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    Disclaimer: I'm going to state this as tastefully as possible, but this is a post about cleaning out your butt, so consider yourself warned. I'm also going to try to keep it pretty technical, so if you're a dude with an enema fetish, you're shit outta luck (pardon the pun, LOL!).

    I'm posting this by request. It's a topic that I think many people would like to know about, but no one wants to describe their own process in detail. Fortunately, the legendary Nina Hartley describes her own routine in Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley and I. S. Levine (Published by Penguin Group Inc, Copyright 2006). (I don't remember the proper way to cite a source, and I'm not sure if this is a kosher citation, as this isn't an academic paper. I'm going to trust that, if she comes across it, Ms. Hartley will be ok with it. Also, I will say that the book is very well written, and I'd recommend it as an excellent general guide for sex.)

    Nina says that she does a lot of anal play, if not actual anal sex, so she "cleans up" pretty much every time she's planning on sex. Her process:
    What's needed: gloves, lube [side note removed], an anal bulb syringe, and privacy in the bathroom. Fill the syringe (available at a good adult store) with cool or warm water and set it within easy reach. Put on a pair of latex gloves, sit on the toilet, and lube up the middle finger of your nondominant hand. Slide the finger into your anus to the third knuckle and relax your muscles as you exhale, pulling yourself open just a little. Using that finger as a guide (to avoid damaging the delicate tissue), slide the nozzle of the syringe alongside of it and then remove your finger.

    Remaining relaxed, use both hands to squeeze water out of the syringe, flushing out any solid matter that may be present. You'll probably pee, too, and that's fine. Repeat up to three times, always relubricating your finger before inserting it, and you should expel nothing but clear water. If things are still messy, your butt is just not in the mood and will have the evening off. Pull the gloves off inside out and discard before washing your hands and using a washcloth or baby wipe to clean up your crotch and butt. Now you're ready for anything, from a gloved thumb to your favorite toy to an actual penis. I've got the whole exercise down to five minutes.
    She goes on to say that she's not a fan of doing a full enema because the timing is difficult. The water goes up much higher in your colon, so it's rinsing down matter that wasn't going to be in your rectum in the near future anyway, and that can actually cause more of a mess.


    My honest notes on the subject (please don't judge me for the TMI!):
    • Yes, this is effective.
    • The bulb syringe she is talking about is something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Premium-Silic...ds=anal+douche I've read elsewhere that it doesn't need to hold any more than 8 oz of water.
    • To be perfectly honest, I don't always use gloves, but I usually get straight in the shower afterward. As Nina mentions in the same chapter, "Remember what they told me in nursing school: There's nothing that can't be washed off, so relax, already."
    • After doing this for awhile, I don't always need to use a finger for guidance. It's actually preferable that the nozzle not go in very far, and once it becomes routine, you may not need a finger to guide you.
    • If this were just for my personal sex life, I'd definitely stop after three times. Since we're talking about my money, if the messiness level is minimal after the third time, I'll do a fourth round for good measure.
    • She says that you know you're good when you're expelling only clear water, but that implies that you're flushing the toilet each time you flush yourself (how else would you know what was expelled in the most recent round?). I find that wasteful, so if I think I'm good, I'll poke around with a finger or small toy, and just be sure that everything comes out clean.
    • I don't think it's a good idea to do this shortly after shaving your bikini area. It's probably not a big deal, but I'd rather not expose any small nicks to rinsing water. My routine is to do anal prep, shower, and shave at the end of the shower.
    • It's okay if "your butt isn't in the mood." If I'm not doing anal for the day, I usually excuse it by telling the guys that I did a LOT of anal in my personal life the night before, and I need the night off from it. I've never had anyone get upset about that. Usually they're quite happy to look at my (uninvaded) asshole while I tell them a detailed story about how it got abused the night before.
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    Wow girl your routine is like exactly the same as me. Cept I dont shower afterwards usually but I live in Europe and have a bidet in every bathroom in my home. Also I wax.

    I think the most important part is to not clean to deep! You just end up making a bigger mess then you intended to and the mess never seems to end!

    I always take a bit of rubbing alcohol, 96%, with some water and put it in the syringe when Im done and swirl it around then leave it to sit for five mins before rinsing it out just to make sure its totally disinfected.

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    Very good info here ty ladies, now i know i used way too much water :-!

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    But but but but (excuse the pun..) why don't you just fake it? Guys hardly ever have a clue what the fuck you're doing anyway so why go to all that trouble and ickyness?
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    I second Susie's idea. #fakeit #cockmagic

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    Disclaimer: I'm going to state this as tastefully as possible, but this is a post about cleaning out your butt, so consider yourself warned. I'm also going to try to keep it pretty technical, so if you're a dude with an enema fetish, you're shit outta luck (pardon the pun, LOL!).

