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    Default Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    This is probably a silly question, because just like any job there's good and bad people.
    But I just feel better if I'm prepared and know the worst that can happen. I don't mean to bring up something negative, but everyone here is thankfully honest and seems ready to discuss the good and the bad.

    I have yet to start but I feel so ready. I just like to mentally prepare for things that scare me until I finally say screw it and go for it.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Yep.^
    There's a couple threads in Stripping section: worst thing(s) customer & another dancer has said (2 separate threads).
    & yea Mgr's can be dicks too..
    No matter what you do, just try to stay positive & make your $$$'s.
    Also, no matter how well you prepare, some shite will come your way that you may not know what to do. Just follow above advice.
    Good luck!


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    If you want to be properly prepared, expect people to say rude, hurtful, disparaging and insensitive things to you. If you can figure out how to not let it affect you; you will be ok. If you can not- dancing is not for you.
    XoXo Gia
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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Yeah although I am sensitive, I'm also strong and can handle the worst. My day job has people who comment things about me, always nice, but sometimes people are rude too and rather have their favorite girl helping them. I already work with a bunch of girls, so it's basically the same deal the way some guys have a preference for me at times too and ask for my number when they're way too old , but I'm not emptying their wallets YET!
    I actually can't wait to put all those pervy men to use in my life.

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    No, never. Because this industry is all rainbows, unicorns and safety pins.
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    ...Safety pins to the eye!!
    XoXo Gia
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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Yes, but the waste of skin got fired two months later. Shockingly corporate clubs have rules EVERYONE has to follow.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Yes, customers can be very rude. The second they say something rude, I ignore them. I want to have a good fun night, and won't allow anyone to ruin my night or money. Thankfuly, most customers usually have nice things to say. I actually feel very appreciated at work.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Customers can be assholes but the good thing about this job is you can just walk away or be an asshole back lol. Not like working at a restaurant or some other place where you have to smile and deal with it.

    But if the manager is an asshole then you do just have to deal with it. Luckily I don't work with any really mean managers though. Anytime I haven't liked management for whatever reason I ended up leaving. Which is another pro about this job you can bounce around from club to club until you find one you really like.

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    I get about 1 bad party or customer per year so not bad

    My last one was last Setember

    Need a thick skin

    All the best

    Nicole x

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Sometimes customers will also say stupid douchey things without trying to be intentionally mean. Those guys also get put on ignore. I had one customer last month say something incredibly rude. I excused myself and left, and I still won't acknowledge his presence to this day. His loss. He once told me that I gave the best lap dances, but thanks to his rudeness and stupidity he won't even get a "hello" from me anymore. These idiots need to be taught that rudeness and stupidity will cost them. Instead I just focus on dealing with people who treat me with the respect I deserve.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a customer or a manager say something mean to you

    Oh hell yes!! Customers saying disrespectful, stupid, or even downright cruel shit can be a nightly experience. Just know the tmany guys come in to insult beautiful women because they're bitter about their tiny dicks. Just ignore it, but don't be surprised.
    I had a horrible manager at a club I worked at for 3 years. He would call girls fat, sluts, whores, stupid, etc basically anything he could think of..that was a lot harder to deal with. But this industry can be cruel
    I've done business with men who think I'm as silly as I look; by the time they figure out I'm not, I've done got the money and gone -Dolly Parton

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