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    Sugar hustlers: Do you ever feel like you shouldnt, or even cant suggest Funds cause the guy should know depending on where you are in the process of getting to know each other?


    I dropped discussions about wanting to be in his city for NYE.. basically we both knew what I was getting at: fly me out fucker!

    No flight suggestions from him aside from "oh but if you decide to visit , you're more than welcome to stay with me

    It would really be a waste of time considering hes a recovering drunk so does not drink and stays away from clubs and bars and I want to be out NYE.

    I just wanted the free flight to see some clients..
    (I'd work then see him for food and such) BUT asking seems redundant at this point. He knows what it is. And I'm assuming I've got my answer : a no

    He's rich but I can tell he's cheap. And tries to call to have long winded convos. I never ansewr

    should I even bother at this point?

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    Default Re: When the Rule "Closed Mouths Dont Get Fed" Doesnt Apply

    Always insist he pays. I already went through this as a really young dumb stripper- if you fuck him for free he usually never calls back. He already thinks you're a player or dumb so he won't be sad about your absence. Especially now with Tinder & social media, he's on to the next.

    If he has a nice car, a job & a few suits in his closet, he can afford to pay your ticket. If he can't you have no business talking to him.

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    I've said it one too many times, it does not matter if the guy is a billionaire. If he doesn't see value in you/your relationship with him, he will not share his wealth with you. If he's calling to have long winded conversations and hasn't showed you that you are valued, you are wasting your time with him. It doesn't matter if he has a nice car and a few suits in his closet, I know men that drive Ferraris and buy their clothes from target, everyone's value system is different. The real question here is how long are you willing to play this game? Personally, I don't mind a long game, however, I only play that game IF he's shown potential. If he's acting funny over a plane ticket? that would automatically cancel him out in my book but everyone's different. My SD is well-trained.

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    I hate when guys don't offer so then you have to come out and ask them for money, flights, etc. and risk looking like a money hungry gold digger. Ideally he would have offered on his own accord. Now you gotta figure a way to get him to open his wallet for you to travel to see him. If he is a cheap as you think I believe he may not consider flights and such an investment he's willing to take. Hunt for more generous sugar daddy?
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    Default Re: When the Rule "Closed Mouths Dont Get Fed" Doesnt Apply

    Nope, I would have just dumped him. He has enough money to purchase a plane ticket and fly you out there. He just wants to play a timewasting game and I would have drop him like a hot potato.

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    Default Re: When the Rule "Closed Mouths Dont Get Fed" Doesnt Apply

    You said it yourself, you BOTH knew what you were asking but he basically declined a very simple request..NEXT!!

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    Ew, no get rid of him! Not even a plane ticket. Even if he did buy you that plane ticket, once you got there I doubt he would be feeding you. Oh, and you can stay at his house? How nice of him..please..for what to fuck you ? How many times for that $300 plane ticket??

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    <boot>! I will go further, and I hate to say this, if the quote above is accurate, he is enjoying humiliating you. If he had the family excuse, it would be one thing, but he doesn't. You should probably drop out of his existence.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    He already thinks you're a player or dumb so he won't be sad about your absence. Especially now with Tinder & social media, he's on to the next.

    If he has a nice car, a job & a few suits in his closet, he can afford to pay your ticket. If he can't you have no business talking to him.
    Tinder is exactly where we met. He was vague about what he does but I'm a beast when it comes to detective work and he's indeed a multi-millionaire but you would never know it which I'm not surprised about.

    Older men, particularly white American ones tend to be lowkey about their wealth.. that old money attitude. He showed up to lunch in raggedy white Reeboks, Danny Tanner style khakis and some shirt from the early 90s. That's why I never focus on fancy cars, watches, etc. He had none of that. So if I hadn't done my research, I probably would've thought the worst

    Anyway, he was very generous when it came time for "hey do you need me to order you a Uber? Let me pay you back for that ride you took... etc."

    But other than that.. *Crickets*

    The way I see it, I can either keep working on him to simply rinse him .. but I really wanted to see about a long term arrangement but as already mentioned, if he's not even trying to spring a plane ticket.. fuck it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Hunt for more generous sugar daddy?
    That's the plan!

