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    Hey guys,

    I've been wanting to escort FOREVER...finally decided to jump. After reading how much money agencies take, I decided to go indy. Got a second phone number, new email, new identity, TER, read a lot of advice regarding safety and I even have a website (one of those escort template sites)

    It's been one day since I started posting ads...and now I wait...

    I am very nervous and I was wondering what was your first client experience like? What steps did you take (screening etc), were you nervous? Did it go well or bad? What made you decide to take the jump and escort? Any juicy stories?

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    Mine was awesome.. he was staying at an upscale hotel and booked 2 hours. When i got there, he was right away funny and super easy to talk to, offered me a glass of wine, put on music and we danced together ...cracking up the whole time because neither of us are good dancers. I was so terrified when I knocked on the door, but the escort goddess was looking down on me lol and sent me the most perfect guy for my first date to get me started.

    For screening, I did everything. Literally. I was so nervous about the whole process and the more replies I got to my ad, the more nervous I was because man I got some really creepy emails, texts and calls. So yeah, everything...name, phone, email, city they live in, birthdate, height, weight, where they work, copies of IDS...there may be more I kid you not, I wanted his entire life story, his mamas life story, his pet cats life story.... But the longer I did it, the more comfortable I got with my ability to screen and while I do still like to have as much info as possible about a guy, now I know how to find it without asking him, so my screening process is a lot less intrusive while still getting everything I need to feel comfortable. I also never saw newbies...I needed 2 references, and I would research the heck out of them, and refuse to see him if they didnt get back to me. Now, I dont even deal with references... All that came with time though, like I said, getting to the point where I trust my screening process.

    Ive been in the adult industry my whole adult life...for almost 15 years now. The only thing I havnt done is dance...or professional porn, though I have filmed and sold porn independently so maybe that counts, I dont know. Ive heard my ex proudly tell people he was a porn star for awhile...(I wouldnt quite call it that..and I never gave him any money from it....the bragging rights alone is worth it to him apparently) So...its been a progression for me. Wish I had danced when I was younger, just so I could have been in every single aspect of the adult business. Ah well..cant win em all. lol

    BTW, it was about a month or so before I got my first date. I got a lot of requests, but such creepy scummy guys...I really needed the money too, but my desire to not end up in jail or several pieces in the Everglades in a gators tummy helped me stick to my guns. Once the "new girl on the block" edge wore off and I started getting reviews..and I started tweaking how I did business, the scummy guys dropped off and I got way better inquiries.
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    ^^^ I'm in the same boat, have been in the adult industry my entire life - with vanilla career running parallel but mostly adult work. I really love it. It's afforded me so much financial freedom and honestly I've developed into a really well rounded person due to it.

    My first client was enh very un-memorable, it was through an agency and when they're blindly sending you clients where the only info is "this is joe he is a banker" ... you don't connect as much I guess. But it wasn't awful - was pretty easy.

    As an independent I got better quality clients and my first guy was a pharma lawyer who saw me in NYC and then booked me for an overnight in London at the Halkin, and left me to enjoy a beautiful suite for the following day.

    I think so long as you screen and sort of get a feel for who you're going to see, it'll be fine.

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    Mine was awesome.. he was staying at an upscale hotel and booked 2 hours. When i got there, he was right away funny and super easy to talk to, offered me a glass of wine, put on music and we danced together ...cracking up the whole time because neither of us are good dancers. I was so terrified when I knocked on the door, but the escort goddess was looking down on me lol and sent me the most perfect guy for my first date to get me started.

    For screening, I did everything. Literally. I was so nervous about the whole process and the more replies I got to my ad, the more nervous I was because man I got some really creepy emails, texts and calls. So yeah, everything...name, phone, email, city they live in, birthdate, height, weight, where they work, copies of IDS...there may be more I kid you not, I wanted his entire life story, his mamas life story, his pet cats life story.... But the longer I did it, the more comfortable I got with my ability to screen and while I do still like to have as much info as possible about a guy, now I know how to find it without asking him, so my screening process is a lot less intrusive while still getting everything I need to feel comfortable. I also never saw newbies...I needed 2 references, and I would research the heck out of them, and refuse to see him if they didnt get back to me. Now, I dont even deal with references... All that came with time though, like I said, getting to the point where I trust my screening process.

