So, I was dating a guy here in the North East, we were spending a ton of time together, never said it was official but he made some comment "yeh when I'm dating someone I try to focus on just that person and see what happens" ... took it with a grain of salt, because, well ... you kind of have to in my experience.
So things are cool - good, not much going out but lots of hanging out and I met a couple of his friends etc. Invited me to his families for thanksgiving, though I didn't go being that well, felt a bit soon for all that.
I sent him a message a week or so ago just saying - look like can we try and go out more like hearing about your job problems etc is kinda depressing and dating is supposed to be fun, like we aren't really in a relationship etc so constantly hearing about the problems is kinda bringing me down a little ... and I'm a positive person we should just focus on the fun and the positive.
So today I create a Facebook account, I had spoken to him over the past couple of days ... just via text, it's the holidays etc. I go to add him click on his page and see photos posted with some female with the caption "look what santa brought me for Christmas"
So I sent him a text like damn you could have said something - like why have me texting you looking stupid. So he is saying oh it just happened two days ago, on my father etc etc. And I'm thinking well you don't just throw someones photo on Facebook randomly without good reason.
So I'm like cool, whatever, best of luck I hope you're happy.
But it hurt. What irritated me more was, I know after seeing her first name he was texting her while hanging out with me.
So this self proclaimed loyal guy was in fact a low life ... and idk it just feels like wasted time and I haven't felt hurt in ages, but I'm a combination of pissed and sick right now.
Any feedback would be appreciated.



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