    To me, broke and cheap goes hand in hand with rich and cheap. I heard truck drivers are real generous. Fuck these one percenters.. where they at? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    Older men, particularly white American ones tend to be lowkey about their wealth.. that old money attitude. He showed up to lunch in raggedy white Reeboks, Danny Tanner style khakis and some shirt from the early 90s. That's why I never focus on fancy cars, watches, etc. He had none of that.
    The only two billionaires I personally know (not The Donald I've only met him once) are like this. One of them, his SB lives in a 30 mil townhouse on upper east side but he acts a regular horn dog, chasing girls off tinder and never telling them who he is. The other is like 85 but wears Steve Jobs clothes everywhere and is secretly gay.

    They are both also total assholes :-)
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    Default Re: When the Rule "Closed Mouths Dont Get Fed" Doesnt Apply

    Exxotica,
    Truckers are pretty easy as sugar daddies. I would suggest going to your local truck stop and chatting with some of them. Usually, I love messing with younger truckers because they have less responsibilities and give more money. Truckers are pretty easy going and just want someone who they chat with. I make my arrangements after the third date with them and they can be pretty fun. Less game playing and less stress than super rich guys. You can also focus on those owner operators who love paper chasing because they can wire that money straight from the truck stop.


    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    That's the plan!

    To me, broke and cheap goes hand in hand with rich and cheap. I heard truck drivers are real generous. Fuck these one percenters.. where they at? lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Exxotica,
    Truckers are pretty easy as sugar daddies. I would suggest going to your local truck shop and chatting with some of them. Usually, I love messing with younger truckers because they have less responsibilities and give more money. Truckers are pretty easy going and just want someone who they chat with. I make my arrangements after the third date with them and they can be pretty fun. Less game playing and less stress than super rich guys. You can also focus on those owner operators who love paper chasing because they can wire that money straight from the truck stop.
    Did you mean truck 'Shop' like you posted, or truck 'stop'?
    Thanks in advance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Exxotica,
    Truckers are pretty easy as sugar daddies. I would suggest going to your local truck shop and chatting with some of them. Usually, I love messing with younger truckers because they have less responsibilities and give more money. Truckers are pretty easy going and just want someone who they chat with. I make my arrangements after the third date with them and they can be pretty fun. Less game playing and less stress than super rich guys. You can also focus on those owner operators who love paper chasing because they can wire that money straight from the truck stop.
    OMG truckers are usually lonely - they're in the damn truck for hoursss alone, unless they have a dog or something


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    For me, flight plans are black and white to me. And the easiest way to see if he's serious about spending money. Flights are expensive enough to show he's serious, but not THAT expensive where a dude has to know you for a long time to get one. He's not buying you a house. Either he's booking or he's not in my opinion.

    Met a dude this weekend. Confirmed millionaire but lives on the other side of the country. Instantly starts running game on me saying he will fly me to Cali. He was in ATL for the weekend tho, and starts going on and on about how much he would love to see me. I said okay, book the flight. I felt comfortable asking because he already mentioned me visiting Cali. This dudes starts playing games and making excuses and wanted me to DRIVE to see him. It's like an 8 hour drive. Fuck, it could be a two hour drive. I'm not going. We went back and forth. I was playing coy, and finally I just said book it and asked for the flight confirmation code. He completely backpedaled and mentioned that I must be used to dating dudes with money. I was like whatever.

    He has the money, but just wanted to see a girl geeked off of who he was so much that she would finance her own trip. So I pay for my way there AND have to fuck?!? Bitch, please. We haven't spoken since lol. I'm young, but no dummy. Straight cash is the only thing that impresses me at this point. I don't care who you are.
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    Yeah, I mean truck stop but you can meet truckers at truck shops(They sell diesel rigs and their parts)

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    Did you mean truck 'Shop' like you posted, or truck 'stop'?
    Thanks in advance.
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    I play a game in my chat room when it's dead, called "Truck stop hooker". Its really fun, and guys either "get it', and participate, or they leave.....horrified. lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Yeah, I mean truck stop but you can meet truckers at truck shops(They sell diesel rigs and their parts)
    Oh, cool! #GlamIsGooglingNearbyTruckShops

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