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    I've started camming on a new site recently. I was working on mfc and chaturbate for almost 3 years, and I was rarely insulted. It may have happened like 3 or 4 times in that much time.
    I always had my country blocked, but on this new site I decided to not block it to see how it goes. Girls are separated by country on this site so I decided to see if I could get more money from people from my country.
    Not only that didn't happen, I get insulted every single day.
    People here are so cheap, you get called a "gold digger" for asking for money. These morons tell me things like "dont ask for tokens and you'll get them" or "international girls don't ask for tokens and make more".
    I've been called a whore, slut, bitch, I've had dudes insinuating that if I'm camming I actually will fuck with them or anyone.
    Guys from here ask me to escort for 100 dollars! Are you fucking kidding me?
    I've never felt so annoyed like I am now.
    Sorry for the little rant thread but I just wanted to share it.

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    The struggle is real!

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    Does all this really surprises you? We live in a world where the male sense of entitlement is strong. A lot of "men" if you wanna call them that, talk like that. It's worse online because they can hide behind their computers but that's who they truly are. Money isn't everything but if I'm gonna be objectified, I'm gonna get paid for it.

    I must say I've been very fortunate because I can't count on one hand the amount of times I've been insulted. Men love and are so intrigued by me. A lot of it is because I always give off the impression that I require kindness, respect and good treatment on and off cam from everyone!
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    Hi Dorami

    Sorry to hear that guys have been shitty towards you. Unfortunately it does happen to the best of us. Can I ask which country you're from? You should never feel that you are of lesser worth than girls from other countries.

    Don't ever lower your prices and keep your chin up! I'm sometimes amazed by how many guys in my own country are absolute cheap asses, apart from those maybe living in London. Most of my business comes from the US. I think those guys like my accent, so it's something perhaps different from them.

    If I were you, I'd block your country and carry on as you are. Or perhaps go back to MFC and Chaturbate if you were doing okay on there. But don't ever take what these cheap asses say to heart, they are only pissed with themselves that they can't afford you!

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    I agree with Marina Starr. Its all male entitlement. You become so very aware of it once you work on cam and you see how girls are expected to submit to it and men are constantly lead to believe that they actually are entitled! Camming really opens your eyes up!

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    Welcome to the adult industry. Where men insult us as they get off to us, expect us to do that which few normal women do, & women feel the need to belittle each other to try to get ahead. It's a sad truth, but being treated like crap is expected to a point.

    Also, bear in mind that different sites have different cultures. It's all about finding the ones that work for you & your style of camming. No site is asshole free, but some definitely have a more respectful site cultures than others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by foxirox View Post
    Hi Dorami

    Sorry to hear that guys have been shitty towards you. Unfortunately it does happen to the best of us. Can I ask which country you're from? You should never feel that you are of lesser worth than girls from other countries.

    Don't ever lower your prices and keep your chin up! I'm sometimes amazed by how many guys in my own country are absolute cheap asses, apart from those maybe living in London. Most of my business comes from the US. I think those guys like my accent, so it's something perhaps different from them.

    If I were you, I'd block your country and carry on as you are. Or perhaps go back to MFC and Chaturbate if you were doing okay on there. But don't ever take what these cheap asses say to heart, they are only pissed with themselves that they can't afford you!
    I'm from Portugal. What I find funny is when they say how international girls aren't there for money and that I'm a gold digger... Lol sure.

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    Also, I know it is part of the industry, but like I said, I barely ever get insulted by international people, just from the cheap asses from my country.
    I'm making way more money on this website, not because of the assholes in my country tho.

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    The men who go on cam sites to troll cam models are pathetic shits. Our job is to find the pathetic shits who actually have money and squeeze it out of them like we're bloodletting and then discarding them like dry turd once they are used up. The rest are just sign up refuse. Refer them to BongaCams or Chaturbate with your click and sign up affiliate links, LOL, to get a bonus.
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    All I have to say is that if you made it 3 yrs without enduring this abuse you are VERY lucky indeed.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    I've started camming on a new site recently. I was working on mfc and chaturbate for almost 3 years, and I was rarely insulted. It may have happened like 3 or 4 times in that much time.
    I always had my country blocked, but on this new site I decided to not block it to see how it goes. Girls are separated by country on this site so I decided to see if I could get more money from people from my country.
    Not only that didn't happen, I get insulted every single day.
    People here are so cheap, you get called a "gold digger" for asking for money. These morons tell me things like "dont ask for tokens and you'll get them" or "international girls don't ask for tokens and make more".
    I've been called a whore, slut, bitch, I've had dudes insinuating that if I'm camming I actually will fuck with them or anyone.
    Guys from here ask me to escort for 100 dollars! Are you fucking kidding me?
    I've never felt so annoyed like I am now.
    Sorry for the little rant thread but I just wanted to share it.

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    Haha WOW I didn't know you were so KINKY!.. hehe

    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    The men who go on cam sites to troll cam models are pathetic shits. Our job is to find the pathetic shits who actually have money and squeeze it out of them like we're bloodletting and then discarding them like dry turd once they are used up. The rest are just sign up refuse. Refer them to BongaCams or Chaturbate with your click and sign up affiliate links, LOL, to get a bonus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    Also, I know it is part of the industry, but like I said, I barely ever get insulted by international people, just from the cheap asses from my country.
    Girl, block Portugal. Male population of 5 million, including infants and the elderly? Pffft. Not worth the aggravation.

    I often find that people from your own country don't appreciate you. It's a special kind of entitlement.


