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    Default Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel bill

    What do you do?

    I'm give her a few days, this is the SECOND time this person did this to me. She said she would PayPal me her half of the hotel bill and that was two days ago, a paypal transfer takes literally --LITERALLY-- ONE MINUTE to do.

    Now is ignoring my texts.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Get pissed/deal with her later and focus on making that money back.

    Sorry people are so shiesty. Also as much as I love being petty and wanna say get on her ass after she contacts you, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

    Good luck hope it all gets sorted out and hopefully it was a misunderstanding.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Sometimes even with friends & family, it's better to never lend money in the first place... or expect to not get it back. Better to refuse to room with someone if they can't afford the $200something portion of the hotel room upfront.

    Granted, hindsight is 20/20, and it's hard when friendship is involved.

    I hope your trip was still worth it!

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Once the money leaves your hand, never expect to get it back if there's legal paperwork saying so. I lost thousands to my family because they are stupid with money. I don't even want to think about it.

    Friends, I don't have true friends for this reason.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Did you get her agreement to split costs in writing???

    Gotta start treating these broads like customers and get the money upfront.

    https://splitabill.com/tour/

    Send her an invoice for service charge.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I don't think she's going to pay it. I'm going to give her a few days and if nothing comes of it, I'm going to put her on blast on here. I see her asking other girls to go on trips etc. I don't have any respect for liars, cheaters, scammers, flakes. I'm an honest and hardworking person and this just honestly shouldn't be something I have to deal with!

    And furthermore, we agreed to trip together about 9 days ahead of when she was supposed to meet me and I could have made other arrangements to travel with someone else.

    Further-furthermore, she reached out to me!!!

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    People like this ruin it for everyone because now we've all heard of someone who got fucked on a strip trip (me), so it makes you all nervous to go with someone on a trip for fear that they're going to scam you.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    That really sucks. Did she ever pay you back after flaking out on you the first time? If not, well, I don't see why this time would be any different. All you can do is keep your expenses split when making plans with dancers you've never travelled with before, even if it might end up being more expensive.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I think if she doesn't respond you should let the other girls on here know who she is and what the situation was so that no one plans any trips with her.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    That really sucks. Did she ever pay you back after flaking out on you the first time? If not, well, I don't see why this time would be any different. All you can do is keep your expenses split when making plans with dancers you've never travelled with before, even if it might end up being more expensive.
    Expenses should be split but when you book a hotel that requires payment when you check in, it's a little tricky. I guess in hindsight I should have asked for PayPal before we even left our houses.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I honestly would really like to let everyone know who this person is so they can watch out for her, I didn't want anyone to think I was being inappropriate.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by Pinksugardoll View Post
    Expenses should be split but when you book a hotel that requires payment when you check in, it's a little tricky. I guess in hindsight I should have asked for PayPal before we even left our houses.
    Hit that paypal invoice button.

    Karma will bite her in the a$$
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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by Pinksugardoll View Post
    I honestly would really like to let everyone know who this person is so they can watch out for her, I didn't want anyone to think I was being inappropriate.
    Might want to run it by a mod to cover your ass.
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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Or maybe you can "quietly" warn others by private message - if they ask you?
    Last edited by miss.a.p1600; 02-02-2017 at 05:28 PM.
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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    That sucks - totally feel your pain ... being "out" any amount of cash on behalf of someone else stings.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Did you get her agreement to split costs in writing???

    Gotta start treating these broads like customers and get the money upfront.



    Send her an invoice for service charge.
    Treat everyone like a customer when it comes to money/time/resources!

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    See it as a good lesson. First, it hurts -but tell yourself -it's only a few hundreds, better learn this way, and don't repeat the same situation when thousands involved. Second, it's not worth of feeling yourself bad. You are gorgeous. Being in a good mood -you will return thousands. The most important -it's not worth of your time. Time is the most precious thing.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by DamnJolene View Post
    Treat everyone like a customer when it comes to money/time/resources!
    This right here!^


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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    You could also send her a demand letter, (or email) it sounds like maybe u have, but I'd ask her for everything, including the last time she stiffed u.
    I actually hired a company to help me w something like this, however I had to go file shit in court AND serve the notice ( or pay someone to) I ended up abandoning it.
    You could try small claims court, or try to write it off on your taxes?
    Also check out nolo.com a legal site
    Good luck!


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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Yeah I don't know what the rules are regarding calling another member out but I'm sure that it's a no no. I don't want to see you get in trouble. I'm sorry you're going through this.
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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I don't think it's a big deal, I feel it benefits the community more than anything.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Just post her name in your signature lol in some comic-relief type way. We're smart enough to put 2 and 2 together.


    $500+ a lot of money, I don't care if you make 100k a year.

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    Quote Originally Posted by DamnJolene View Post
    Just post her name in your signature lol in some comic-relief type way. We're smart enough to put 2 and 2 together.


    $500+ a lot of money, I don't care if you make 100k a year.
    I'm gna give her a few more days. I can't think of why it would be against the rules to publicly state what happened, and--all due respect, I enjoy this website but I feel that I'm in the role of advice giver on SW rather than beneficiary...so if I get the boot, I wish you all the best and the absolute most cash...I don't benefit too much from this site after years of dancing and tripping and hustling.

    And Jolene, you hit the nail on the head. Truth be told, it is the P R I N C I P L E to me that this hotel/expense share was agreed on and if it's me, I'm not leaving you hanging.

    Why?? Because I'm a decent human being. And I'm not gna fuck u like that!

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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    I think it falls under the "no drama" clause. I don't agree with it but that's the only thing that comes to mind.
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    Default Re: Stripperweb member Last minute flaked on a trip and left me with the $450 hotel b

    The general rule is that if something happened off-site, it's not really SW's domain anymore, it's a personal issue between you two.

    However, in the interest of protecting others from potential scams, if you see that user posting about looking for another travel partner when nothing has been resolved between the two of you, please report the post to let the mods know who it is.

    I'm really sorry this happened to you, Pinksugardoll.
    Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.

    Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.






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