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    Default Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    OK, so my first night at Mr. Wedge was great. I made around 225 that night. I also gotta girl to show me the ropes a bit, pretty much taking me under her wing. The next night, not so much. I think yesterday was one of my off days and I only made about 100, after giving a manager a 50 fine. He had tried to put me for an extra set (they normally have you do 5 20 minute sets) which is a lot for me bc I don't have any kind of rhythm and another dancer confirmed that I look weird on stage. I also had a killer headache from last nights cold winds.

    There were a few things that I learned from that terrible night.

    -The younger guys (under 35) are ass holes and will only tip you if you are aggressive with your dance moves and approach. I don't have either advantage. It was almost as if I were invisible to anyone under 35. And that night the club had only those guys that fit that description. I even got laughed at by 2 guys bc I tried to do a little dance and I guess it wasn't too their liking. I'm also not sure if this is how it is with young guys in NYC, or just in general. Either way they are either really cheap or want someone 'experienced'

    -this is definitely an urban club. Only black/spanish here.

    - the club also doesn't put you on a schedule. The next time I work here I'm probably going to come in during part of the day shift and leaving around midnight, bc after that point the club is mainly filled with young assholes that want aggressive and experienced girls.

    -i made a regular who tips me 50-100 but he left early last night.

    -all the older customers were give me good tips and advice on how to lap dance. But they seemed to go after 12/1.30 am.

    -the owner is very grabby and I've been told by one of the dancers that he may ask you for sex. He seems to have an ego and if you turn him down too harshly he will kick you out of the club. I can easily get around this one.

    I'm thinking about sticking with part day shift, part night shift and taking off Wednesday's. I want to eventually try at one of the upscale clubs but I'll need a wig to cover my dreads and probably some gowns.

    I figure I might alternate between this club and other. I seem to mainly get along with anyone 40 and over. Any advice on which clubs I should try out next?

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    Ohhhh I know that club ... a girlfriend danced there for a while when she first came to NYC and didn't feel like going to Sin City etc and dealing with a bigger club.
    The owner is a dick, he is also one of those guys who can have a complete 10 in front of him and will figure out how to talk her down, neg her and explain to her why she isn't that special ... real winner.

    Be careful in there you're in Hunt's Point, a friend literally got snatched into a car so be super on point coming and going ... not lecturing you, I'm sure u know safety, but being new in town and all.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    Stay away from Owner! Just fly under the radar. Don't get involved. Obvious, but just sayin'.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    He is exactly like how my ex was/is so I know how to deal with him he wasn't there last night though.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    U don't wanna try Riviera or Starlets? Maybe Sin City, think Kevin is still the hiring manager there.
    Glad ur working tho, when I first came to NYC it was crazy ... just so much to adjust to, take in, but totally worth it in the end xo

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    That's a no-no from an owner. But whatever you're comfortable with too.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    I think I will. I'll probably spend tomorrow looking for a second club alongside running errands. I still have 160 left from the last two days and I'm getting a paycheck tomorrow to add to it. I forgot to mention that I'm a petite, light skinned black, but I may as well be a clueless white girl at this club lol. I've actually considered sin city, but I hear you have to be good on the pole there.

    I know ive got confidence issues to work at, but even then I should probably try somewhere with an older clientele.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    Quote Originally Posted by persianprincess View Post
    Ohhhh I know that club ... a girlfriend danced there for a while when she first came to NYC and didn't feel like going to Sin City etc and dealing with a bigger club.
    The owner is a dick, he is also one of those guys who can have a complete 10 in front of him and will figure out how to talk her down, neg her and explain to her why she isn't that special ... real winner.

    Be careful in there you're in Hunt's Point, a friend literally got snatched into a car so be super on point coming and going ... not lecturing you, I'm sure u know safety, but being new in town and all.

    xo
    Yeah someone told me about a girl getting snatched, but I know how to stay alert, and the bus stop is around the corner and usually a less than 10 minute wait.

    I only worked here first bc you didn't need an audition...but the club is a little ratchet for me. So are you saying the owner here, or at sin city is a dick? I cannot understand him tbh bc he barely speaks english.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    Sin City is alright because it's a big club so you barely have to deal with anyone for very long. And can easily get lost.

    The owner at Mr Wedge is a douche.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    There's actually a club called Mr Wedge?


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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    Yes indeed @Whirlez ... Hunt's Point in the BX, been there forever.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    is that owner/manager still there? i wanna try this spot but dont wanna deal with a club owner thats like that. i know they say the original owner died last may, so i figured it might change hands a few times after that

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    TBH I wouldn't go here unless you cannot get hired elsewhere and you are black/latina and can booty shake. The club has been spiraling downhill since the owner died. You get a lot of nasty customers there. Complete shithole. I'm only working there until my other club opens back again, to get experience and bc the pay is a lot more (sometimes) than min wage. If things go good at my other club, I'm going to stop going there altogether. But for now it's my 'back up' club.

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    Default Re: Last nights horrible experience got me thinking...

    im white, but i love to shake my ass im good at it. i called yesterday and the guy said the house fee is $60 even if you arrive at 8pm? thats crazy. i dont know of any other spots in the bronx or westchester county other than jrs cabaret(i wont do nude), sin city(too high contact), and sues(i dont think theyd hire me) i read about city lights in yonkers and people said its extremely ratchet and no money there.. so this seemed like the only choice left smh but $60 seems crazy for a spot like that

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    I can't say what the house fee is at night since I work dayshift. What the others say is true, the only advantage is that there is no audition. If I hadn't got in I'm not sure I'd even be working as a dancer. It's a very high contact club too. I have not seen any white dancers. There's one Latina girl there that looks white but has a huge ads (but it's fake). This is really a last resort club. You could try here if you wanted, I'm just not sure how you'd fare.

    Tbh I really wouldn't work in the Bronx. Try queens or Brooklyn. You might find better clubs there. Manhattan is hard to get in unless you are thin and have experience and know how to work pole.

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