    I'm posting this by request. It's a topic that I think many people would like to know about, but no one wants to describe their own process in detail. Fortunately, the legendary Nina Hartley describes her own routine in Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley and I. S. Levine (Published by Penguin Group Inc, Copyright 2006). (I don't remember the proper way to cite a source, and I'm not sure if this is a kosher citation, as this isn't an academic paper. I'm going to trust that, if she comes across it, Ms. Hartley will be ok with it. Also, I will say that the book is very well written, and I'd recommend it as an excellent general guide for sex.)

    Nina says that she does a lot of anal play, if not actual anal sex, so she "cleans up" pretty much every time she's planning on sex. Her process:

    She goes on to say that she's not a fan of doing a full enema because the timing is difficult. The water goes up much higher in your colon, so it's rinsing down matter that wasn't going to be in your rectum in the near future anyway, and that can actually cause more of a mess.


    My honest notes on the subject (please don't judge me for the TMI!):
    • Yes, this is effective.
    • The bulb syringe she is talking about is something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Premium-Silic...ds=anal+douche I've read elsewhere that it doesn't need to hold any more than 8 oz of water.
    • To be perfectly honest, I don't always use gloves, but I usually get straight in the shower afterward. As Nina mentions in the same chapter, "Remember what they told me in nursing school: There's nothing that can't be washed off, so relax, already."
    • After doing this for awhile, I don't always need to use a finger for guidance. It's actually preferable that the nozzle not go in very far, and once it becomes routine, you may not need a finger to guide you.
    • If this were just for my personal sex life, I'd definitely stop after three times. Since we're talking about my money, if the messiness level is minimal after the third time, I'll do a fourth round for good measure.
    • She says that you know you're good when you're expelling only clear water, but that implies that you're flushing the toilet each time you flush yourself (how else would you know what was expelled in the most recent round?). I find that wasteful, so if I think I'm good, I'll poke around with a finger or small toy, and just be sure that everything comes out clean.
    • I don't think it's a good idea to do this shortly after shaving your bikini area. It's probably not a big deal, but I'd rather not expose any small nicks to rinsing water. My routine is to do anal prep, shower, and shave at the end of the shower.
    • It's okay if "your butt isn't in the mood." If I'm not doing anal for the day, I usually excuse it by telling the guys that I did a LOT of anal in my personal life the night before, and I need the night off from it. I've never had anyone get upset about that. Usually they're quite happy to look at my (uninvaded) asshole while I tell them a detailed story about how it got abused the night before.
    This was great info especially for a beginner like me. I've been thinking of doing anal. I bought butt plugs to test the waters. Not to be graphic but when I tested one out I didn't like that it had specs of shit on it when it came out lol. In my head I thought that just because I took a bath before hand that I would be fine. I have also done anal a couple of times with a partner and that has never happened. So I was thinking about getting an enema bag but then I saw the anal syringe and thought that would be better. I definitely don't want to stick a toy in my ass and it brings out a few surprises. This seems to be pretty fast and simple process.

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    I dont offer penetration. Sometimes there is leiway with some of my regulars or newbies as an added exclusive fee on a rare occasion. Angles are a lovely thing especially with my huge booty, custies always bummed that I dont offer it. my booty cheeks just swallow up a dildo from a side view never ever entering. Fingers are easy to fake as well!

    I do, do a lot of anal play for work and personal and my routine is very similar. I usually take my shower head spread these cheeks and go to town afterwards, basically a handheld bidet after the routine.

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    Sorry if this is stupid but how do you fake it? Lol don't they want to see toys go in and out?

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    Xxxluv you bring up a good point, my arse is huge as well haha. So for me there is never any problem with disguising things. To fake it just put the cam directly behind you so they can't see the toy from the side or an angle. Even from the side if you use a small toy you can just wrap your hand around it so it disguises how much is actually not going in. I offer toy play (not anal) and very very rarely actually use one. I just push the tip in, lie straight on to the camera, and make all the right moves and noises. If you LOOK like you're doing it they'll think you are. It's crazy to do damaging stuff to your body for camming x
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    I do real anal because I like it and because I think my ass is the wrong shape to fake it. Most of my anal play is using a butt plug while doing something else, like using the hitachi - they're so fucking good together! When I do anal fucking, I use a smooth glass wand that's about 1" diameter, so it's not exactly uncomfortable. Also, I don't get asked for anal terribly often, so it's not a big deal. If I didn't have fun with it, I would stop offering it.
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    Thank you so much for this post Magical! i don't wanna be gross but i think i was doing it all wrong like a real colon cleanse everyday LOL omg i can't believe this...
    I might just do like the anal friday or for the days that are actually slow. I will try this advice for my personal life aswell! THANK YOU AGAIN <3<3 MUCH LOVE!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsJess View Post
    Thank you so much for this post Magical! i don't wanna be gross but i think i was doing it all wrong like a real colon cleanse everyday LOL omg i can't believe this...
    You really don't need to do that. An anal douche is more than enough Enemas are hard to do, can be painful sometimes and is not indicated to have it every day. I perform anal on cam for 8 years and I never had a problem from just having an anal douche and not a full cleanse.

