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    Default Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    Hey! I have a client on Streamate who loves watersports and diaper play. We often talk about these things during our sessions, but I do no actually pee on cam. It all stays in the imagination. I have put on diapers for him. But I do not actually wet them. Does anyone know if this is ok? I'm afraid of getting banned, but this is one of my regulars who puts hundreds of dollars in my pocket every week. I don't want to lose him. But I also dont want to lose my job!

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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    Talking about drugs got my account suspended briefly with Streamate. Literally all I did was respond jokingly with a customer when he started talking about it. But that might be a more serious subject that the taboo roleplay you mentioned.

    If SM hasn't said anything to you yet, you're probably fine. I'm pretty sure the worst that would happen if you haven't been in trouble before is a short account suspension, like 48 hours. They do it as a warning/slap on the wrist.

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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    Thats good to hear. Are they continuously monitoring our accounts? Does anyone know much about how they operate? This guy is in my room a lot. I wasnt sure if they were just overlooking him or what. I also make great money for them. I wonder if they cut slack for high earning models. /dizzy

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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    I think it depends on the topic. For underage, incest, animals, and rape, they don't want you doing it, acting it out, or discussing it. I'm pretty sure I remember one girl who got in trouble because the guy got her to talk in detail about losing her virginity, and she happened to be a minor at the time. I think those sorts of topics should just be avoided because the activities in question are actually illegal.

    SM doesn't want you to pee on cam, but there's nothing legally questionable about peeing or wearing a diaper. I don't think you'd get in trouble just for talking about it. Wearing the diaper might be a grey area, and you may need to check the performer handbook about that. Whether you get in trouble for putting on a diaper might depend (like everything else) on who catches you and what mood that person is in.

    There isn't a human watching your room at all times, but they do record everything, so they can always go back to check. If someone complains that you broke the rules, SM often assumes you're guilty until you object and show that you didn't do it or insist that they check the footage. There is some anecdotal evidence suggesting that SM enforces the rules less firmly for top models, but they can get in trouble, too.

    Another thing you should remember is that ANYTHING you do, including exclusive shows, could end up getting posted on tube sites. As far as I know, the one and only show I've had posted was taken from SM's footage by a whitelabel. I know it was an exclusive show because it included doing some niche stuff that I don't normally do and wouldn't want many people seeing. Niche and semi-taboo fetish shows are probably especially tempting for whitelabels because they don't get a lot of that sort of content. So remember that even if you don't get in trouble for wearing a diaper, you can be put on the tube sites doing it. There's nothing wrong with that, but you may or may not feel comfortable with it.
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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    Pretty sure if its a listed dont do item, they dont want you to talk about it either. They do not cut any slack no matter what you earn them.

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    Can anyone who has experienced being reprimanded for something on the mild side of things share with me what that experience is like? I really dont want to risk losing this particular john because he is one of those that books me for long periods of time and is also very consistent on a week to week basis. It honestly feels worth the risk to just talk about this kind of thing with him. There is never any severity to our sessions. It is just me talking dirty very specifically about watersports. As of yet, nothing has happened in spite of the many hours I have spent with this particular individual.

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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    Do you know if he follows you on any other sites including social media? If he does you could recomend moving him across to skype, just make sure you have a payment processor to take his payment. Obvioualy you cant give out this info on SM but you could message him on twitter for example saying you want to try a skype show and considering he spends a good amount of time with you the rates would be x amount so better priced etc.
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    Default Re: Is talking about banned things as bad as doing them?

    There are plenty of models that get by with fetish by staying aware and not going beyond the fine line. You have to be fairly witty about your craft to keep him in private and not break the rules. bravo!
    Usually models are the ones to turn you in.
    if you want a solid answer... sm knows we cater to fetish, I would email [email protected] and get a solid answer bc when you go to argue your case if suspended and point them to sw, they will end the convo right there. If it is truly bothering you to the point you question being suspended, I would ask liz. Tell her exactly what you told us. Make up a email/ip and email her to ask if ur worried about your account being flagged




    all in all its best to get this guy on skype, this was the best advice.

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