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    I don't know if anyone does this, but do any of you ban anyone who says they dont have money? I know a lot of girls just let them be if they arent really bothering them or something like that, but does anyone ban them?
    Can it damage my earnings in anyway? I know the more people you have in room the more probabilities you have to earn more, but I find myself banning a LOT, but a LOT of people for the smallest things.
    I feel like I don't even try to interact with anyone who I feel like have no money or can help me in any way. I don't even have to patient to reply to "simple" hellos.

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    Why are you doing this job if you cant be bothered to interact? I don't ban them if they announce they have no money. I just scale back on the amount of attention that i give them. If they keep trying to get my attention, I smile sweetly and thank them for dropping by while kicking them from the room at the same time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Why are you doing this job if you cant be bothered to interact? I don't ban them if they announce they have no money. I just scale back on the amount of attention that i give them. If they keep trying to get my attention, I smile sweetly and thank them for dropping by while kicking them from the room at the same time.
    I'm doing this job because I need the money, that simple. This is not my dream job. This is also the only job I can get at the time being since I'm a student full time.

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    That last response may have come off bitchy so let me add this, try working on a site that doesn't require free chat. Honestly, I'm reading so many threads around here where it just may be an issue of whether or not camming is the right job for you. Oops going back into that bitchy tone. Sorry for that but I think it needs to be said more often. For the OP not entirely directed at you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    I'm doing this job because I need the money, that simple. This is not my dream job. This is also the only job I can get at the time being since I'm a student full time.
    Fair enough. But if this job isn't something you can get into then you may continue run out of patience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Fair enough. But if this job isn't something you can get into then you may continue run out of patience.
    I've been doing this for more than 3 years now. I actually dont understand how you asking me why I do this job if I dont like to interact with cheap fucks has anything to do with the thread itself. I dont have to justify why I do this job, I'm just asking this to see if I'm being too strict like I mentioned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    I've been doing this for more than 3 years now. I actually dont understand how you asking me why I do this job if I dont like to interact with cheap fucks has anything to do with the thread itself. I dont have to justify why I do this job, I'm just asking this to see if I'm being too strict like I mentioned.
    Well then yes you are being too strict.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Well then yes you are being too strict.
    I just really don't understand your previously "bitchy" replies for no reason whatsoever. But k.

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    I ban if they say they don't have money. Fuck, I ban if they don't talk, LOL! If I want to do charity work, it would be non-sex related like feeding the homeless. Would they go to Starbucks, Whole Foods and business places and say that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    I've been doing this for more than 3 years now. I actually dont understand how you asking me why I do this job if I dont like to interact with cheap fucks has anything to do with the thread itself. I dont have to justify why I do this job, I'm just asking this to see if I'm being too strict like I mentioned.
    You dont have to justify yourself. But that's not gonna stop me from asking. I was genuinely curious because almost every thread you've created are vent threads. I wasn't keeping up until now until this latest one. So I asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I ban if they say they don't have money. Fuck, I ban if they don't talk, LOL! If I want to do charity work, it would be non-sex related like feeding the homeless. Would they go to Starbucks, Whole Foods and business places and say that?
    I used to ban the ones that dont talk too, I would say if in 5 minutes no one talks I'm going on a banning spree and would ban EVERYONE in the room unless I knew they have talked already..

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    You dont have to justify yourself. But that's not gonna stop me from asking. I was genuinely curious because almost every thread you've created are vent threads. I wasn't keeping up until now until this latest one. So I asked.
    I use this forum mostly for ranting/venting and also to search about topics that I don't have much knowledge about when it comes to camming and other virtual sex work topics. No one in my life knows about my work so I do feel the need to talk about it sometimes so I do it here.

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    I do the same. I type, use sound when I'm ready to ban. I know they could see me, hear me yet REFUSED to acknowledge.
    If they lack human decency, I ban.
    Quote Originally Posted by Dorami View Post
    I used to ban the ones that dont talk too, I would say if in 5 minutes no one talks I'm going on a banning spree and would ban EVERYONE in the room unless I knew they have talked already..
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    I don't ban them, I just focus on the others and wait for their 5 minutes to run out. They may actually have money but just be saying that they don't because they don't want to be pressed into spending right then and there.
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    if they tell me they have no money i ban them if they wont talk to me after ive said hi to them after a few minutes i kick them out on SM if they come back that same day and i say hi to them again and they wont talk to me again i ban them . its just fucking rude like if u dont have sound on thats not my problem nor do i know that im just going to assume ur hands arent were they should be on ur keyboard - ur hands belong on ur dick when ur paying me .
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    Way too much energy to ban or kick anyone (unless they're insulting other members or talking about sine thing illegal). I mainly ignore anyone in free chat who isn't directly giving buying signals. I used to get annoyed when I first started camming and did free chat but now I view free purely as a tool for gaining greater profile visibility on a site. if you're not trying to sell anybody, you feel far less bothered by the cheapos x
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    If they tell me they are flat out not going to spend money on me or the site ill ban, but i wont ban if they dont have money that day and say they cant spend that day. I have had alot come back and become spenders so you never know. Now if they say that and keep saying it and it becomes the same thing everytime they visit my room, i will definately ban after they proved they are lieing.

