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    So I'm very new to dancing and have only been dancing for a few weeks. Even though I am very new I still have some pole basics / floor moves. My earnings have been average and I find that all the other girls ( even the newbies ) have been doing much better than I have..even though i hustle my heart out.

    So anyways I get A LOT of customers say that I'm " too beautiful " or " way too stunning " and I also have been told I've had weirdo guys who linger around the club "waiting" for me.. I find the normal looking men don't like me / too embarrassed to buy a dance from me . I had a few situations where friends would buy their friend/s dance but they refuse my lap dance .. and get really shy ?! i don't know if I'm doing anything wrong or is it because they might be intimidated by me ?? I consider all the girls beautiful in my club but I'm starting to think that I'm to "pretty" to earn well... i smile a lot but thats because I'm nervous and i generally smile a lot while talking. Has anyone experienced this before ? Is it just me being NEW? Ive had a few men tell me that they wish to one day find a girlfriend as beautiful as me ... its starting to make me think that i come off too nice / girlfriend type ..and maybe they don't want to see me nude?? Does this happen to anyone else??

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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    lol is this a joke?


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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    In the event this post is real, no, you're not too pretty. The literal point of strip clubs is for men to pay money to spend time with unattainable naked girls.

    You probably are being too nice though. Read hustle hut like it's your bible and don't be afraid to be aggressive and pushy when the occasion calls for it.

    Edited to add: Re- the smiling thing. There's nothing wrong with smiling a lot, but if guys comment on it don't get defensive/flustered. Say something like, "Of course I'm happy, I get to work naked!" or "I'm just so excited to get naked for you..." etc. Sweet but dirty is a great combo for most guys.
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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    Honestly you're probably smiling too much and they are probably picking up on your nervousness. Guys don't want nervous girls, they want confident ones who can relax around them. And no, you're not too pretty. As someone who's always been one of the top girls at the different upscale clubs I've worked, I can say that I've made tons more than average by looking hot. The rich guys (read: selective) want the best, even if the best is more expensive.

    Also, is it possible that guys are trying to make you their girlfriend because you're sitting with them for too long without them spending?

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    Yes. You are too pretty.



    But to be serious for a moment, in the club scene looks is not everything. Gotta have confidence and street smarts and other skills like sales too.
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    ^^ LOL!

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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    Or sometimes when a guy says that too, they assume you won't give extras. I've noticed that on the cheap extras seeking customer's excuse.

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    You're never too pretty in the world of stripping! And you cannot get by with just your looks alone. Develop confidence and learn how to hustle

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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    Quote Originally Posted by newb2 View Post
    lol is this a joke?
    That is exactly how I feel lol!

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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    This is a variation on "you don't belong here." They're trying to butter you up and usually avoid spending $. Or they want someone dirty or maybe someone more experienced,. Looks count but hustle is everything!

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    Lol, you need to stop believing everything customers tell you. They are even more full of shit than we are.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.



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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    Either you're a troll or very naive. Either explanation would be very dull. Yawn.
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    I don't know whether this is a troll or not but I will still answer it as a serious question.

    lol no. Nobody is too pretty in the world of stripping. If anything I've noticed the prettiest girl in the club (especially the standout knockout in a dive or mid tier bar) usually makes easier money than everyone else at first. However, I've also noticed the money will slow down after the "10 in a roomful of 4-6s" wears off if they don't have the personality and/or hustle to go along with it.

    You're being too nice. This is what's making them think your girlfriend material. I can be guilty of this as well considering the fact that I don't naturally have an aggressive or shark personality so I have to really force it. I'm not ugly but not a perfect 10 or drop dead gorgeous and I still get guys who want to "take me on dates" after talking to me and not spending money on me when I'm being too nice. I think not hustling and being too nice makes them think you're interested in them as more than a customer so it's best to stick to business. I had to learn this the hard way after losing sales to guys who want to "date me" and won't buy dances yet buy them from the next girl who is a sharper hustler.

    It is important to be nice and make them feel wanted and attractive, that's what they are usually there for. They want attention from an unobtainable girl, but you always want them to remember that they are there to spend money. I do best when I manage to balance the two.
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    LOL girl you're being hustled.

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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    Also don't know if this is a troll, but in case someone else comes along with the same (legit) question...

    No you aren't too pretty, but I see what you could be getting at. A "9" or "10" girl might not do very well in a dive because the patrons are intimidated. A girl wearing a nice lingerie set with rhinestone jewelry might also do badly there. I see how in those scenarios you could construe that as being "too pretty". If that were the case, just move to a more upscale club with different clientele (businessmen instead of blue collar dudes).
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    Lol no Hun. They are just cheap bastards who don't want to pay for your attention , who've come up w a flattering excuse. Every newb gets that line, before we've learned how to hustle and sell. I got "you're far too pure/innocent/better than these other girl so instead of money I'm going to give you my wise life advice".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Also don't know if this is a troll, but in case someone else comes along with the same (legit) question...

