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    This guy has been a regular on a camsite i work on. We got really close and he said he wanted to arrange a session with me in person. Im fine with this cause i do escort part time too. He told me he wanted me to join him & his gf at the time to do a threesome. I was fine with that, but aparently his girl wasn't, & broke up with him, but he complained the sex was boring in the relationship. But He's also told me that a different ex said his cock is often too soft.
    Since his girl left him, he asked for me to get another girl to play with him & I...
    Honestly this made me question if he really even enjoyed our camshows. He's very awkward during cam sex, he has no emotion, speaks in a monotone voice, & takes 2 hours to cum every time! Im very peppy & enthusiatic during sex, so it really hurts my ego to see no matter how i act, or what i do, he doesn't react to it much. He drinks wine, & smokes cigs on & off throughout our cam sessions. Sometimes he will get soft & wont even cum. He cums literally 50% of the time i see him.
    I can always tell when hes getting soft cause he randomly gets silent mid session as im dirty talking & cumming, yet hes not responding. I even try asking him sexy questions & jerk off encouragement, but nope doesnt work. He'll just log out without saying anything then text me the next day saying 'thanks so much beautiful, you were amazing' when it clearly feels like hes lying since he wasnt able to cum!
    Then the next text he goes on telling me that he's watching porn, while checking out my pics. He's also shared that he's turned on by watching porn as he texts me. This makes me feel so unattractive cause he could always experiment with me. I don't understand how he feels more confident sexting me than dirty talking live on cam?
    Another confusing thing about him is, how he likes rough anal porn, but for some reason he thinks that im acting too dominant by just playfully spanking myself or riding my dildo fast & hard. Like what? I don't even do anal so how am i being the dominant one?
    I thought to myself maybe he doesnt think im hot enough, but his ex was very beautiful so i dont know if its an attraction issue. This makes me feel nervous to even go through with meeting him for the first time. I've been feeling insecure about my looks but im not too sure if the problem is on my end. He swears that hes attracted to me but his behavior throws me off my groove.

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    Whatever his cock does or does not do, he obviously IS into you otherwise he wouldn't spend so much time and money talking to you. Quite often I get guys like that who may have erection problems or some other physical condition (or quite often they're coke heads) who spend forever in private and don't 'seem' to be enjoying it lol, but they most certainly are.

    I'd advise you to draw a firm line in your mind right now between him as your cam/escort customer, and anything else you might be feeling. It is NOT a good idea to mix the two. Just relax and do your thing on cam, whatever it is he likes it x
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    So you've never met him before? That part was unclear. Also exactly what is do YOU want out of this, a boyfriend or a paid date? I think you're the confusing one. Why spend so much time trying to analyze someone that started out as a customer especially when it doesn't sound as though you two are compatible? If you haven't met up with him yet, I would say no don't do it. Cuz why its already messy

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    Don't understand why you care this much about a customer. I couldn't give a shit if the guy cums, what his dick does as long as he's paying. This feels troll-y

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    It's obvious that you can make money off of him online and more stressful in person. What is your intention for meeting? There's an intention behind everything we do. If it's not aligned with what your true intention then don't do it.
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    Very troll-y
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    This was already posted, in Life Support, & my advice still stands:

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...213417-deleted

    Idk, if you look in the Cam Conn section, usually they say it's not a good idea to meet custies in person. Added: NEVER a good idea, if you want to escort, do so the safe/correct way, & cam in addition to it. Do not cross line/boundaries.
    Did you screen him @ all? He could be a fucking murderer! Likes very rough sex, not a good sign.
    &, he sounds like an asshole honestly, I'd steer clear.
    Oh, who cares if he likes your shows, this is a job, & honestly it sounds like you're crossing personal boundaries too.
    But good luck whatev you decide.


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    Seriously, why would you want to meet a strange webcam custie with a rough sex fetish? This sounds like a slasher film or Discovery ID television series waiting to happen. Avoid at all and please do not cross boundaries with clients. It is better to be save than sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trish_F View Post
    he goes on telling me that he's watching porn, while checking out my pics. He's also shared that he's turned on by watching porn as he texts me. This makes me feel so unattractive cause he could always experiment with me. I don't understand how he feels more confident sexting me than dirty talking live on cam?
    Newsflash - you are also porn. He's getting excited because he's texting a REAL LIVE PORN GIRL while watching the non-interactive stuff.

    I hope you charge him for the sexy texts. If you don't, then that's why he "feels more confident" sexting. He's getting his rocks off for free.

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    I feel like this forum is going through some form of PTSD so now we don't trust nobody

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    Oh, Ok..
    Hey, OP, changed my advice..
    Yea, by all means, meet someone you don't know, that you haven't screened (assuming?) for paid sex (or regular sex).. Esp that he's into what you call (& prob is) violent porn.
    Btw, there was a 3 women recently murdered, by a guy one of them meet on line, & briefly lived with. It was a young woman, her mother, & her young sister.
    But hey, that's prob one of those one in a million things, ya know?

    But, please, OP don't let this deter you.


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    Camming is 100 percent online fun. No one should be meeting their cam customers in person. Most cam sites dont allow it, its not safe and its why guys think we all are willing to meet them in person. This guy also sounds kinda creepy, really creepy. Keep your escorting and cam separate

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    He sounds like a lot of work.
    Just my 2 cents.
    I'm tired just reading your post.

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