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    Default Did you ever dance for a criminal or murderer?

    My home state just busted a serial killer a few months ago for murdering/raping at least 5 women. What's so fucked up is I had met him when I first started dancing and and he actually told me weird stories that are hard to remember fully, because after one long island I don't remember anything much but his face. I saw him like 2 weeks later and confronted him, told my boss he roofied me, the guy left after 10 minutes and I never saw him again.

    One of the girls found me in the bathroom on the floor and said management put me in the work van to sleep it off. I did wake up there and have the slightest of memory, but I felt so heavy I couldn't keep my eyes open. They thought I was just drunk. I feel like I have a guardian angel or something after I saw that news article because I keep thinking "what if..?" I feel so lucky now, but back then I didn't even realize what kind of person that was... be so wary of people, I guess. He looked handsome enough that I didn't even watch my drink like a dummie

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    Default Re: Did you ever dance for a criminal or murderer?

    Oooh that's scary! I'm sorry you had that happen, and you are lucky management got you out of there and away from his reach.

    That's how a lot of serial killers get their victims though, they are so handsome and/or harmless looking that the women drop their guard. Take Ted Bundy and his pretending to be on crutches and needing help to his car. Same thing.
    And always always watch your drink!!

    Re: the title, not that I've known of. We do sometimes get groups of guys in celebrating someone's release from jail. The last one was pretty 'hard' looking; his buddy tipped me on stage, and said he'd been in for 8 years, then wanted me to come dance for him. I was thinking "What did you have to do to get 8 years" and absolutely refused. Most other girls refused to go to their table when they found out.
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    I ran across a guy that literally gave off the christian bale vibe in american psycho - scariest person I ever had to deal with, in a really sinister way. Not really sure whether he was a serial killer/sex offender etc ... but he certainly gave off that vibe ... none of the girls liked dealing with him.

    My ex got 35 years, so essentially I was sleeping with a criminal for 6 + years. Which looking back on what he ended up charged with and other things he was accused of ... gives me a weird feeling, kind of.

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    I used to be pretty good friends with a convicted murder, that we suspect was a serial killer. He was a mutual friend of a dancer friend of mine from a club we both worked at yet I had never met him there- I met him through her. Other than the fact he was the very most slight degree of "off" emotionally he seemed really normal and pretty cool.

    Three of us girls actually stayed with him once when there was a power outage. Long story short, when my GF got married and then divorced her ex-husband had background checks ran on everyone she associated with in an effort to paint her in a bad light. Turns out the guy friend had been convicted of murder in the 1990's! He did a very short sentence because there was another suspect and both men accused the other and they were not able to charge either with 1st degree or pre-meditation. My girls and I were not familiar with the story because we were too young and did not live in the area at the time.

    The press did learn there were 2 other murders where the MO (particularly what was done to the body) matched in a different state while the guy was living there. If it was not him it is a very strange coincidence and if it was I am thinking maybe the jail time made him stop.

    I don't know. So weird and so scary because we spent so much time with him and would have NEVER thought he was capable of anything like that.
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    Never danced for one, but met an ex's friend who later killed some chic that was living in his place. I found out about it when I was watching some show on the I.D. chanel. My jaw dropped.

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    I danced for a bank robber. He was just released when I danced for him, and he was celebrating. Told me all about how they used to rob banks. Very interesting evening to say the least.

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    Girl never let looks fool you. The devil can come in the form of a physically attractive man.

    I remember seeing a tv show about this serial killer couple who many of their victims trusted because the female was attractive

    Ive danced for guys who said they had criminal backgrounds. One guy said he went in for selling drugs. Another guy said he was celebrating getting out but I can't remember what he went in for. But yeah sounds creepy.

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    First off, OMG how scary, glad you're ok.
    No, haven't danced for one, but a guy I was with briefly (didn't happen @ the time, but after I left him) was involved w/something like this..not going to say too much about it, as it's never been proven.
    I also made a post in Ladie's about it.
    Yes, be careful always, I've read many chilling case stories,& Anne Rule books.
    One of the worst things I've read, on cnn.com was a series of unsolved murder/rape/burglary cases, the guy murdered 12, from around '80 - '90. He's still out there, if he's still alive.
    & yes, not infrequently women can play a part in assisting these assholes.
    Looks can be deceiving, one of the blandest looking guys ever I went to school with, is in prison for life, for stabbing his neighbor to death that yelled at him for walking on his lawn


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    Quote from Anne Rule:

    dedication: "To those who trusted too much, & it's now too late, & for those who still do, beware"!


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    Default Re: Did you ever dance for a criminal or murderer?

    Several times. Idk if any of them were murderers, but I've danced for quite a few guys where I'll be like, "So what brought you out tonight?" etc and they'll say "I just got out of jail!" and I'm like in my head "please don't tell me for what please don't tell me for what"

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    I've danced for several different guys who were in prison/jail before. One of them was in prison for like 20 years for weed trafficking, I think. Super nice guy who became my regular for a little while, but then he moved to California. The other guys, I'm not sure why they were in prison/jail. I didn't ask. lol
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    I've danced for a lot of people who have been in prison/jail for drug crimes but nothing as serious as rape or murder as far as I know. Although (outside of dancing) I work with law enforcement and am not shy about that so I tend to scare away most "harder" guys.
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    Default Re: Did you ever dance for a criminal or murderer?

