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    Default Re: Am I too "pretty" to earn well ?

    ^^This is spot on. But honestly, when is attracting the right type of customer (wealthy and respectful) ever a bad thing? It's why upscale clubs usually attract the most money; they don't cater to disgusting cheapies. I'd rather get turned away from extras-seekers than be continually violated.

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    my favourite line that I get isyou're too pretty to be here...lol

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    I was thinking what you said Selina about looking too pretty for a dive or mid tier club. I have different outfits I wear for different types of clubs I work at. Like my VS lingerie or dresses wouldn't work in the divier clubs and the cut off tank top & thong wouldn't work in the upscale ones.

    BUT if she's already at an upscale club then thats not the issue. There's a girl at my club who is beautiful but I've noticed her standing around a lot looking a little lost. She's definitely not 'too pretty' for our club but she's probably new and doesn't have a good hustle yet. Being hot & pretty gets the customers attention but having a good personality & hustle is what makes you the money.

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    It totally depends on the club you work in/what the crowd there is like.

    Some men might actually be intimidated by really pretty girls and more average looking girls make them feel more comfortable or less like they are getting played/reminding them this is all fake and about money. Sometimes its just something men say. Sometimes I think again depending on the crowd/club, you might be very pretty but you arent giving off the very sensual/sexual vibes that they want out of the temporary/fast interaction with a stripper. Sometimes you look too expensive or like you are going to be stuck up or like you are going to give air dances 3 feet away in the champagne room of your very hard contact club. Sometimes they want extras and you dont look like you provide it. Sometimes you look too upscale and they are a blue collar guy in a midtier or lower end place and that is just out of their comfort zone after work when they want to enjoy a beer and a cute girl they can relate too or dont feel silly talking to.

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    Also, I wonder if your body language has something to do with? Like you said you smile a lot because you feel nervous, not knocking you. Everyone has felt nervous before and probably still does at times. But you say the guys get shy and dont want to get a paid for dance with you, if they are already the shy type, are you giving off like awkward body language that makes them feel less comfortable?

    Guys seriously need to get a grip and stop thinking that the strip club is a place to come find actual girlfriends. But if you regularly get guys wanting to just date you (this happens to everyone, but like if the majority of your interactions with the customers result in them only wanting to date you and not getting a dance), it could be how long you are talking to them or what you are talking about.

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    If you feel like you are significantly different looking than many of the dancers who are doing well and you're not and you think it's because of your looks; then change clubs. Go around to a variety of clubs and see what customers from a broad spectrum tell you not just the ones at that club.

    I get the "you're too beautiful" thing all the time too so I know how you feel in a lot of ways;I also smile and have social anxiety so I almost never talk to anyone haha
    But I would recommend trying other clubs and finding a club where you're embraced more by the customer base or there is more of your "demographic" ; like for instance I hustle men that are 30-55; above average attractive level and have a ton of money either from family or made it rich rather young etc. that WANT to spend money on the hottest girl in the club. I find I do best at clubs that have my kind of demographic.

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    I've started to have this issue. Instead of getting dances or Vips I get tips or just complimented or stared at. I also feel like if somebody isn't spending I shouldn't be throwing myself at them.
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    But you have to.

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    Like the other ladies mentioned, you are coming off as too nice & might be wasting too much time / lingering around customers without getting paid.i would buy a watch and set a STRICT 5 minute max time limit with customers. If they don’t buy within 3-5 minutes tell them to call you over when they are ready for a dance or to have a good night. I remember there was a new girl that was the sweetest thing ever, cute as a button too - nice body, outfit, ect & could have easily been a top earner in the club if she wasn’t so nice. She was constantly up mine and other girls asses trying way too hard to get on our good side. No one was ever mean to her, but it had to be a blow to her newbie stripper self when she looked better than 90 percent of girls who worked there and the customers who she wasted her time on would openly spend on other girls instead of her. I specifically remember her sitting at the stage with a guy during my set, and he got up from talking to her to make it rain on me. I go to the dressing room to fit my money in my bag & she follows me in there telling me the customer was telling her to look at me and then watched him spend his money on me. And then she went back out there to sit with him! Not saying that you are doing that, but being too nice, wasting too much time & not making it clear that you are there to get paid will make it hard for you to earn. Try to calm your nerves and work on your confidence. Something that helps me with being confident is looking in the mirrors a lot especially on stage. Be respectful, but have boundaries! Make sure that no one crosses your time boundaries, and you don’t have to necessarily be super pushy with customers but make sure you get up and move on to the next if they aren’t spending within 1-2 songs or 3-5 minutes! And let us know how it goes for you please!

