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    Apparently it's not a good thing to ask about their work as I've read on here. Unfortunately I did that multiple times last night. I still sold dances but felt like I talked too much before getting to the money making.
    I ask how their day was and then we talk about their job for at least 5 minutes, maybe more.
    Personally I don't want to talk about jobs and careers either. What else is there to ask about? I compliment them, they compliment me, and I'm at a loss from where to go. I can tell they eventually want a dance, but I also feel like they want to talk before that happens.

    And do you think snapchat is okay to share with customers when they want some kind of contact with you if it leads to business? Oh wait no I just remembered I post pics of my boyfriend.

    How important is it to have some contact with them in order to build regulars? I already gave one my snapchat but haven't added him back yet, and won't now.

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    Yeah don't ask about their jobs or work. They come to the strip club to unwind from work or to have fun so the last thing they want to do is discuss it.

    You can ask where they're from, how the strip clubs are there, if they are from there ask if they've been to the club before, what the 'special occasion' is. I don't like to talk anymore than that before I sell dances but I work at a club where you don't need to have alot of convo with the customers. If it's a club where you need to talk more then travel is usually a good topic. Ask if they travel alot for work, where their favorite place to go is, etc.

    I wouldn't give customers my snapchat because that's too personal for me. I usually tell customers which days I work and that's enough for them to come back and see me. I will give customers my number if I know I won't be sticking to my schedule or they spent a good amount on me. Like one regular I have always spends thousands when he comes in so he definitely has my number. But my smaller regulars who just do dances usually are good with just knowing my schedule.

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    I'll ask "what do you do for work? Just a general idea like construction, computers etc" and from there I'll make a cute lil comment so say he says computers I'll do a little giggle and say "ohhh I'm sitting with a cute computer nerd!" And that usually leads itself to more convo on his end and I'll just make small talk back to whatever he's saying

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    You can use the Sideline app on your phone. It creates a fake number, so you can use it strictly as a business number. This way you can maintain your privacy.

    We talk about anything! The best thing to do is really listen to them. Don't zone out during conversation. Be funny if you can. Then they laugh and relax , and then they like you, so they spend money. I try to stay away from work stuff and just ask open ended questions, like how's your day going, what are you doing today, do you have anything fun planned this weekend, etc. Keep it light and fun! And positive.

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    I always ask them about their day and their plans, then when they ask about mine I make up a sexy story. It's always either fucking my girlfriend or being slutty at a club or house party or whatever I think they think strippers do. Sometimes it's true! I try to keep it sexy. Sometimes I'll talk about how hot I think the other dancers are and how horny being around these hotties makes me.

    If they're really not talkative I'll ask them if they want to sit at the stage and give me dollars to tip the dancers. Then we don't have to talk much, the dancers get tipped, and the dude gets horny seeing whatever sexy tipping interaction we have.

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