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    Hey everyone. I used to be on this board a wayyyyyyyyyy long time ago. Maybe 2003/2004. I disappeared and moved on.
    I started doing cam, and moonlighting. Even did a few plus size gigs at a club in RI.
    long story short back then I was about 250. I got up to 303 and said enough was enough. Had gaatric bass and dropped. I'm now 187. Im 5'8. Basically now that I have slimmed down, I want to get into dancing again. But I have a few issues.
    I have some saggy skin on my stomach and arms. My boobs have deflated to. I still have about 30 more pounds to lose to get to my goal of 160. I'm very alt. meaning dreads and tattoos.
    So I would like some feed back how I can get my self as a whole into prime.

    I also just got my braces off to and have been bleaching my teeth to hell. Lol
    any and all input welcomed.
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    What I used to look like.

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    Default Re: Wanting to dance after loosing over 100 pounds

    Spray tan may help. If you work somewhere topless you'd be able to hide some of the loose skin wearing something like this



    a corset could probably work well too!

    https://www.victoriassecret.com/ling...-and-bodysuits

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    Ooh, I like these suggestions! ^^

    Congratulations on losing 100 lbs!

    A corset like this is pretty. I have it. It's beautiful.

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    Default Re: Wanting to dance after loosing over 100 pounds

    Ok. Please, do not take anything I'm saying as insulting, just trying to help! Thank you.
    First of all, congrats on losing the weight! You have a very pretty face/eyes..
    If I were you, I'd get a wig, not downing your hair/look but just making it easier to get hired, & I'd try to cover up @ least some of the tatts..
    Your tum, again, you lost a lot of weight which's is commendable, but your tum doesn't look good (to get hired in an sc) & again this's to be expected after weight loss of that amount. I know it was suggested about corsets & that outfit MS L suggested, would be good for starters but Idk..There are some body firming prods, I'm not sure how good they work..
    I'd try (again if I were you) to get hired in a dive & go from there, if not try to get a waitress/bartending job?
    Anyway congrats again, best of luck. Hth.
    As soon as you can, try to get a tummy tuck, if you can get Care Credit, that might be an option.


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    This is good advice ^^


    I would second trying to get a waitress or bartending position at a club first rn. Once you get down to your goal you can re-evaluate.

    I have worked at lots of clubs where the service staff were bigger, but because they don't have to remove clothing, they can do things like real corsets and wearing shapers/support garments underneath that strippers can't get away with. It also seems customers have no issues with tipping an "alt" server (as long as she does a good job) but would be less inclined to tip/buy dances off a more alt dancer.

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    Default Re: Wanting to dance after loosing over 100 pounds

    Definitely do the hair more vanilla..long, sleek, natural color. take out piercings, etc. I think your look is kickass but I'll just give it to you straight in terms of getting hired and making consistent money in the shallow cookie cutter view of hiring managers and many straight male custies. I'd lose the additional weight you wanted to first, and then get the extra skin nipped off. If you can't afford the surgery yet definitely do what above said and spray tan dark while dancing in a corset (if they let you, but they should). Do some coffee scrubs, dry brushing, lymphatic massage, and some body wraps the night before. Concentrate on weights and eat a ton of protein! Congrats on the weight loss. There's also massage girls at a lot of clubs you could consider

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    I also want to add congrats on your major weight loss!!! That is amazing! You say you are wanting to drop a little bit more weight, so here is my advice: make sure you are weight training and really lose this last bit slowly. As a matter of fact, since you are so close to your goal, I wouldn't even worry about the actual number of pounds. Just focus on changing your body composition. If you lose a lot of weight fast, and just do only cardio, you will have much more of an issue with loose skin. Unfortunately, the odds are you are you are going to end up with some loose skin to a point in the end. HOWEVER, and I do mean HOWEVER, if you lower your body fat percentage while gaining muscle this will dramatically reduce the loose skin appearance. I can see by your pictures that that isn't all just extra skin. From the photos it still looks like you have some extra body to get rid of. Again, I want to make it clear that I don't mean "you are fat" or "need to lose weight" I mean you can probably lower your body fat percentage quite a bit. Then whatever is left over, get it lifted/snipped. Like Whirlerz said, Care Credit is a good option if you don't have the money up front. But all I am saying is, don't rush to the surgeon just yet. Lower your body fat percentage and increase your muscle mass. I am putting a link below that helps explain what I am trying to say a little more clearly. There is an "ebook" for sale but you don't need to purchase anything to get the point. Again, congrats on your weight loss!!!