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    If a dancer thinks she is seriously too pretty to be a stripper she's delusional. A couple of dancers have told me this and the first word that comes to my mind is cuckoo. If you think you're too pretty for this biz run, not walk to the nearest psychiatrist ASAP!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 305gurl View Post
    But you have to.
    Have to, what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CharlottesWebb View Post
    Like the other ladies mentioned, you are coming off as too nice & might be wasting too much time / lingering around customers without getting paid.i would buy a watch and set a STRICT 5 minute max time limit with customers. If they don’t buy within 3-5 minutes tell them to call you over when they are ready for a dance or to have a good night. I remember there was a new girl that was the sweetest thing ever, cute as a button too - nice body, outfit, ect & could have easily been a top earner in the club if she wasn’t so nice. She was constantly up mine and other girls asses trying way too hard to get on our good side. No one was ever mean to her, but it had to be a blow to her newbie stripper self when she looked better than 90 percent of girls who worked there and the customers who she wasted her time on would openly spend on other girls instead of her. I specifically remember her sitting at the stage with a guy during my set, and he got up from talking to her to make it rain on me. I go to the dressing room to fit my money in my bag & she follows me in there telling me the customer was telling her to look at me and then watched him spend his money on me. And then she went back out there to sit with him! Not saying that you are doing that, but being too nice, wasting too much time & not making it clear that you are there to get paid will make it hard for you to earn. Try to calm your nerves and work on your confidence. Something that helps me with being confident is looking in the mirrors a lot especially on stage. Be respectful, but have boundaries! Make sure that no one crosses your time boundaries, and you don’t have to necessarily be super pushy with customers but make sure you get up and move on to the next if they aren’t spending within 1-2 songs or 3-5 minutes! And let us know how it goes for you please!
    And there's some guys who would spend on a sweet entertainer, just seems you have to spend a little more time with. And there is a lot more wanting the stripper that is out there.

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    This's a GREAT thread! Lol, I forgot I posted here, & LMAO @ Ms P!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nyla19 View Post
    If a dancer thinks she is seriously too pretty to be a stripper she's delusional. A couple of dancers have told me this and the first word that comes to my mind is cuckoo. If you think you're too pretty for this biz run, not walk to the nearest psychiatrist ASAP!!!
    I do think sometimes being pretty does hurt at dives.. although usually it doesn't. It is really easy to intimidate dudes at low end clubs sometimes.

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    This is a 3 year old thread. Pretty is subjective. I have never heard of someone being too pretty to make money. While physical appearance is important in the clubs personality takes an important role as well. There are plenty of women who can be pretty but have a shitty personality and not make a lot because of it or simply be too green to the industry and not know how to hustle yet. I've also seen women who were considered "ugly" do well, too.

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    I think some people think they're prettier than they are because I've worked in dives and guys are never intimidated by pretty women. Nor, in upscale places either. It's all in the dancers head. Unless you're Pam Anderson or Cindy Crawford back in the day, you're delusional. The only women I've heard say this were 6's at best. Women who are in 8 to 10 category never would say this. And I've worked and modelled with Playmates who were flawless. They were 10's and were humble. Things that make you go hmm...

    ***To each is own. We are strippers living in a stripper world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    This is a 3 year old thread. Pretty is subjective. I have never heard of someone being too pretty to make money. While physical appearance is important in the clubs personality takes an important role as well. There are plenty of women who can be pretty but have a shitty personality and not make a lot because of it or simply be too green to the industry and not know how to hustle yet. I've also seen women who were considered "ugly" do well, too.
    And yeah the op posted this 3 years ago. Maybe she's too pretty for the post???? Just kidding OP!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    You're never too pretty in the world of stripping! And you cannot get by with just your looks alone. Develop confidence and learn how to hustle
    Agreed! And Eastcoastdancer01 is like a 12 on a scale of 1 to 10!!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    This's a GREAT thread! Lol, I forgot I posted here, & LMAO @ Ms P!

    Right????!!!! Where's missp these days? We need one of her famous quotes for this thread again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swarovskibunny View Post
    ^^This is spot on. But honestly, when is attracting the right type of customer (wealthy and respectful) ever a bad thing? It's why upscale clubs usually attract the most money; they don't cater to disgusting cheapies. I'd rather get turned away from extras-seekers than be continually violated.
    Yes you should be an influencer/model. The world is calling with opportunities of sponsorships and modeling agencies. Run babe! Quit the club and submit your headshot to all the top agencies and you are guaranteed to get picked up! Why you ask? Because you are too beautiful! 😝😂

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