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    Hi ladies,

    I have recently seen quite a few posts on here and else where on the internet stating that cam models tend not to do acts that they enjoy in their own lives. Think an online domme that isnt a domme in reality. Now whilst our custies tend to put us into our niches surely we have to also enjoy these acts not only on a business level but on a personal level?. Surely it is also easier to create a fantasy that the cusite buys into if we already engage in that fantasy? I would love to see your responses to this as i am from the new year going full time after being made redundant from my vanilla work a couple of weeks ago and thus looking to develop my business as much as possible.
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    Actually, Malika, some dommes are distance dommes. You see, I have my camming personas but I am really dominant in real life. So, I like to think of myself as a distance domme....not just an online domme. Despite being a cam model into different fetishes; I really enjoy domination in my real life. Thus, I have not been able to take on real time slaves right now. Frankly, I am trying to work on my sugaring career right now before looking into offering real time domination. I offer email and phone training for guys who need a distance domme right now. I would say that you can always expand into real time domination if you want to

    Quote Originally Posted by malika29 View Post
    Hi ladies,

    I have recently seen quite a few posts on here and else where on the internet stating that cam models tend not to do acts that they enjoy in their own lives. Think an online domme that isnt a domme in reality. Now whilst our custies tend to put us into our niches surely we have to also enjoy these acts not only on a business level but on a personal level?. Surely it is also easier to create a fantasy that the cusite buys into if we already engage in that fantasy? I would love to see your responses to this as i am from the new year going full time after being made redundant from my vanilla work a couple of weeks ago and thus looking to develop my business as much as possible.
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    i am not into anything i do online. I am not into domme, sph, fat gaining fetishes, even penises for that matter.

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    I'm pretty dommy online but in real life more submissive. My submissive side helps me get into the head space of my online subs so I know what they like. But being a dom online has made me want to be more dominant in my real life for sure.

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    On cam I do soft domination/ submission and also a bunch of fetishes, even though I don't really have any fetishes myself, I also don't consider myself dominant or submissive. I'm probably as vanilla as one can get, I just prefer good old "boring" sex. Anyway, I like to perform on cam, it's a role I play, like an actress. It's business not my personal life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amanda121 View Post
    On cam I do soft domination/ submission and also a bunch of fetishes, even though I don't really have any fetishes myself, I also don't consider myself dominant or submissive. I'm probably as vanilla as one can get, I just prefer good old "boring" sex. Anyway, I like to perform on cam, it's a role I play, like an actress. It's business not my personal life.
    My feelings exactly.

    I enjoy being someone else on cam. I think I would burn out if I didn't have that separation. I don't even like it when guys try to ferret out where I'm from, my family situation, etc. Too personal.


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    I dom online, and offline, all I can think is "blech, that reminds me of work"

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    I keep it pretty real; I am sexually submissive IRL and do both online, but lean submissive. I just find it easier to do what comes naturally.
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    A model's camming niche doesn't necessarily reflect what she enjoys in her personal life.

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    I'm into the desperation aspect of watersports in real life. Of course, most cam sites don't allow watersports. Even if they did, I don't like offering it live. Guys expect you to be able to do things on command (like peeing) that you might not need to do. I'm planning on recording more watersports videos and selling those.


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