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    I feel like everyone at my club totally hates me. I know I'm here to make money, not friends, but I'm the new girl so I feel nobody likes me. Kind of fuckjng up my vibe! Does evey dancer feel this way every once in a while?

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    Look your taking the girls money. They may feel you could be pretty or hustler. Don't pay no mind but money unless they try to fuck with you
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    I'd like to think it's not that they hate you. I've been a new girl in a few clubs and I've found (at least with the clubs I've worked in) that other girls will take a while to warm up to you. Girls come and go all the time and unless you've been there several months or already know someone there then it takes a bit of time to form some work friendships. It all depends on your club and the group of girls they have there though. Maybe they really are all a bunch of bitches. I'm super lucky that the girls in my club all get along, like scary well and new girls are invited for drinks and to chat when its quiet almost immediately.

    Its pretty normal, just do your thing 'cause you really don't need the other girls anyway.

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    Why do you care? Focus on customers and be quiet yet polite with dancers. We've told you this a million times already.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KlutzyCammer View Post
    I'd like to think it's not that they hate you. I've been a new girl in a few clubs and I've found (at least with the clubs I've worked in) that other girls will take a while to warm up to you. Girls come and go all the time and unless you've been there several months or already know someone there then it takes a bit of time to form some work friendships. It all depends on your club and the group of girls they have there though. Maybe they really are all a bunch of bitches. I'm super lucky that the girls in my club all get along, like scary well and new girls are invited for drinks and to chat when its quiet almost immediately.

    Its pretty normal, just do your thing 'cause you really don't need the other girls anyway.
    This ^^

    It's pretty common for dancers to be cold towards newbies because we see sooooo fucking many girls show up, work a shift or two at a club, and then leave. Once you've been there for a while they'll be friendlier. Why waste time and energy on a person who probably won't be there in a week?

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    I tried to break the ice by telling a girl she had pretty hair, and she told everyone I was a lesbian and I was hitting on her. How petty and childish do you have to be? I'm not talking yo any of these bitches. Keep yo myself! The only thing is that its a tiny club, and they're talking shit to customers so I'm suddenly not making shit. I walked away with $28 last night

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    I thought you just switched clubs and were loving your new one?

    If you're making good money then don't worry about what the girls think of you. And don't talk to anyone because you seem prone to conflict.

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    I think you've had this reply ready, but you should just ignore them but be polite if someone talks to you. There is really no reason to chat up other dancers when you are new. There is plenty of time to slowly get to know people better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    I tried to break the ice by telling a girl she had pretty hair, and she told everyone I was a lesbian and I was hitting on her. How petty and childish do you have to be? I'm not talking yo any of these bitches. Keep yo myself! The only thing is that its a tiny club, and they're talking shit to customers so I'm suddenly not making shit. I walked away with $28 last night
    I was like that once, only difference is learn first time. You might wanna read forums about this.... it say alot not to even make eye contact to these girls. Girls are catty, your taking there customers
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    Remember you are not there to make friends, you are there to make $$$$$$, if you feel too newbie, grab a girlfriend that dances too because all these old veterans will pick on every fucking new hire. Same shit everywhere. Do you sweetie, smile even if your life is shit, because men dont want to see disgruntled bitches griping about petty drama. Be cordial, but dont be nice either. Wishing you stripper magic $$$$$

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    I read on here somewhere that to be nice is to paint a target on your back..
    I find what most everyone says on here to apply to life in general
    The other day I was waiting @ a focus group place w/a bunch of ppl to be called in to do the group.
    I kept my nose in a book, some girl was was talking to everyone & blah blah about we were late to be called etc.
    Then I heard "Some people have an attitude, they'll run into the wrong person" Maybe it was about me, maybe it wasn't. But did I GAF or give it any notice? Hell no.


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    I love that quote whirlerz. "to be nice is to paint a target on your back." Yes, it's true. There are girls I've never spoken to, who seem to dislike me for no reason whatsoever. Strippers can be nasty. Who cares about them and their petty problems. Ando yes, it is them who have a problem, not you. It's never really about you
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