I told my sister a while ago what my job was in confidence and told her to keep it between us (for obvious reasons). Within 10 minutes, she told my cousin what my job was! Could you imagine doing that to someone?! She has continuously done this to me and told her friends, bf's, and roommates. I get to be judged as the "whore" in the family before they even get a chance to meet me.
Flash forward to recently, she has decided to marry a man she met only 6 months ago. My dads side of the family would not approve of this and my dad said to not tell anyone on his side of the family. My sister told ME to keep this secret, and I did. A few days before thanksgiving, I asked my sister what the newest member of the family (her fiance) knows what I do for a living. She lied to me and said she doesn't know what I do. Here I have helped her financially when she needed it and even paid for my camera to be fixed for her wedding all to be treated this way again. Like my feelings on keeping things private about what I confided in her don't matter and this guy is here to stay. I now get to share holidays with a guy sitting across the table knowing my job and obviously judging me for it and sharing it with his family/friends.
I blew up at her over text. She never even apologized and remained silent. She talked to my mother and isn't sorry and feels entitled to tell people. I didn't go to Thanksgiving or her wedding. I made it clear I was done. I now have to miss out on holidays because she will be there and I'm so furious at her, there is nothing to discuss. I already said my part on how this made me feel but she is stubborn in her ways and has no intention of stopping. I honestly don't want to talk to her anymore. But I do want my holiday with the rest of my family and am even considering showing up on Christmas and not talking to her or looking at her at all. I want this to be as awkward as possible for her because it sucks I have to stay alone on holidays while she gets to enjoy hers still.
I dunno why I wrote this. I just am trying to make sense of this all from others in the industry and what to do.



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