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    Regarding the music, there are a lot of white girls who dance to "trap" music. Most of the popular music out there is either hip hop or electronic. For me it sucks dealing with it as a white girl bc there's some "white" clubs that won't play ANY type of hip hop...so that eliminates a majority of current music.

    These clubs can be racist on so many levels too, like I had a club manager make fun of my thick ass and tell me to cover it up. A lot of white clubs really obsess about your weight too. Like if some girl who looked like Kim k came in they would tell her she was "too fat" to work there lol.

    they think hiring black girls will make the club "ghetto"....no hiring trashy girls will make your club trashy. There's a lot of white men(and myself!) who have a thing for black women and see them as exotic. OP please don't let this get you down because most of the people running these places are idiots lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by NakedNicole View Post
    I think it may be more about the atmosphere the club is trying to maintain. For example, most black girls at clubs I've worked at request Trap music/rap for their stage sets. I was in double rotation with a black girl last night and I dance to country now. She came across the stage and was bitching about how she had to dance to country now for my song.

    So as the number of black girls increase, it's likely that more rap will have to be played and that might be off putting to the older crowd hearing a good amount of the music being rap.

    you also must consider that with more black dancers will attract more black customers inevitably. Once this customer base increases, it starts to lean to the "urban club dynamic" . If the club is intended to have the loud rap/ass shaking feel from the start that's fine. But some clubs want to maintain a more reserved/upscale/traditional gentleman's club atmosphere and that's fine too.

    I wouldn't take it personal, like I said there's other factors to consider. I'm sure if a bunch of skinny white girls with no asses who danced to Brittany Spears went to "king of diamonds" the management probably wouldn't want to hire them either. Not because of anything wrong with them, but simply because these type of girls and the customers who generally will go for them don't fit the dynamic of this clubs theme.
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    I think one of the most beautiful things to come out of my usually delightfully snarky and sarcastic manager's mouth was to call another club down south stupid for turning down one of our black dancers who was a definite ten because she "was not what they were looking for." He thinks guys like variety and you can tell because that's what we have. Our top earner is mixed. I worked at the "whiter" club down the road for a while and it felt so weird and I hated being surrounded by other skinny white chicks because we were all attractive in the same way. When I came "home" I was way more comfortable because there were so many different types of beautiful that we were all able to shine instead of blending together.

    I don't know. Any kind of racism, whether it be obvious or subtle, leaves me angry and nauseated. My day job is very diverse and I constantly see customers speak down to my black coworkers like they're children and then turn around and address me normally and I don't understand how people can't realize how shitty they're being not just because they're doing it but because they're such idiots that they don't even seem to realize they're doing it. I've tried very hard in recent years to pay attention to what white privilege means exactly because my parents didn't raise me to be ignorant. I think we're living in a significant time of transition so far as raising awareness about equality goes and I really hope it improves things for everyone and that more clubs will follow my club's example because IME diversity leads to a much nicer working environment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareaspasia View Post
    I think one of the most beautiful things to come out of my usually delightfully snarky and sarcastic manager's mouth was to call another club down south stupid for turning down one of our black dancers who was a definite ten because she "was not what they were looking for." He thinks guys like variety and you can tell because that's what we have. Our top earner is mixed. I worked at the "whiter" club down the road for a while and it felt so weird and I hated being surrounded by other skinny white chicks because we were all attractive in the same way. When I came "home" I was way more comfortable because there were so many different types of beautiful that we were all able to shine instead of blending together.

    I don't know. Any kind of racism, whether it be obvious or subtle, leaves me angry and nauseated. My day job is very diverse and I constantly see customers speak down to my black coworkers like they're children and then turn around and address me normally and I don't understand how people can't realize how shitty they're being not just because they're doing it but because they're such idiots that they don't even seem to realize they're doing it. I've tried very hard in recent years to pay attention to what white privilege means exactly because my parents didn't raise me to be ignorant. I think we're living in a significant time of transition so far as raising awareness about equality goes and I really hope it improves things for everyone and that more clubs will follow my club's example because IME diversity leads to a much nicer working environment.
    They TRY to speak down on us blacks at my day job, bht the way im set up...lol...i refuse service AAAAALL the time it bothers me because i demand respect. You can feel HOWEEEEEVER you want about me but watch that shit when it comes out ur mouth. Its like there are alot of people i dont like for certain reasons but i still respect them. But i guess racism is different because its almost like made up(what they think we are, etc) and some of this is true. BUT to sum it up you racism has never hurt my feelings in a way of making me look at myself different, i just demand respect from EVERYBODY so keep it to urself while ur in my presence. Plus, you cant tell me about ME. U dont even know me so that logically doesnt make sense.
    But what is TRUE is that our strip club cultures are totally different. For one, making it rain in white clubs are a No No and i had a white stripper tell me that is so ghetto and disrespectful (lmaooo b*tch idc, i just made $300 on stage, who cares) but my point is they look at alot of things we do as ghetto and disrespectful but thats a culture thing. They "make it rain" at african and arab weddings, events and ceremonys so alot of it it culture differences people dont want to and arent willing to understand. I could go on and on. But im not cuz im sleepy
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    ^^ ghetto or not, I love it when people make it rain on me lol! Anyhow...

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveyDovey View Post
    ^^ ghetto or not, I love it when people make it rain on me lol! Anyhow...


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    I don't think it is ghetto, but I also don't live in Mayberry so...
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    ^^ I never thought it was ghetto either. I thought it just came with the territory and it was normal.

    **sorry for derailing thread**

    Anyhow..

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    Blame colorism, white supremacy, and anti blackness.

