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    Ha anyone used Secret Benefits or another "sugar baby" "dating" site? I was thinking that it would be an awesome way to make some cash, but a lot of the guys you meet there are just like on the cam sites. They always have some sob story and don't want to pay up. And since it's a "dating" arrangement, you can't force them to gift you money or objects.

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    Default Re: Has anyone used Secret Benefits?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChubbyCherub View Post
    Ha anyone used Secret Benefits or another "sugar baby" "dating" site? I was thinking that it would be an awesome way to make some cash, but a lot of the guys you meet there are just like on the cam sites. They always have some sob story and don't want to pay up. And since it's a "dating" arrangement, you can't force them to gift you money or objects.
    Then you clearly already know that it's a waste of your time. Real SDs are found offline.

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    Default Re: Has anyone used Secret Benefits?

    ChubbyCherub,
    Most of these sugar baby/sugar daddies sites are a waste of time. It is better to freestyle and see your POT face to face


    Quote Originally Posted by ChubbyCherub View Post
    Ha anyone used Secret Benefits or another "sugar baby" "dating" site? I was thinking that it would be an awesome way to make some cash, but a lot of the guys you meet there are just like on the cam sites. They always have some sob story and don't want to pay up. And since it's a "dating" arrangement, you can't force them to gift you money or objects.
    Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    ChubbyCherub, Most of these sugar baby/sugar daddies sites are a waste of time. It is better to freestyle and see your POT face to face
    Which are the best places to freestyle? Any tips for where to hang out when I move. My closest big city would be Atlanta, I don't live in the metro area yet. I suspect there will be fierce competition there.

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    Default Re: Has anyone used Secret Benefits?

    I have met some real SDs off of seekingarrangement.com that paid me decent $$ typically $500 a date not as good as escorting cash but not bad.

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    I would say the best places to freestyle are steakhouses, country clubs, cigar lounges, and high-end hotels if you are looking for white collar guys.


    Quote Originally Posted by sensy View Post
    Which are the best places to freestyle? Any tips for where to hang out when I move. My closest big city would be Atlanta, I don't live in the metro area yet. I suspect there will be fierce competition there.
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    Default Re: Has anyone used Secret Benefits?

    500/date is good money compared to a "real job," but it's peanuts compared to regular escorting. My first time out in LA with a sugar daddy off of seekingarrangements.com, I got $500 for a long evening together, including dinner but I felt so cheap afterwards with the $500 in my hand. This was the amount I'd get hourly working at the brothel in NV, whereas I had to spend about 7 hours with this douche to get the same amount.

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    Default Re: Has anyone used Secret Benefits?

    Honestly, your best bet for finding a real sugar daddy is working a dinky little part time job where you will regularly encounter men with money such as strip clubs, restaurants, country clubs, nice hotels, upscale bars, etc. I had a legit multi millionaire sugar daddy a few years ago which I met at the strip club I worked at. I have a few friends who are waitresses at Hooters and Tilted Kilt and they've met some really good sugar daddies while working there. One of them got lucky because she was getting tired of waitressing and her sugar daddy liked her so much that a few months into their relationship he offered to take care of her full time so she wouldn't have to work. Same thing happened to me with my SD, a few months later I took a long break from dancing while he took care of me.

    And as for those sugar daddy websites...avoid!!! Lets just say I learned the hard way when I was 19 that men who go online posing as sugar daddies are usually the biggest scams and creeps!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post

    And as for those sugar daddy websites...avoid!!! Lets just say I learned the hard way when I was 19 that men who go online posing as sugar daddies are usually the biggest scams and creeps!!
    Yes, so much this.

    I keep profiles on sites just to see if I luck out & meet someone, but online a lot of these guys have a predatory mindset.

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