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    Default Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    So I'm on CMD and yesterday I had 2 different crooked clients contact me. I'm glad they were on the list and I was able to block them, but a few weeks ago one tried to send me a link to click....luckily I didn't click it and blocked immediatley. My question is, how do you screen your potential skype custies? How can we verify their age and if they are legit. Any tips? I have not been adding anyone recently, just been asking them questions and making them pay before I add them...

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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    Your best bet as far as age goes is to insist that they pay through a legit indie processing site. LCMS, CMD, etc. do their best to ensure no underage purchases. I've said it before and I'll say it again, but Amazon and Paypal don't give a rat's ass if the person using their service is under 18, as long as their cc is good. Amazon wants money - their focus isn't on preventing minors from buying gift cards to give to sex workers in return for services.

    Most often, a guy that will pay you on an indie site and isn't on one of the crooked client lists is fine.

    And don't click links. If they want to show you a pic, they can give you a link to it on imgur or someplace similar.

    Also, there's nothing wrong with adding someone and then blocking them or removing them from your contacts later if they turn out to be bad news. If you want to make them pay before you add them, that's fine, but you don't have to do it that way. If you happen to accidentally add a minor (but haven't done a show with him), you haven't done anything wrong - just block him when you figure it out.
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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    > I have not been adding anyone recently, just been asking them questions and making them pay before I add them...

    I actually don't recommend screening that way. It just chases off a ton of legit customers. I add every single person who contacts me and then block/remove them as needed if they turn out to be freeloaders/scammers. It's easy to spot them once you get the hang of it. Asking for free previews, insisting on paying through Paypal or with a giftcard, pretending that they don't know you're a cam girl, asking tons of sexual questions, chit chatting for too long...you'll start to get a feel for it very quickly because it happens constantly.

    As long as you're taking payment through a legit adult payment processor and check for guys on the Crooked Client list you're fine. Use common sense with links - if it looks suspicious, don't click it.


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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    Thanks for the advice ladies!

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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    Everyone has their way of doing things. My best screening (because when I add, that's when they feel entitled to actually CALL me instantly without paying) is I don't add until they pay. It's never failed me as I make it clear wherever they find me that if they're not contacting me for a show, they're wasting both of our time. I'm not a bitch about it, but I cut straight to the chase. If they say they're inquiring but want a show later, I ask that they pre-book. Otherwise, why bother me? I never get questions, they just want to bug for free. I do the same in free. NO LOITERING.

    I tried to do the add everyone and I have more direct sales when both parties know it's pay or fuck off. I ended up having a list full of freeloaders or guys saying they wanted a show, but never went through with anything. Or they'd bug me and when I asked if they'd like a show it was "Oh, I just wanted to say hello bb, soon." Nah, son. Know what you want when you message me or bug some other cam bb. We all know they're just adding girls anyway and most likely weeding out the cheapest or the easiest one to flirt with to get off as free as possible.

    I consider my skype like a window shop. If you're asking to come in, you need to buy something and not just browse because I'm not selling towels, I'm selling virtual sex. What guy goes to a brothel to browse and leaves until later? Not my brothel. I weed out guys by making it clear that if they want on my list, they need to either pre-book, or book while we're chatting. I don't have time for "I'll get one later/soon/tomorrow". I do the same for guys who haven't purchased in ages. SEE YA! Funny, they all add you back when they're horny again which means they have CA$H at that exact same time and that's when they get readded.
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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    I always quickly check the crooked list before adding them...unless I'm out on my phone. I usually know without 5 mins if someone is interested in a show or not...and I NEVER engage in any free sex chat, or chat for longer than 5 minutes ( unless they have a specific fetish that needs explaining). Anyone who asks to pay via PayPal/Amazon/Bit coin or wants a preview gets deleted/blocked. It's worked for me thus far, and I trust my instincts more these days.

    You can build up some great regs with CMD and out of all the sites out there, it's by far my favourite.

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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    Quote Originally Posted by foxirox View Post
    I always quickly check the crooked list before adding them...unless I'm out on my phone. I usually know without 5 mins if someone is interested in a show or not...and I NEVER engage in any free sex chat, or chat for longer than 5 minutes ( unless they have a specific fetish that needs explaining). Anyone who asks to pay via PayPal/Amazon/Bit coin or wants a preview gets deleted/blocked. It's worked for me thus far, and I trust my instincts more these days.

    You can build up some great regs with CMD and out of all the sites out there, it's by far my favourite.
    How does one find the crooked list?

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    Default Re: Skype shows-how do you weed out bad custies?

    ^^ On your CMD dashboard, look at the sidebar on the left. It's the last link. On your LCMS dashboard, look at the top of the page. One of the buttons is "Bad Clients."

    For obvious reasons, these lists aren't just sitting around on the public internet.
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