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    ^^^Laaaawwwwdddd

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    The thing that threw me real off is when NakedNicole said no "upscale" urban clubs exist..... what box are you living in guurl. Have you even been inside Vanity Grand, KOD, VLive.... theres is a cultural difference yes but it doesn't make these club not high class. These clubs have a dresscode (celebrities get a pass), they attract wealthy individuals and the opportunity to bank is there.

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    Are there anymore than those? I'm looking to hit up upscale urban strip-clubs to dance in while traveling.I keep hearing the Vlive chain is overrated & only the favorites do well. KOD you have to be a build a body, & I've never heard of Vanity Grand.What about Silver Rain?
    Quote Originally Posted by moonangelko View Post
    The thing that threw me real off is when NakedNicole said no "upscale" urban clubs exist..... what box are you living in guurl. Have you even been inside Vanity Grand, KOD, VLive.... theres is a cultural difference yes but it doesn't make these club not high class. These clubs have a dresscode (celebrities get a pass), they attract wealthy individuals and the opportunity to bank is there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    You just minimized the hell out of racism. That one girl who bitched about dancing to country music in your club has nothing to do with what the OP ranted about. And assuming that a black dancer is gonna want to dance to trap music is silly. The only thing that really needs to be done here is to simply listen and respect that those who see and experience racism aren't jumping to conclusions. Also speak out when you see it. I know not all can afford to speak up but its really the first stop in getting away from normalizing this type of behavior

    Well of course they sent black dancers away.

    No one wants to be labeled as an urban club.

    Black dancers means more black customers.

    Its simply a business decision really.

    That's what black clubs are for.

    Assuming that a club that has multiple black performers can't have an upscale vibe, lord have mercy what did I just read?
    Well.. For what it's worth - people should be able to pick their own music and dance how they feel. If it works - good..! If not - they find out quick. I think everyone should be given a shot Shit. When I was club shopping a while back - it was a white club. This beautiful black girl gave me a floor dance - she moved beautifully - meanwhile this busted looking white girl was reverse cowgirl grinding this Latin dude with her tits out - dude looked like he was trying to be a good sport. If I had to pick a girl to take VIP - it would have been the black girl dancing for me. I also noticed the busted white girl spent a lot of time behind the bar... Not a coincidence...I wouldn't even consider auditioning at KOD... Different style.. Not just twerking.. The pole style - the drops - the doubles routines on the pole.. I'm not up to par for what they want. I'm not sorry - my style is just different.. I salute girls who can bank in a place like KOD - cuz I couldn't..

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveyDovey View Post
    ^^ ghetto or not, I love it when people make it rain on me lol! Anyhow...
    Yaaaas! I feel like im on drugs in a euphoric land or something it makes me happy. ..i love the customers who say "baby i dont get dances (hands me 2 100 dollar bills) go get me all ones and get on stage"...ok
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obsession91 View Post
    Are there anymore than those? I'm looking to hit up upscale urban strip-clubs to dance in while traveling.I keep hearing the Vlive chain is overrated & only the favorites do well. KOD you have to be a build a body, & I've never heard of Vanity Grand.What about Silver Rain?
    GO. TO. SILVER. RAIN NOOOOW!!! friday, saturday, sunday nights are $$$$. Its a super fast hustle and a shark tank tho. You better 10 toes down (as they say)...super big club $$$$ everywhere. Its more for seasoned dancers. I did ok ther i got overwhelmed and frustrated when it got packed plus i fell down the stairs ������������
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    Detroit clubs are silver rain and ace of spades. Its enough money for everyone. Plus its no VIP, so thats a plus for me anyway...i hate VIPs they attract the extras girls to me. Sorry to get off subject
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obsession91 View Post
    Are there anymore than those? I'm looking to hit up upscale urban strip-clubs to dance in while traveling.I keep hearing the Vlive chain is overrated & only the favorites do well. KOD you have to be a build a body, & I've never heard of Vanity Grand.What about Silver Rain?
    Build a body? That is great. Why have I not heard this term before???? I do not know if I agree with that though. I have seen little spinner type girls that work there cause they're good on the pole. I remember when KOD first opened all their promos had thinner girls and a lot of white and latin girls in them. It evolved into what it is on it's own.
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    Correction: Surgically Enhanced
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    Build a body?

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    There's a KOD in Chicago area.


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    Quote Originally Posted by fallyn_love View Post
    plus i fell down the stairs ������������
    Laaaaawwwwd you ate the carpet I have funny legs so I try extra hard to walk/glide with a SLOW steady pace.Falling down is like one of my nightmares lol I know it's coming though.I have issues walking in flip flops ffs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obsession91 View Post
    Laaaaawwwwd you ate the carpet I have funny legs so I try extra hard to walk/glide with a SLOW steady pace.Falling down is like one of my nightmares lol I know it's coming though.I have issues walking in flip flops ffs.
    Giiiiirl lmaooooo i fell ALL THE WAY down the stairs but i caught my self at the end of the rail so nobody saw me (phew!!!). I had a drinka and some money in my hand lmaooo. And i dropped/threw everything to save myself. It was a girl walking down in front of me. It probably looked like someone was trying to hit her with a cup. lmaoooo.
    But silver rain got $$$$$$$ in it 4real. U can make easily $600+ . I recommend starting early like 10pm. It gets so packed and loud i missed like 3 stage sets because you cant hear anythin but music and the dj sounds muffled
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    Omg I'm hollering lmao good save.Thanks Babe! I thought so, came across them on ig.

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    I'm still trying to adjust to my 5", my mangly ass toes won't go right in the shoes, it's not a fit problem either.
    I am waiting on shipment of some 4" slip ons, to try to adjust to heels.


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    Off topic, but I'm over here crying laughing at the confusion over the term "build-a-body." Once you know what it means, it makes total sense. Lmfao #TeamPlastic
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    I wasn't confused. I got it- just never heard it before. I agree super funny.
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