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    Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating? Is this the right forum section for this?

    I did some searching and could only find the occasional comment on erections. Or the usual thread about penis size preference for sex. I am married and don't really care about size preferences for sex, plenty of comments on that all over the internet. Though I do understand how the size can be good or bad, etc.

    I can't stop men from commenting, but really want the women's comments due to my wife lack of interest. My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo. Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.

    So I am wondering if that is extremely common and if so, I still want to know if there are any women that get turned on by some of the things I want to talk about below.

    I will have to look at the rules closer to see what I can link, etc.

    Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing. And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.

    So the main overview is that I like to fantasize about my penis being/getting huge. Regardless of the intercourse aspect. And wonder if any women enjoy that as well. And the different methods below.

    1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?

    2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size! This one video of pumping to fill a 9 inch tube is erotic to me. Watching it expand past each line with each pump is fun both with my own but especially a huge one that I imagine is my own.

    3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.

    4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube. So forget the 12", she practically won't let me take it out of the box. Sadly the 12" one is distorted and doesn't look natural and the width is just insanely stupid. I wish it was more like the width of the 9 and long like the 12".

    5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.

    I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.

    Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things? I don't do the pump and inflation to myself often, but it feels really good. I do like to see videos of others doing it with as big a penis as possible because it works the fantasy for me. Regardless of the size of penis you like to have sex with, what about purely fantasizing or even playing with in-person outside of intercourse?

    Can we share links to this kind of stuff on this forum? I will have to re-check the rules.
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    this thread could go many different ways! 2 soon for me to tell!

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    No. Just no.


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    One, I only enjoy it if it's during a moment when I'm trying to get him hard. I don't care about it one way or the other in porn.
    No experience with two or three.
    I enjoy realistic dildos, but the appeal of it to me is pretending that it's a separate entity from my husband. It's for him to watch me as if I was doing it to another man, or a clone of him, but still a penis separate from his own. I don't think I would be into him putting it in his pants or pretending it is his. I wouldn't enjoy using a strap on with a male partner.
    No experience or interest in five.

    I haven't discussed these things with anyone else, so that's just my experiences and opinions. Everyone has their kinks, if it is creating distance between you and your wife you may need to see other ways to be more sexually compatible so that you're no longer doing things she has no interest in, but you can still get your kicks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyPuppet View Post
    One, I only enjoy it if it's during a moment when I'm trying to get him hard. I don't care about it one way or the other in porn.
    No experience with two or three.
    I enjoy realistic dildos, but the appeal of it to me is pretending that it's a separate entity from my husband. It's for him to watch me as if I was doing it to another man, or a clone of him, but still a penis separate from his own. I don't think I would be into him putting it in his pants or pretending it is his. I wouldn't enjoy using a strap on with a male partner.
    No experience or interest in five.

    I haven't discussed these things with anyone else, so that's just my experiences and opinions. Everyone has their kinks, if it is creating distance between you and your wife you may need to see other ways to be more sexually compatible so that you're no longer doing things she has no interest in, but you can still get your kicks.
    Well at least I know my wife isn't the only one not into any of these items. I have also been trying to get her to explore her mind for things she might like that I don't know about, but so far she likes sex the way it is. And that is fine too. Looking forward to more views from the women.

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    Watching a penis growing yeah kinda interesting to watch cause I don't have one some I'm curious to explore the male body. Especially if it's a pretty penis.

    The other things don't seem interesting to me but to each his own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Watching a penis growing yeah kinda interesting to watch cause I don't have one some I'm curious to explore the male body. Especially if it's a pretty penis.
    I seem to fund research into this field in each of my club visits. I find the dancers are quite talented at the growth prospects and making them grow.

    Then, once grown, they sometimes lose count of the dances.

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    Xenon2000, I wanted to answer the CGI/3D element of your post. As an machinimist/erotic animator; I never did a penis growth video but I find them to be quite interesting. However, I usually watch the animated videos with the monster penis growth ( something like 10 to 15 inches) and those videos are not really realistic. My major criticism of those animated penis growth videos are the sounds. Also, I am pretty into big dildos because I love big penises. 12 inches would be pushing it for me but dildos between 8 to 11 inches is reasonable. I like my dildos tastefully big but not outrageously big like 16 inches or something. I do not have any experience with numbers 2 or 3. My answer to number one is as long as a guy is hard and stays hard. I really do not care if that is found handjobs or anything like that. I hope that answers some of your questions


    Quote Originally Posted by xenon2000 View Post
    Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating? Is this the right forum section for this?

    I did some searching and could only find the occasional comment on erections. Or the usual thread about penis size preference for sex. I am married and don't really care about size preferences for sex, plenty of comments on that all over the internet. Though I do understand how the size can be good or bad, etc.

