Hi Everyone,
A few of my coworkers as well as myself have noticed that more and more men are not taking dancers seriously as a long term girlfriend or wife. The few guys who do often have women who bring in all the money. I have noticed this with dancers who are in their 20s as well as into their 40s.
I suppose the answer is to know that if you are in a ltr u may be arm candy or viewed as desirable bc of the income you bring in. But what happens when u age? Or stop bringing in the big bucks?? The men were only with you because of how you look and bc u are an independent bread winner. What happens if that all changes?? I'm sure some men will.leave....
Yes I am sure there are a few good non judgemental men out there who date Strippers and treat them right. However I am always hearing the fights and the struggles. Often they are dealing with selfish men..men who are prolly only with them for looks and want their way..
I suppose getting a vanilla job is the only way for a man to have the respect necesary for a healthy relationship to occur. I also do realize there are also the men who make more than their dancer partner...I've seen those types always want to call the shots bc if they make more money they feel they should have more say so.
What do u all think?
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