    No you aren't too pretty, but I see what you could be getting at. A "9" or "10" girl might not do very well in a dive because the patrons are intimidated. A girl wearing a nice lingerie set with rhinestone jewelry might also do badly there. I see how in those scenarios you could construe that as being "too pretty". If that were the case, just move to a more upscale club with different clientele (businessmen instead of blue collar dudes).
    This actually reminds me of this one time when I was working at this club that wasn't a dive but not high scale by any means (lower mid tier) and this gorgeous, blonde girl was telling me she was struggling with money in that club and the customers didn't seem to like her. I was absolutely shocked because she looked like the blonde playmate that was straight out of the wet dreams of most guys I know. I actually thought about it and ended up telling her I thought the guys were probably intimidated by her and found her out of their league and unapproachable which was probably true. She would have probably done way better in an upper scale club. So yeah, that is definitely a thing too. I noticed 10s in lower tier clubs either do really well or really bad for that reason, it probably depends on what kind of "pretty" they are.

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    Sorry to anyone that thought my question was a joke / troll..but if you don't have any advice to give then simply don't comment. Thank you for the others who could understand where I was trying to come from...

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    Quote Originally Posted by strip.nips View Post
    Sorry to anyone that thought my question was a joke / troll..but if you don't have any advice to give then simply don't comment. Thank you for the others who could understand where I was trying to come from...
    The reason I was wondering if it was serious or not and I think others were too is because this is an industry where girls spend a ton of money on hair, nails, plastic surgery, makeup and the works trying to be as pretty a they can possibly be so it's funny to think that someone would have to worry about being "too pretty"
    Like I said, Good looks are a huge pro in this industry, not a con, you just need the hustle and to be a little more aggressive and confident to go along with it. If all else fails and there are other clubs in the area try a club switch, sometimes it makes all the difference.

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    Im honestly surprised that this thread has gotten as many responses as it has. Typically whenever a guy tells me Im too pretty or whatever I usually equate this to mean he has no money and thinks he can pay me with compliments. OR he thinks I'm boring and has nothing else to feed off of. So then I turn up my sluttiness. Maybe your smiling so much reads that you're nervous and they have nothing else to say because you aren't winning them over with anything other than the way you look. What you think is hustling your butt off may not be what it takes to be a high earner, at this time.

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    Thank you , yeah and I guess I never thought about it in that way .. reading everyone's responses have actually made me understand why it looked like I was being up myself or trolling.. and it sorta makes sense with what ever ones saying. THANK YOU <3 xox

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    You're too naive lol they're fucking with you "you're too pretty" means "I want to talk at you and until you walk away without getting paid"

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    Quote Originally Posted by KaraLynn View Post
    This actually reminds me of this one time when I was working at this club that wasn't a dive but not high scale by any means (lower mid tier) and this gorgeous, blonde girl was telling me she was struggling with money in that club and the customers didn't seem to like her. I was absolutely shocked because she looked like the blonde playmate that was straight out of the wet dreams of most guys I know. I actually thought about it and ended up telling her I thought the guys were probably intimidated by her and found her out of their league and unapproachable which was probably true. She would have probably done way better in an upper scale club. So yeah, that is definitely a thing too. I noticed 10s in lower tier clubs either do really well or really bad for that reason, it probably depends on what kind of "pretty" they are.
    100% agree with this. If you're too pretty what that really means is you look to upscale, too expensive. I've also learned (from reading that "other" strip club site) that customers have a perception that really pretty girls don't give good dances. Also, extras seekers don't like the pretty ones because they assume you're making too much money to be interested in sucking their pickle for $100 bucks. So it all boils down to intimidation. There's a reason why someone whose clearly on drugs, barely brushed their hair that day, and looks trashy, will get dances easier. Customers think they can get away with more. Even if the girl is a 100% clean dancer, for the cheap cuties or the ones who like to treat strip clubs like a brothel, they think they can get what they want from her. But not from the upscale girls. I always find it hilarious how the customers I do have are very wealthy. the average joes act like they're too good to get a dance from me or they just tell me how gorgeous I am but refuse to do anything with me.

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    I'm not trying to sound mean I'm sure you are pretty. But in my experience guys will tell almost every girl there how pretty and beautiful and amazing they are etc. The ones who are aggressive and confident and can connect are the ones who close the sales. Perhaps you are talking to them too long and seriously for them to be giving you all these compliments and wanting to take you out. Try to keep it sweet and simple focused on them and getting a dance out of them.

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