    I can't stop men from commenting, but really want the women's comments due to my wife lack of interest. My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo. Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.

    So I am wondering if that is extremely common and if so, I still want to know if there are any women that get turned on by some of the things I want to talk about below.

    I will have to look at the rules closer to see what I can link, etc.

    Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing. And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.

    So the main overview is that I like to fantasize about my penis being/getting huge. Regardless of the intercourse aspect. And wonder if any women enjoy that as well. And the different methods below.

    1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?

    2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size! This one video of pumping to fill a 9 inch tube is erotic to me. Watching it expand past each line with each pump is fun both with my own but especially a huge one that I imagine is my own.

    3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.

    4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube. So forget the 12", she practically won't let me take it out of the box. Sadly the 12" one is distorted and doesn't look natural and the width is just insanely stupid. I wish it was more like the width of the 9 and long like the 12".

    5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.

    I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.

    Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things? I don't do the pump and inflation to myself often, but it feels really good. I do like to see videos of others doing it with as big a penis as possible because it works the fantasy for me. Regardless of the size of penis you like to have sex with, what about purely fantasizing or even playing with in-person outside of intercourse?

    Can we share links to this kind of stuff on this forum? I will have to re-check the rules.

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    I decided i should weigh in at least to a degree, My spouse is pretty vanilla in many ways too - though shes not so much disinterested in other things, shes more interested in " whats most efficient and to the point" which is how she actually is in all matters. I try and be a good wife and just go with it, but yes there are times and moments that i feel a little put off by a sorta one sided thing.

    on the idea of watching erections and pumps and growth and such? Its a pure visual stimulation on its own, and that is something MEN respond too mostly, not so much women; women are not nearly as visual alone as men are. not without certain context or something more behind it. this isnt to say there are not a few women into it, or any fet, but again its more a male thing, be it watching other males, or women pumping etc... a quick look over the market really shows that videos of the acts are more focused at other males.

    What arouse men and what arouse women are actually quite different in sometimes the most subtle of things. if you are really looking to explore this, spice it up, give it some substance, some context, give her control and power over things, or some other goal, and also keep in mind, even if you get her to play along? there is a really good chance that, even doing it you purely for you, could possibly ruin it all for her.

    though you did mention her disinterest in toys, but you obviously want something added.. have you considered looking at places like bad dragon and getting a sleeve with a knot or something else to change the experience alittle but in a different way?




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    I also want to point out and stress that you take note of where you are asking. We are entertainers specializing in sexuality and other aspects of it. It's also a well known fetish of people to simply TALK about their said fetishes and ideas just as much as it is to live them out. That said you should expect most of us to see these sort of situations as fishing to indulge in that game, and this is a haven for us, NOT work. We have clubs, cams, and other means of " doing business " it will not be well received here.

    if there is a serious question and a serious real issue, we cant fix your marriage situation- some may be willing to give insight- but choose your wording carefully and dont be too put off that we are always weary if it looks like someones looking to play games.
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    No offense to OP, but I can be paid to talk about this...therefore, I shall wait for that moment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilyanderson View Post
    no offense to op, but i can be paid to talk about this...therefore, i shall wait for that moment.
    excellent point!!!^


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    Thanks for all the comments so far. I have learned a lot in just a few comments both here and another forum. It was and is NOT my intent to play here or to get free services. My intent is only to learn and I chose this forum because I felt I wouldn't be banned for asking. Other forums are not always as open. Since I have learned something, this thread can be deleted if it is taken as soliciting free services/play. My wife is a very kind and generous woman. And with what I have learned so far, I have new ideas on how I might be able to expand her experiences in ways she will like since she isn't much for exploring ideas. In the past, I have only been posting on this site about implants and I likely will continue to do so. Wife is now at 1600cc and we are looking into expander options on the West coast.

    Thanks again everyone. Given the visual nature of my 5 items, it sounds like the general consensus on multiple forums, is that women are not into any of these. Granted there are always exceptions. Seems like a no-brainer to me now, but still glad that I asked and got some helpful replies.

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    * EDIT*

    I also want to point out and stress that you take note of where you are asking. We are entertainers specializing in sexuality and other aspects of it. It's also a well known fetish of people to simply TALK about their said fetishes and ideas just as much as it is to live them out. That said you should expect most of us to see these sort of situations as fishing to indulge in that game, and this is a haven for us, NOT work. We have clubs, cams, and other means of " doing business " it will not be well received here.

    if there is a serious question and a serious real issue, we cant fix your marriage situation- some may be willing to give insight- but choose your wording carefully and dont be too put off that we are always weary if it looks like someones looking to play games.

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    Thanks for the input. Looks like I can't delete the thread. Moderators feel free to delete the thread. It has been informative and served the purpose well. Thanks again everyone.

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