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    Ahh anal. How much to say, how much to say...oh, fuck it.
    It's personal for me, very, very personal and I do like keeping it for off cam, and that is rare in itself and I am always the one to initiate it.
    Mind you, I am very aware of how my body is feeling and know whether I am going to enjoy it, or whether there's a chance things could go wrong - the worry of that in itself just tightens me up to inpenetrable (heh) levels. For me, being clean is obiously a given, but I know (and this is my body) that my body does not take kindly to being forced into anything butt-wise. This could be because I have one hell of a sensitive stomach so it's hard to say what's best for everyone else!!

    As for camming..be careful. Even if you do enjoy it, you could cause some damage doing it too frequently. My ass is popular too, and the idea of faking it is great, and ladies: tease, tease, tease. Ask them to describe what they want to do it it, smack it, massage it, then go back to some titty play and dirty talk..more often than not, they've cum before anything is even getting inserted into my butt and personally, I grew tired of the "fuck ass bb" guys fairly early on in my camming career.

    I hasten to add, this is UP TO YOU, and if you feel you are comfortable doing anal say, daily, on cam then go for it; just be careful and please don't damage your bodies.

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    It's been a lil difficult for me really, i try to follow step by step on the recomendations but i guess yes, my stomach is so sensitive that i can't just with a simple clean and that stress me off, i also don't want to have my ass like a clown's pocket and i want to keep it good looking lol.
    i'm Slowly stopping from offering it everyday on cam, it's really tiring, i don't know how i managed to offer it when i was younger, every single day, 5 days a week. Now i am not getting younger and want to keep healthy. This means i am losing some money and it's showing now that is so slow on the camsites

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    Ahh anal. How much to say, how much to say...oh, fuck it.
    It's personal for me, very, very personal and I do like keeping it for off cam, and that is rare in itself and I am always the one to initiate it.
    Mind you, I am very aware of how my body is feeling and know whether I am going to enjoy it, or whether there's a chance things could go wrong - the worry of that in itself just tightens me up to inpenetrable (heh) levels. For me, being clean is obiously a given, but I know (and this is my body) that my body does not take kindly to being forced into anything butt-wise. This could be because I have one hell of a sensitive stomach so it's hard to say what's best for everyone else!!

    As for camming..be careful. Even if you do enjoy it, you could cause some damage doing it too frequently. My ass is popular too, and the idea of faking it is great, and ladies: tease, tease, tease. Ask them to describe what they want to do it it, smack it, massage it, then go back to some titty play and dirty talk..more often than not, they've cum before anything is even getting inserted into my butt and personally, I grew tired of the "fuck ass bb" guys fairly early on in my camming career.

    I hasten to add, this is UP TO YOU, and if you feel you are comfortable doing anal say, daily, on cam then go for it; just be careful and please don't damage your bodies.

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    Yes!! Well done. You won't lose money, gorgeous. Just start catering for a different crowd. You deserve the more sensual guys, who enjoy the tease and being made to hold out and then have amazingly intense orgasms which will all be thanks to you! The idea of it is so sexy, just tease tease tease. You will be fine. xx

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    Great post! Love Nina's stuff.

    I have an enema nozzle attachment in my shower, since I do a fair amount of anal (and, without going into TMI, it's helpful on "certain days"). If you do anal a lot, I recommend adding one; it's as easy as installing a new showerhead. Just get a splitter so you can still use the showerhead too.
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    See, its weird, because I tried ALL types of, errr, rinsing, and no matter what the water never ran "clean". small cleans, big cleans, nope, still a colorful brown rainbow out by butt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arwen25 View Post
    be careful. Even if you do enjoy it, you could cause some damage doing it too frequently. My ass is popular too, and the idea of faking it is great, and ladies: tease, tease, tease. Ask them to describe what they want to do it it, smack it, massage it, then go back to some titty play and dirty talk..more often than not, they've cum before anything is even getting inserted into my butt and personally, I grew tired of the "fuck ass bb" guys fairly early on in my camming career.

    I hasten to add, this is UP TO YOU, and if you feel you are comfortable doing anal say, daily, on cam then go for it; just be careful and please don't damage your bodies.
    Good news to report; I've been camming literally decades and can report that it's still as tight as it was before I started. No fucking idea why because the fisting I can take, it really should not be. I always like to have a spare hole for when one gets a bit overworked so that's also a plus.

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    Well..you're something special, mate. What a body!

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    Im going to move this to an all about anal thread, and then I'm going to quickly back away

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    Cheap toys may actually be made out of dangerous material. There are no relations on what they have to be made out of. Always get platinum cure silicone, metal, or glass toys.

    Also with cleaning out I like using BadDragon's Lil squirt toys. They are the perfect size. I've seen a lot of recommendations to use non-clorinated water too. At home I found an easy way to clean out after each bowel movement. All our bathrooms have bidets, so I relax my sphincter, angle the water right, increase the water pressure a little and let it fill me up. I do that a few times.

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