    In my personal life I've dated dealers, gang members and killers. I grew up in an upscale neighborhood, but spent my time in ghetto trap houses with these guys so in the club I'm able to appeal to the older, white collar gentleman and the young gangbangers that occasionally wander in.

    I do well the the hoodlums, I dont mind. When all the other girls are running from the table of recently released felons I'm welcoming them home. I've had guys admit to dealing, pimping, robbery, and gun running. I've never had a guy admit to rape or murder, but you can make your own conclusions when the guy has 3 visible gang tattoos and tear drops by his eye.
    There's one guy who doesn't buy dances, usually doesn't even tip unless the dancer has an amazing stage presence, but he tips me to sit and drink with him. I never met him outside the club, but when he told me his nickname (on top of seeing his well known tattoos) I knew who he was. He's a notorious gang member and killer I'd heard talked about from different sources. From what I've heard he's expected to have murdered 3 people, gave a man permanent brain damage and helped in a kidnapping. I won't say I don't get intimidated when he looks at me, he has what I can only describe as 'killer eyes' because there's no emotions, just hunger or fire in them. I watch the roads a little more when I go home nights he comes in, I make sure never to say anything that could lead him on. I watch my ass, but I make that money.

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    If I'm understanding OP correctly, criminal customer slipped her a Mickey Finn, and she passed out on the rest room floor. She didn't say whether guy was pressing for OTC, or not.

    Either way, better that she passed out in the club instead of driving alone in car, or worse alone with the criminal. It would be interesting to get a gauge on the percentage of club customers (and club employees, dancers, etc.) who are criminals or murderers.
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    Minnow, I was all set w/my popcorn to read about YOU dancing for a criminal..

    Back to the topic, I'd say most of us have, whether we knew it or not. Not everyone who commits crimes gets caught, or shows any signs.


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    Default Re: Did you ever dance for a criminal or murderer?

    Every dancer needs to watch the movie FROZEN GROUND (on Netflix). It is so good and based on a true story about a serial killer in Alaska. Most importantly it reminds us that adult workers (dancers, escorts, prostitutes) are many times the victim of rapists and murderers/serial killers. I have met a couple of individuals over the years that should be put on some kind of "watch list".

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    Thanks^!
    That reminds me, remember (recently) a guy in, I think SC that had several acres of land, they got a search warrant b/c a missing woman was last seen w/him, & she was found CHAINED around the neck in a storage bldg?
    Also found like 5 bodies buried on his property..he had some kidnapping or other stuff before, & it was treated lightly


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    Quote Originally Posted by cede View Post
    Every dancer needs to watch the movie FROZEN GROUND (on Netflix). It is so good and based on a true story about a serial killer in Alaska. Most importantly it reminds us that adult workers (dancers, escorts, prostitutes) are many times the victim of rapists and murderers/serial killers. I have met a couple of individuals over the years that should be put on some kind of "watch list".
    Yes. We are considered "low risk". Many sex workers do not have a good relationship with their family and therefor can be missing for several days without anyone calling the police. The most "low risk" being prostitutes who walk the street/ track.

    I have posted about it before so I won't go into detail but I worked with a girl in Miami whose body they found after she left a club with a customer and the small ass town I grew up in had 2 prostitutes murdered in less than 7 years. One one of these three cases was solved.
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    Frozen Ground is on youtube, I just watched it, horrifying. I looked him up (Robert Hansen) & they said he could have killed up to 30 women, I think they found 21 bodies or remains, a couple identities were not confirmed.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    Yes. We are considered "low risk". Many sex workers do not have a good relationship with their family and therefor can be missing for several days without anyone calling the police. The most "low risk" being prostitutes who walk the street/ track.

    I have posted about it before so I won't go into detail but I worked with a girl in Miami whose body they found after she left a club with a customer and the small ass town I grew up in had 2 prostitutes murdered in less than 7 years. One one of these three cases was solved.
    The Pickton murders in Vancouver are a good example of this. He claimed to have killed upwards of 50 women and was only charged with 6 murders. Girls working the streets knew for two decades that their coworkers who left with Pickton didn't come back, but they were ignored by police because just drug addicted prostitutes in their opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    Yes. We are considered "low risk".
    Shame to say, cops in general don't worry nearly as much about missing dancers, escorts, etc., as they do about missing 'normal' women.
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    Oh! I forgot! I have a regular who killed someone in a car accident in between the first and second time I saw him. He says it was dark and the guy who died was riding his bike in the middle of the rode with no lights or reflectors, but knowing my customer it probably wasn't that simple.... I'm not saying he intentionally ran over the guy and it's definitely different than the someone who intentionally murders but still made me feel a bit weird hanging with him that night.
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    My girlfriend's friend had a regular who was a murderer, but not at the time he was seeing her. He murdered his wife for insurance money because he was running up huge debt from spending on the dancer.

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    ^^^I remember that story making national news, no?
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    Yes, it was widely reported.

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