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    For the guys who want to meet you just charge them a fee to try and convince you, eg. I charge 1000 tokens on MFC for 10 minutes. Now, when a guys asks to meet I just tell them my fee. I actually had a guy pay it. We should get paid to put up with any bullshit. Find a way to get it.
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    Women are socialized to give and men are to expect and they know it. There comes a time in a woman's life when she knows better and stops taking shit.

    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    I agree with Marina Starr. Its all male entitlement. You become so very aware of it once you work on cam and you see how girls are expected to submit to it and men are constantly lead to believe that they actually are entitled! Camming really opens your eyes up!
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    In my opinion, any time you are camming on a site in "free chat" mode, you're gonna deal with more assholes, beggars, entitled dudes, freeloaders. I'm actually surprised that you've only had a few incidents in the 3 years you've been on MyFreeCams and Chaturbate. That's amazing! You must've had basics and guests blocked on MFC then. Lol.
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    Block the outright jerks... if you find ones who are spending, take their money for as long as you can put up with it.

    As a camgirl who has also danced, I'm mostly unphased by being insulted/treated badly online, because at least it's not in person! And you can block/ban those losers. I've been treated pretty well online, but I think it's a combination of having a thick skin, banning, and staying on the big name sites.

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    Yeah you can block and ban them. I actually enjoy using them to make myself look better though. If your quick and witty this can actually be really fun cause most of these trolls are about as intelligent as a post so it doesnt take much to turn what they said into something fun.

    Ie:
    Troll: Are your parents proud of you?
    Me: No, My mom always wanted me to be a prostitute like her. She thinks cam girls are underachievers.


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    Omg that is so funny!.. I want to use that line! if I can even remember it..

    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    Yeah you can block and ban them. I actually enjoy using them to make myself look better though. If your quick and witty this can actually be really fun cause most of these trolls are about as intelligent as a post so it doesnt take much to turn what they said into something fun.

    Ie:
    Troll: Are your parents proud of you?
    Me: No, My mom always wanted me to be a prostitute like her. She thinks cam girls are underachievers.

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    That was awesome Deep!! I bet all the slow guys are like wha?????? They can't even keep up with that quick wit!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    In my opinion, any time you are camming on a site in "free chat" mode, you're gonna deal with more assholes, beggars, entitled dudes, freeloaders. I'm actually surprised that you've only had a few incidents in the 3 years you've been on MyFreeCams and Chaturbate. That's amazing! You must've had basics and guests blocked on MFC then. Lol.
    Never had basics/guests blocked, I just ban a lot at the minimum bullshit I see so they don't have the time to try it. Breathing in a way I hate? Ban

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    Yeah you can block and ban them. I actually enjoy using them to make myself look better though. If your quick and witty this can actually be really fun cause most of these trolls are about as intelligent as a post so it doesnt take much to turn what they said into something fun.

    Ie:
    Troll: Are your parents proud of you?
    Me: No, My mom always wanted me to be a prostitute like her. She thinks cam girls are underachievers.
    Funny enough, on the cam site I am now I really like replying to bullshit, because they are really dumb. I don't think it makes me look good for everyone tho. Some say I'm a "badass" others just say I'm always "arguing" and there is "no fun". Smh.

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    Lmao.. I am getting the same responses.. maybe they say that to every girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    Funny enough, on the cam site I am now I really like replying to bullshit, because they are really dumb. I don't think it makes me look good for everyone tho. Some say I'm a "badass" others just say I'm always "arguing" and there is "no fun". Smh.

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    Don't let them get you down hun, you're worth more than that! They know it, they know they can't have you and it frustrates them not having the control.

    I had a guy email me asking to watch/join Cyrus and I in person and to lick up the mess for $$, I declined and told him I don't meet up, he got really mad. He wanted to make sure I knew that he thought what I did was disgusting and sex should be saved for marriage. I just copy and pasted his first message/offer back to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arielsilverr View Post
    Don't let them get you down hun, you're worth more than that! They know it, they know they can't have you and it frustrates them not having the control.

    I had a guy email me asking to watch/join Cyrus and I in person and to lick up the mess for $$, I declined and told him I don't meet up, he got really mad. He wanted to make sure I knew that he thought what I did was disgusting and sex should be saved for marriage. I just copy and pasted his first message/offer back to him.
    I get a lot of those. They have no problem to ask me if I escort or meetup but as soon as I say "no" they start saying I'm a prude bitch and that I probably fuck with everyone anyway lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    Funny enough, on the cam site I am now I really like replying to bullshit, because they are really dumb. I don't think it makes me look good for everyone tho. Some say I'm a "badass" others just say I'm always "arguing" and there is "no fun". Smh.
    Yeah the trick to spinning it is to always agree in the positive. I learned this because I used to do improv a lot when I was younger. The key to improv is to always answer in the positive. As soon as you answer in the negative it shuts the conversation down and it cant go any further. You want these trolls to run away with their tail between their legs cause they cant out wit you. For example.

    Negative improv:
    Doctor: That leg looks bad. We're going to have to amputate it.
    Patient: You can't! I've grown really attached to it!

    ^^ Although the answer the patient gave is funny he still shut down the other actor. Improv is about flow between the actors and in this case actor two shut down the flow by answering in the negative.

    Positive Improv:
    Doctor: That leg looks bad. We're going to have to amputate it.
    Patient: Again?

    See the difference?

    You want to keep the flow open with trolls so that they bail out cause that makes them look like trolls and you look intelligent! Although in a few rare occasions I have had some stick around and become really nice. The other day a guy said to me "7.99 a min?!?!? You look like a crack head" and I responded "Crack isnt cheap!" He laughed, tipped and has actually just become one of those clients that swings by tips me like $10-$25 and then moves on. But this is rare.

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