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    It's your room, do whatever you want, if freetards bother you, ban them.

    I don't do it anymore because I realized that just because they don't have money now, doesn't mean they will be that way forever. But, if I get really bored, I kick them out so I can refresh the energy in my room. I ban guys who talk incessantly without tipping. I ban them for bragging about never tipping. I ban them if they brag about tipping other models and they have no points, (on MFC you can see their points, the higher the points, the more they have spent overall). I also ban if they have no sound and expect me to type because that really annoys the hell out of me--they are essentially asking for your sole attention without paying and that really ticks me off. I ban if they demand shit for free, eg. smile bb, ass bb, tits bb.
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    This thread inspires me to ask if they got food stamps/welfare/disability cheques before I ban. I sure could use those.
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    I try not to think of the people on the other side of the computer screen as bank machines. They are human beings. And just because someone doesn't have money (or maybe they are just saying that?) doesn't mean that they a.) don't actually have money and b.) wont have money in the future. Perhaps they are just trying to get to know ME and see what kind of person I really am? No one wants to jerk off to a girl who is just there for the money, they want to know that we will be into it as much as they will. If I act like I need the money, (even though I DO need and want the money) that will come across on screen....and people will get turned off. I do my best to make my job fun and make it seem like the money is secondary, and my being sexy comes first.

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    What I assume your goal is, is to sell shows, be they private, exclusive, or gold. In order to do that, you need to persuade your potential client. Now, this is the key, you can be successful at persuasion, you can easily convince a guy that he wants a show with you, but if he cannot afford it, it won't happen. What's also important is a person's willingness to spend. A person with $5 to happily spend or $500, will approach you with the same eagerness and, from what I've seen in face-to-face sales, confidence in their financial decisions (these may be stupid decisions, but plenty of fools are happy and comfortable).

    Figure out who you can successfully persuade. (What's your niche? etc)
    Figure out what their situation is (if they can only afford a boob flash, or a 60 min exclusive)
    Figure out their willingness to spend. (Most people portray it the same way, regardless of how much they have to spend)

    Some guys have temporary financial hardships. A guy who makes $5k a month probably has plenty to blow on webcam, usually, but maybe this month he had to completely repair and replace his air conditioning unit or some other freak thing. He'll be fine in two weeks when he gets paid. Persuade him, get him to favorite you, discover his willingness and ability, then let him come back when he's been paid.

    Weed out the ones who simply don't or won't pay, which many of them say is on principle. For the rest, assess why they aren't paying you now before you block.

    That said, I don't think you're too strict for what you're willing to tolerate, but I think it's worth it to analyze the member a little more before banning. I look through other models' comments, and I can see which users regularly buy pvt/exc shows, and I know, should they come into my room, that they are willing to spend, so it's up to me to figure out how much, how long, and when to persuade them.


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    Some might not have money today but they could have money tommorow. You can ban them for whatever reason you want its your room.

    The thing is if your coming here wondering if your strict or not you could be wondering if this is effecting your income results.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    Some might not have money today but they could have money tommorow. You can ban them for whatever reason you want its your room.

    The thing is if your coming here wondering if your strict or not you could be wondering if this is effecting your income results.

    That's the reason I made the thread, to see if being too strict could affect my income or not.

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    He does make a good point: men are intimidated by beautiful women. I'll try my best to not look so beautiful next time I hoe
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    Some might not have money today but they could have money tommorow. You can ban them for whatever reason you want its your room.

    The thing is if your coming here wondering if your strict or not you could be wondering if this is effecting your income results.

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    What about the guys that spent once and are a number 2 on Streamate? Do you ban them if they have not done a show in awhile? i have this guy who is a 2 and keeps coming into my room after a show "Wow that was a long show!" "Did you cum?" "Can you fit a 10 inch dildo into your pussy?" Obviously wanting free dirty talk. I ignore his questions but have not banned him quite yet. He says he makes $10 an hour and wants to do a show in Early November. Well, dude I don't pre plan shows without money. If I'm on I am on that day, if not, well YOUR LOSS not mine. He had the audacity to tell me he spends too much lately and has no show for us. I'm so ready for the block button but don't want to lose potential money.

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