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    I love camming, I love that it's a chance to relax and the people you get to know and most of all being involved in these forums (or at least stalking them!). Anyways. I live at home with my boyfriend who stays most nights secretly as he currently has no where stable to stay, on nights he does stay elsewhere he stays late. Sometimes I cam and sometimes I don't. I let him use my laptop for his study in order to get him an online job. We are both looking for work online as we suffer from all sorts of introvert related to anxiety and depression.
    Anyways. The problem is that we need to move out, and we aren't making enough money to do that. My house is broke as it is, half the time I'm hungry or exhausted or depressed and as there's only one laptop between the two of us trying to achieve something I can't get my hours up on cam. I'm exhausted most days and I know I need to cam more consistently because as I'm aware in order to get an apartment successfully you need a certain amount of proof of steady income, (as well as an agent/owner who doesn't mind the "self employed"!!!). How can I handle this? I'm medicated, I'm organising a psych. Help��

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    I don't understand. You live at home with your parents? And you boyfriend comes from time to time ? Or ?

    I ask because me and the girls need to understand how much time you have to cam (not takin into the account that your bf uses the laptop aswell).

    Basically i would say that you need to do intense camming for 2-3 months and do enough money to move/buy a second laptop. So your bf would need to stay in stand by & rather help you with your camming/do clips/participate in the "business" somehow and not just sit around. But you need to cam full time so you can gain enough i would think (i odn't know how much you usually make in the little time you can cam but i know camming full time helps gathering regulars and members getting to know you).

    Or he could just take a normal non-online job just for a little while untill he manages to buy a new laptop for himself at least ?


    Ugh. Planning helps me out trough my anxiety. I totally freak out and feel like cryin when my plans take a turn haha. So maybe doing a plan and sticking to it might help ? Putting the positive parts of it and bad ones on paper ? (so you feel less anxious about what you are about to do - it helps me out knowing in advance of what could possibly go wrong).

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    Default Re: Advice for a hopeful sick camgirl in a hard place

    Quote Originally Posted by Kittycams View Post
    I love camming, I love that it's a chance to relax and the people you get to know and most of all being involved in these forums (or at least stalking them!). Anyways. I live at home with my boyfriend who stays most nights secretly as he currently has no where stable to stay, on nights he does stay elsewhere he stays late. Sometimes I cam and sometimes I don't. I let him use my laptop for his study in order to get him an online job. We are both looking for work online as we suffer from all sorts of introvert related to anxiety and depression.
    Anyways. The problem is that we need to move out, and we aren't making enough money to do that. My house is broke as it is, half the time I'm hungry or exhausted or depressed and as there's only one laptop between the two of us trying to achieve something I can't get my hours up on cam. I'm exhausted most days and I know I need to cam more consistently because as I'm aware in order to get an apartment successfully you need a certain amount of proof of steady income, (as well as an agent/owner who doesn't mind the "self employed"!!!). How can I handle this? I'm medicated, I'm organising a psych. Help��
    I am confused by this.....why is he studying to get an online job? What job is he studying for? Is there not another online job he could get that he wouldn't have to study for?

    Edited to add: Also, does your local library allow for computer time? Could he study there?

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    I would say to put yourself first in order to make the money you need to move you need to use that laptop and put in the hours you need to survive and save for the move food essentials etc.. it may be hard but if you worked hard at it you can achieve the money you need to do what you have to. I know you want to help him but you also need to look out for yourself first and spending time on cam will make you the money you need to get you into a better place and life. If you are consistent then you can do this.. And if you get enough saved you could always get a better laptop down the road and let him use the one you have now. But for now id say have him use it when youre off work sleeping or whenever youre not making money but not intefere with the time you need for camming to make actual income. I hope things work out for you. This is just my advice. Hope it helps.

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    Default Re: Advice for a hopeful sick camgirl in a hard place

    Who do you live with? You cant just cam occasionally if you need to save up money to move. You do have to show consistent income for an apartment to accept you. Your boyfriend can use a computer at a library for free and there are places that help people find jobs as well. To have a work at home online job you need your own computer, usually not a laptop. High speed internet, headset, a very quiet room, etc. I know people that work from home and its strict requirements.

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