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    Default Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    Hey beauties,

    I was wondering if any on you participated in/thought about doing this.

    I've seen threads about meeting customers, but wanted to know if any of you had had any success with this?

    As with most girls on AW I imagine, I have been getting meet/dinner requests since I started back in 2014, but I basically wanted to know if it was worth the hassle of having a "Dates/lunches" tab on your profile lol. I am aware that 99% of the people asking wouldn't follow through for non-sexual meeting, it's just I thought some of my better off regs, would be interested in this.

    I am referring to sites (MFC,AW) where meeting customers is acceptable.

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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    No, they'll want to fuck you.

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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    If you would like to offer this yhen why not? Have seen some top models on AW offer these and i will be adding these in the new year. Just be aware of your safety though. I would take a deposit, those who are interested and really want to meet will pay. Advice on the site it is a non sexual meet only. If you want a minimum spend on shopping trips that state this as well. Only meet in a public place, think outside costa in westfield shopping centre and be strict with the time limit ie 1 hr shopping is x amount. Hthal x
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    yep you can totally do it. They will want to fuck you so you have to learn to use that to make them spend more on you. You pussy is worth millions so dont do it if you dont feel this way.

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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    Thank you for the input, ladies.

    I am very much aware of that and the risks involved - I am the most paranoid person ever but thanks for the safety concerns.
    I certainly wouldn't tick the "escort" box on AW or anything, that would be an absolute stinking nightmare lol. x

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    You are going to get a lot of negative feedback here on why meeting up with custies is a very bad idea. Most of us will tell you that you are putting your life in danger, encouraging stalking, rape etc. The customer will know your whereabouts and you'll always put yourself in more and more precarious situations each time you meet.

    That said, there are ways to meet up with customers if you take a shit load of precautions. Usually, models meet up with customers at conventions that are not near their home. Some models hire security/body guards and/or just bring chaperones. The models on MFC use date raffles to make money but a lot of it is fakery. They will let fake members win the raffles and have their friends pose as the winners. It's so easy to do this with hidden tips.

    I guess what I'm saying is that don't be gullible and believe that all the meeting up with customers is real. Models who do it take a lot of precautions, (and they are probably mini-celebrities), or they fake the whole thing for the money.
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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    Thanks, Hyori.

    I think it's unlikely that I will ever do it, but I like to hear about others' experiences and if people want to bite my head of for that - let them.

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    I don't see why you have to advertise something like this? Its already being done by a lot of performers but they keep it low key. Unless its one of the fake scenarios that Hyori spoke of. I can see how openly offering something like this causing more harm than good, mostly because there wouldn't be any sex involved. But that's exactly the type of inquires that you'll get so more than likely it's gonna turn into a headache fielding those type of propositions. If you want to go the sugar baby route I would suggest being discreet while you screen your best customers. Realistically how many dates do you plan on having? I think you're gonna send out the wrong message and potentially turn off the ballers with money if you make your time seem less than exclusive. If it's posted then they could see that its something you do regularly vs you make it appear that they're the only one to ever get the opportunity. Its all about the hustle I think.

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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    Thanks, PhatGirl

    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    If you want to go the sugar baby route I would suggest being discreet while you screen your best customers. Realistically how many dates do you plan on having?
    As I said above, it's something I had vaguely entertained, hence starting this thread. How many genuine dates will I get? I have absolutely no clue, that's why I posted this thread to see if any of the girls advertising this service actually had any success with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    I don't see why you have to advertise something like this? Its already being done by a lot of performers but they keep it low key..
    Quite a lot of AW girls advertise this service on AW actually, that's where I got the idea from. And I am not referring only to the most popular models.
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    ive put this on my aw profile, with absoloutely no intention of ever meeting anyone. Its part of my hustle on there, they think they have a chance so they come back, its never got to the point where one of them has said so come on, what about that date, its all part of the fantasy. Im not a top aw person at all, its not even my main site, but just be aware that not everything you see other girls doing is what they are actually doing. smoke and mirrors...

