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    So I moved out of my last apartment where my heavily schizophrenic roommate resided. I left because said roommate was schizophrenic. He wanted to be an asshole and retaliate for leaving him to pay rent on his own. Someone tipped him off the town I lived in and he left me a nasty email stating he would let the town know I was camming. He said I cannot cam from my apartment because it's considered a "business". He told me my landlord could evict me is they chose to if they found out. I cam during the day and I'm off by 10 pm. I cannot soundproof my apartment until I have the funds. I rent from a private landlord and I live upstairs. I can hear people talking downstairs occasionally but the noise is muffled. When I turn the fan on I don't hear anything so not sure if they can hear me. So when it all comes down to it I'm going to have to stop camming because my landlord may decided she doesn't want a sex worker here or I'm violating zoning laws? She was okay with it when I said I did "data entry" from home. Can somebody familiar with the law tell me if I should give up on camming altogether? I really don't want to but I don't want to be evicted either.

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    Default Re: So I can be evicted for needing to support myself?

    Can you find out if there are zoning laws against it? There's a legal website called nolo.com, Idk if they deal w/that stuff though. Most areas have a free legal service, can you find out & talk to them? They are staffed w/volunteers so you may not be able to speak w/them right away.
    Does this jerk actually know where you live (besides the town)?
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    I do believe you are just a 1099 contractor. You don't need to be zoned for a home business unless you are altering the structure (ie addition for a store front), increase traffic patterns/parking external effects ie noise, odorso ect

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    I know in my contract for my flat last year it said we couldn't use the premise for a business, can you check in your contract? ultimately though it'll be his word against yours, unless he has proof?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PixiieGirl View Post
    I know in my contract for my flat last year it said we couldn't use the premise for a business, can you check in your contract? ultimately though it'll be his word against yours, unless he has proof?
    My lease has a clause against using my apartment for a business. I told my landlord I was an independant contractor and I did online tasks for money and she was okay with that. I did not tell her that camming was part of my income. I didn't feel it was her business. My roommate rambled on about people stealing glass birds in our apartment and how management was poisoning him. Hard to say if what state of mind hes in right now and if anyone would listen to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbwbrianna View Post
    My lease has a clause against using my apartment for a business. I told my landlord I was an independant contractor and I did online tasks for money and she was okay with that. I did not tell her that camming was part of my income. I didn't feel it was her business. My roommate rambled on about people stealing glass birds in our apartment and how management was poisoning him. Hard to say if what state of mind hes in right now and if anyone would listen to him.
    it sounds like you'll be fine tbh, if you think the nature of the work might be an issue maybe just drop in something about your unstable ex-housemate casually when you next talk to the landlord?

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    Default Re: So I can be evicted for needing to support myself?

    Do you have a landlord and tenant board association.

    You live with a roommate who you say is mentally ill which basically means anything he tells you you can't take 100% serious until you get paper work proving you are being evicted.

    Laws are different everywhere so you need to find your local landloard and tenant board and find out what can happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbwbrianna View Post
    My lease has a clause against using my apartment for a business. I told my landlord I was an independant contractor and I did online tasks for money and she was okay with that. I did not tell her that camming was part of my income. I didn't feel it was her business. My roommate rambled on about people stealing glass birds in our apartment and how management was poisoning him. Hard to say if what state of mind hes in right now and if anyone would listen to him.
    Don't let your mentally ill ex roommate destroy your money. You already told your landlord you work from home and she was ok with it. Millions of people work from home. I too told my landlord I work from home. Of course I didn't mention phone sex or camming because I don't tell people that. You just keep producing the rent check on time and I'm sure you will be fine. Your landlord knows that most work at home people are private contractors and she accepted you despite there being a clause against using the apartment as a business. If you ignore your ex roommate long enough, he may just move on to trolling his next victim. I can't imagine changing my career because of one asshole.
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    I highly doubt people would believe him, even with information.. people would care less to look. If he has started a ton of dramatic crap with you, then I'm sure he has bothered this landlord plenty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Don't let your mentally ill ex roommate destroy your money. You already told your landlord you work from home and she was ok with it. Millions of people work from home. I too told my landlord I work from home. Of course I didn't mention phone sex or camming because I don't tell people that. You just keep producing the rent check on time and I'm sure you will be fine. Your landlord knows that most work at home people are private contractors and she accepted you despite there being a clause against using the apartment as a business. If you ignore your ex roommate long enough, he may just move on to trolling his next victim. I can't imagine changing my career because of one asshole.
    Yeah, it is kind of foolish worrying about some asshole who is fine one minute and bonkers the next. He can't help himself because hes severely mentally ill and has told my former landlord some crazy shit which resulted in the landlord calling the police and threatening to evict him if he didn't stay away from the office. I tell the truth about my income but not necessarily where it comes from just because I don't feel like it's anyone business. I'm a private person and always pay my rent on time. I just got shaken up because this nutjob would not leave me alone and I'm going to block his emails.

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    Default Re: So I can be evicted for needing to support myself?

    Really, the worst that could happen is he makes the claim and the landlord then asks you if it's true (which I doubt they will even care) and you tell them you already told them what you do and that your ex roomate is crazy. I wouldn't worry about it.

