembered you so well just remember you because either they make a point to keep notes on customers or maybe you did or said somethings that made her time with you very memorial.

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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    I remember you if you spend a lot of $$, if you are hot, or if you're an asshat. Anything in between slips my mind.
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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    Because we pay attention.

    I especially remember if they buy dances or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by November_Scorpio View Post
    I have had many dancers completely forget me if I only saw them a few times after sometime has lapsed. Often I notice if haven't seen a dancer in a longtime that only got maybe a few dances and VIPs from she will confuse me with a different customer or confuse details about me: like where I work, where I went to college, my hobbies, what other clubs I told her I have gone to, etc.

    So maybe the dancers who remembered you so well just remember you because either they make a point to keep notes on customers or maybe you did or said somethings that made her time with you very memorial.
    I think it has more to do with the club itself or managerial style or whatever. The place is pretty well reviewed.. more than some of the neighboring places, and making the clients feel instantly comfortable and remembered probably helps.

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    Because we are all witches and use magic!
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    Default Re: How do dancers remember clients names and info so well?

    Back when I cared I used a note taking app. I'd document their name, contact info, the dates they came in/spent money with me, how much they spend, details about them (fav drink, where they're from, etc). This helps cultivate regulars and helps you remember where to focus your energy - the higher paying customers who respect you and your time.

    I also documented the guys that tried to waste my time and not spend money so I'd remember to avoid them in the future.
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