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    Default Re: Dinner/Shopping dates. A bad idea?

    Thanks Sally,

    That's interesting, appreciate your input.

    I had a message from a reg a few days ago, who I sort of did that to, who basically ended email contact as he thought he was getting too attatched and fooling himself. I can see how semi-stringing could work for some girls, but he actually seems a really nice chap and I ended up feeling quite down in the dumps about it. Bear in mind, we had been messaging for years, and I felt we could potentially a lunch date or something, but I ended up wimping out all the time.
    Sooooo on writing that, I am starting to think, I am far too sensitive to even creative the illusion of it. X
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    I do offer shopping/lunch dates and have had quite a few. Usuaully they are slave/findom type guys who adore spending money. I make it clear that i charge a per hour rate PLUS a minimum spend (£500) and that they must pay a deposit up front. I'm actually pretty awkward about it cause i don't meet anywhere near where i advertise i am actually from on AW and I can only meet during day times. Make sure you meet them in a public place like a shopping mall or big restaurant, and tell someone where you are going and when you expect to be back (Just in case) x
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    I have been asked about this loads! If I wasn't quite so fake ie wigs etc I might be more tempted but what looks real on cam is rather different in person and I live nowhere near my persona at all. I think it's like any hussle if you can make it work for you. My resting mad bitch face isn't controllable for hours at a time so I'm not sure they would like the real me at all!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horny View Post
    I have been asked about this loads! If I wasn't quite so fake ie wigs etc I might be more tempted but what looks real on cam is rather different in person and I live nowhere near my persona at all. I think it's like any hussle if you can make it work for you. My resting mad bitch face isn't controllable for hours at a time so I'm not sure they would like the real me at all!!
    Haha, this is my thought, as well. I look very very different on camera/at the strip club than I do in broad daylight. It's also hard to maintain that sex worker persona. They'd be super disappointed in me, lol.

    I honestly would go the advertising & faking it route. Our work is heavily based on fantasy, and I don't think lying about this is much worse than the other false impressions we send to our customers. If you do a raffle for dates, the odds of winning are slim to none, and they know that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    I do offer shopping/lunch dates and have had quite a few. Usuaully they are slave/findom type guys who adore spending money. I make it clear that i charge a per hour rate PLUS a minimum spend (£500) and that they must pay a deposit up front. I'm actually pretty awkward about it cause i don't meet anywhere near where i advertise i am actually from on AW and I can only meet during day times. Make sure you meet them in a public place like a shopping mall or big restaurant, and tell someone where you are going and when you expect to be back (Just in case) x


    This is how you do it. The fetish ladies seem to be really good and smart at doing this.

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    Thank you. Appreciate hearing experiences and thoughts on this, regardless of personal feelings on the matter. I posted here as it it something I am apprehensive and cautious about offering, and this forum on the whole is a very supportive place, despite the differences we all have. I had a look and love how you do it on your profile, Susie. I seem to be doing more and more findom, as it is becoming increasingly natural for me as I learn about the fetish, more seem to be drawn in. Definitely a lot to think about. X

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    All the want is to fuck so no dinner date no.

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    Next time I have questions about this, I will ask via private message as I now know who to go to for constructive advice on this matter. I am very much aware about the guys who want to fuck, that wasn't my reason for asking this but thanks all the same
    Be happy. X

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    I have a sissy customer who would love me to take him for a bra fitting...I don't have it on my profile to meet though and I wouldn't want to myself, especially as my partner would not want me to meet anyone. On AW there are a great many fetish guys.
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    Most will be time wasters. They will just want a date aka sex for no money at all. Keep in mind, most of them have been playing this game & stringing girls along with the promise of big money for a long long time.

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    I don t think i would ever meet any of my customers, but if u can do something good with them, just go on. But stay safe.

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