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    Right don't worry about him. And he already had a landlord call the cops on him? I highly doubt he will be a major problem for you. Your landlord only cares about the rent and not destroying the property. He needs to get his meds reevaluated. But that's his problem not yours.
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    You may want to ask a lawyer familiar with camming/adult oriented business. As far as I know the zoning laws apply to home business where customers come to the house - which doesn't apply to camming.

    You could dig up some dirt on him and remind him you know xyz about him like if he wants to be dirty then you can throw his dirt right back.
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    Technically he's threatening blackmail & defamation, the former of which is a federal offense. Contact a lawyer, let them know what's happening, and have them let the crazy roomie know he can only contact you through your lawyer.

    If you did get evicted, you've already told your landlord you work from home, correct? you could probably sue for wrongful eviction at that point, depending on your local laws. again, contact an attorney.

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    People have their own personal beliefs and some of those ppl are cool as long as it is not illegal. She might nt like it but its not illegal. This can be sticky bc NO by law she cant evict you out but she can make you feel uncomfy. Maybe if it poses a problem she wil just agree to let you go. Then again you must think of what she is losing as far as a stable tenant who pays her rent on time and you dont seem like a crazy party girl. Its hard to find good tenants. It can work out but it is nerving until you know whats going to happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbwbrianna View Post
    So I moved out of my last apartment where my heavily schizophrenic roommate resided. I left because said roommate was schizophrenic. He wanted to be an asshole and retaliate for leaving him to pay rent on his own. Someone tipped him off the town I lived in and he left me a nasty email stating he would let the town know I was camming. He said I cannot cam from my apartment because it's considered a "business". He told me my landlord could evict me is they chose to if they found out. I cam during the day and I'm off by 10 pm. I cannot soundproof my apartment until I have the funds. I rent from a private landlord and I live upstairs. I can hear people talking downstairs occasionally but the noise is muffled. When I turn the fan on I don't hear anything so not sure if they can hear me. So when it all comes down to it I'm going to have to stop camming because my landlord may decided she doesn't want a sex worker here or I'm violating zoning laws? She was okay with it when I said I did "data entry" from home. Can somebody familiar with the law tell me if I should give up on camming altogether? I really don't want to but I don't want to be evicted either.
    Did you let him know you were moving out with enough time to find a new roommate? Did the last apartment complex let you out of your lease with them? He might have mental issues but if you just moved and left him to pay the rent for the both f you I would be pissed off too. Some areas do not allow you to do any kind of business from your residence and that could include camming. Just because he has an illness doesnt mean people wont take him seriously if he does contact your landlord.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JaneBurgess View Post
    Did you let him know you were moving out with enough time to find a new roommate? Did the last apartment complex let you out of your lease with them? He might have mental issues but if you just moved and left him to pay the rent for the both f you I would be pissed off too. Some areas do not allow you to do any kind of business from your residence and that could include camming. Just because he has an illness doesnt mean people wont take him seriously if he does contact your landlord.
    They agreed to let me go because I left on good terms. They knew how crazy he was and I don't care about being fair to him since he should have been on meds to begin with. The last complex even offered me a one bedroom but I declined because I didn't need him stalking me or causing problems.

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    The town is not going to investigate this.

    He never said he was going to contact the landlord, just the town- for violation of zoning laws.
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    Without looking at your lease, how would he know what you landlord allows and doesn't? Most private rental properties say no business but what that generally mean is they don't want you to bring traffic to a residential rental property.

    Have your neighbors down stair complain about you making noise? I'm assume no then no need to sound proof. If he told your landlord, you can deny.
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    Contact Attorney Michael Fattarossi.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Without looking at your lease, how would he know what you landlord allows and doesn't? Most private rental properties say no business but what that generally mean is they don't want you to bring traffic to a residential rental property.

    Have your neighbors down stair complain about you making noise? I'm assume no then no need to sound proof. If he told you landlord, you can deny.
    How can they prove that you cam from home?!
    This guy thinks he knows everything but yet is not a lawyer nor has he ever been to law school. Dude would still be an asshole even without schizophrenia as he is a narcissist on top of it. I guess they could google my real name, but since I use a stage name like everyone else they won't come up with much. Neighbors haven't complained I just don't want to disturb anybody. Maybe I leaked a few noises but if the neighbors downstairs are trying hard to listen there's something wrong with them. Started playing soft music in the background to muffle the noise even more.

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    im going for team crazy and unreliable here . hes mentally ill and he says hes going to find where u live and call ur landlord and tell him u do porn in ur house over the internet? ok

    1) hes known for being crazy my the renting manager in the dewling hes currently at and it was so bad u wanted out and they let you because they understand your situation

    2) hes saying hes going to find where you live and tell them what u do for work witch is unprovible unless he knows ur cam name and tell the landlord at ur new place so much wrong with this
    - STALKING
    - defamation of character
    - harassment

    i actually DID have someone call my apartment manager and she didnt believe him .
    it was when i started escorting and i was doing massages and handjobs this dude comes into my place gets a massage then a few weeks later starts emailing me saying hes going to report me to the massage board and blah blah and call my complex manager i asked her if she got any weird phone calls about someone telling her i was hooking in my place she said she did but he sounded craked out and she thought nothing of it.
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