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    To be honest I have found the vanilla world to be worse than the adult industry. The cattiest, rudest, and or flakiest people i have ever met were from school or vanilla jobs or even through meetup and stuff like that. At least with adult you know what to expect. I think In general people tend to be shitty but then again I am a cynic. There are decent people and amazing friends but that is rare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    To be honest I have found the vanilla world to be worse than the adult industry. The cattiest, rudest, and or flakiest people i have ever met were from school or vanilla jobs or even through meetup and stuff like that. At least with adult you know what to expect. I think In general people tend to be shitty but then again I am a cynic. There are decent people and amazing friends but that is rare.

    THIS, right here! He sounds like no is an ASSHOLE!
    Fuck him, I'd report his ass, cursing in a store, really?


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    Yes. And the worst part of a vanilla job v. stripping is that you can't call someone out immediately when they've wronged you. Mad at the DJ? Curse him out. Fellow dancer pissed you off? It usually gets settled that same night in the dressing room. Vanilla jobs don't allow such open and real discussion and instead you're forced to deal with passive aggressive ass behavior for months. Smh
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    It doesn't matter whether anyone was around or not, btw sometimes you THINK no one's around or watching, some people have better than average hearing
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    Once @ a van. job a co-worker screamed @ me , I kept looking around & saw no one, yet someone heard b/c she got reported it wasn't me


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    My best friend current FWB is my ex-co-worker of mine. She doesn't know and he never brings it up and I am not going to bring it up.

    Happened years ago where honestly it took me weeks to remember him and where I knew him from.

    You don't owe them anything if you are in work environment, Do you and leave it at that.

    Yes I know it sounds harsh but when I use to work as a job I was extremely selective on who I became friends with.

    Now with running a business it's a little different I have people I connect with because we have common interest, I have people I connect with to give advice then I have people I am building a relationship because I see myself one day doing a joint-venture with them. Plus with building a personal brand for business it helps knowing the right people who are great networkers and marketers.
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    You probably don't get along with stupid people. Get used to it, there are plenty of them in all walks of life.
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    If you ask me, it sounds to me that that male co-worker has a crush on you. It also sounds like he is immature and that him acting strange towards you is his pathetic, juvenile way of showing interest without making it obvious. If you think about it, why would someone with no interest in you feel the need to be a jerk? He's trying to get your attention and for some people any attention, even negative, is satisfying. The vanilla world can be just as bad as the adult entertainment world, depending on your specific job of course. For example, I've worked at strip clubs with quite a few catty, bitchy attitude women. That's expected in that profession but when I worked my vanilla job, I came across quite a few women like that as well. There was no reason for them to be that way really because all we did was bag linens and throw them on an assembly line all day. There were no chances for advancement and everybody in management had been there 20+ years. Quite a few of them were well past retirement age(in their late 70s and 80s) and still working in management or on the assembly line. It was a dead end job for the assembly workers like me. I never thought I'd see the day where grown women, old enough to be my grandma, would resort to high school antics such as writing bathroom wall gossip in the women's bathroom about me. People can be assholes. That's why wherever I work a vanilla job, I prefer to be the quiet girl who keeps to herself. Too many people if you say too much they will throw you under the bus if it will make themselves look better. When it comes down to it, at the end of the day none of those people at work care whether or not your rent and bills or paid or food is on the table.
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    I'm a guy, so I have the inside scoop on why men act like this. Here is a full, exhaustive list of reasons:

    1. He has a crush on you
    2. He is 13 years old
    3. He has a crush and is 13 years old
    4. He is bipolar or has some other form of mental illness
    5. Suffers from extreme social anxiety and has a crush on you
    6. Has you confused with Lisa from accounting, who is a total bitch


    I'm going to go with WendiStarr on this - he has a crush on you. Sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    To be honest I have found the vanilla world to be worse than the adult industry. The cattiest, rudest, and or flakiest people i have ever met were from school or vanilla jobs or even through meetup and stuff like that. At least with adult you know what to expect. I think In general people tend to be shitty but then again I am a cynic. There are decent people and amazing friends but that is rare.
    Thank you! I was feeling this way today. Thank that's very validating. Maybe it's stupid, but I value honesty- at the club even. I have a lot of integrity- compulsively so. When people ask what I do for work I tell them. If they have a problem with it, then too bad. It's probably cost me a few times, but I'm not ashamed of what I do for a living and I'm a good person. If someone has an issue with it at least I know right away.

    I totally felt blown off at the gym by someone I thought was trying to befriend me. I can't help but wonder if it's cause I'm a dancer or she's just fake. Oh well. Rejection is Gods protection.

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