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    Default Re: Wanting to dance after loosing over 100 pounds

    Thank you everyone for your advice. I have gone back on the metro diet and have lost 6 pounds this week. I am going to try to do exercise while at work as I have down time there. It sucks cause it is a desk job but I will make it work. You are correct I do have fat to lose. I am at 35% body fat right now at 184.
    I like the corset idea once I lose more weight. Part of why I want to dance is to get the money for a tummy tuck and breast lift/implants. I was quoted at $30,000 for it.
    I was bullied for my weight a good part of my life so I'm trying to close that chapter in my life by showing up to the class reunion in 2017 looking great. I know it sounds dumb, but it's important to me.
    One of the awesome things though is, my bf said we can get a pole for the house. So that will be a great work out

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    Default Re: Wanting to dance after loosing over 100 pounds

    Ps is 32/33 to old to even try to get into a club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TattooGoddess85 View Post
    Ps is 32/33 to old to even try to get into a club?
    Nah, I know lots of girls who started later than that.

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    I maybe in the minority here, but I think tattoos on the stomach would be better than getting surgery (because of the scarring).

    And I'll be in the minority here, because your alt look would work because its supply and demand.

    But I think you'll have more success as a blonde version of yourself




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    And the only that would guarantee success would be breast implants.

    You have a Jaynes Mansfield kind-of body shape...

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    Or go for a Bettie Page look (but blonde).

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    To the hell with it, just DO IT. Go to as many clubs as you can go, and just seek a job. I'll be honest, I think you might make it more in Atlanta or Detroit. Not Vegas, or Miami.

    Who cares what rude customers may say... in one ear out the other. You know your current reality, and you know what you are capable of becoming. Money is the anthem of success, everyone knows its a fact.

    Also consider wearing copulins, wearing red lipstick (only), and demonia heels " ". Get the cat-eye makeup too, I think that would look great.

    Also I think "gothic rhinestone bejeweled necklaces" would make you look glamorous (expensive)

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    Okay... also consider buying a moisturizer and dropping 20 drops into the moisturizer


    Make sure it blends really well too.

    And the wear perfume over it. In my opinion, I think White Diamonds or Chanel would give you that "old Hollywood glamor". Although that has a tendency to smell old lady like, so mix white diamonds with an essential oil you can't go wrong with like vanilla.

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    First you need to get down to your goal weight, then you have to get the extra skin cut off which most likely won't just be a tummy tuck, you may need an arm and/or leg lift, breast lift, etc. If you want to do all this in the states, I suggest care credit. If you want to do some research Colombia does great work for a fraction of the price but IDK if they take care credit. Look into it. Congrats on the weight loss!

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    Yes, I was going to say something similar to what Ariel Suggested. I had surgery in Colombia and it was great. My friend that lives in New England actually was asking me about my surgeon (having no clue I went to him) because even she had heard of him. I do not think he takes Care Credit but I know he was looking into setting somehting up like that. If you are interested PM me and I will give you the information. They would probably recommend a tummy tuck, lipo and the implants but I would be surprised if they charged you more than 8,000 for everything.
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    I hope you have thick skin, because people (managers, staff, customers, other strippers) WILL try to drag you down. I'm 5'3 and weighed 128 and was getting comments from management and customers. I've toned up and dropped 5 lbs which has helped me, but it takes a toll. Still losing weight. ANYWAY, onto the tips.

    If you work nude, get a garter belt that covers the belly, you can still take off the panties and wear a garter belt.

    Topless club? High waisted panties. Hollywood glamour.

    Actually...derma rolling might help tighten skin some but can take months/years. Look into wraps for your belly too. Idk personally, but I've heard good things. Best of luck!

    OH...and consume bone broth or collagen hydrolysate.
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    Been heavy too, scars to prove. God bless your determination love!

    Your face and eyes are gorgeous. I think when you're ready you should def rock the Dita von teese look.
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