    Ive been in the adult industry my whole adult life...for almost 15 years now. The only thing I havnt done is dance...or professional porn, though I have filmed and sold porn independently so maybe that counts, I dont know. Ive heard my ex proudly tell people he was a porn star for awhile...(I wouldnt quite call it that..and I never gave him any money from it....the bragging rights alone is worth it to him apparently) So...its been a progression for me. Wish I had danced when I was younger, just so I could have been in every single aspect of the adult business. Ah well..cant win em all. lol

    BTW, it was about a month or so before I got my first date. I got a lot of requests, but such creepy scummy guys...I really needed the money too, but my desire to not end up in jail or several pieces in the Everglades in a gators tummy helped me stick to my guns. Once the "new girl on the block" edge wore off and I started getting reviews..and I started tweaking how I did business, the scummy guys dropped off and I got way better inquiries.
    BlckSharpie- it is NEVER TOO LATE to dance. I work in Vegas and in my opinion, the older ones are way hotter because they take care of theirselves unlike the newbies who just want to party. I know 50 year old dancers- it's never too late, I promise.

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    Well, I am leaving town in 6 days..from the looks of it, I probably should not expect anything before I leave town. I guess I can take my ads down and post them again when I'm back in 10 days. I posted on EscortPost.com and MyProvider Guide. For some reason, I am looking for the right time to post on TER. Also, have you ladies heard of escortmat.com? Looks pretty dead there but it seems like there is a lot of potential- maybe they are new...I posted on there anyway.

    Thank you for sharing your first experience stories. i will post mine asap

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    Leave your ads up - don't remove your visibility because you never know who is traveling into town and planning ahead. You want to stay on people's list of options.
    Tons of clients will email when you're not available but you can make plans for the following week with them etc. A lot of married guys do plan ahead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BaileyGV View Post
    BlckSharpie- it is NEVER TOO LATE to dance. I work in Vegas and in my opinion, the older ones are way hotter because they take care of theirselves unlike the newbies who just want to party. I know 50 year old dancers- it's never too late, I promise.
    Don't tempt me! LoL! With the way my brain works, if I start thinking about it too hard, I just might go for it. You're now the second person in 2 weeks to say that to me! Wouldnt that be ironic, after all these years of being on StripperWeb, I finally start stripping.

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    Well, I am leaving town in 6 days..from the looks of it, I probably should not expect anything before I leave town. I guess I can take my ads down and post them again when I'm back in 10 days. I posted on EscortPost.com and MyProvider Guide. For some reason, I am looking for the right time to post on TER. Also, have you ladies heard of escortmat.com? Looks pretty dead there but it seems like there is a lot of potential- maybe they are new...I posted on there anyway.

    Thank you for sharing your first experience stories. i will post mine asap
    I say keep your ads up...if nothing else, use the guys who contact you as practice for screening... but keep them up to work on establishing yourself and building legitimacy.

    Never heard of escortmat.com Looks interesting, but when I click on the "for providers" link, nothing happens and I cant get or find any info about this site. Will keep an eye out to see if it gets more popular.
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    I've been escorting for the last 5 years and I fondly remember my first client. I found him on SA and did a 30 minute outcall to his office at my university. He was into wearing womens underwear so I had him brig me a pair. He pulled out these lime green frilly panties and he put them on...in his office with the window open...suit on top, womens panties on the bottom. I gave him a quick blow job and was on my way 15 mins later and $150 richer. I ran to the bathroom and was so happy. I couldn't believe I had made 150 in 15 minutes.

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    Mine was cute. I went to his place, collected fee. Wham bang thank you ma'am. He liked me a lot. I left early. I spent what I made on groceries the next day.

    The one thing I have learned is do not let these guys play on your greed. I've had my life in peril twice (once was a wanna-be sugardaddy who paid for a plane ticket. The other was a junkie who tried to rape me but I figured it out in time & left the room.)

    If a potential client is not willing to follow basic established rules, DO NOT deal with him. Some of these clients are sadists/manipulators. They will try to worm into your personal life or catch you at a weak moment to take advantage of you.

    Oddly enough hobby board members tend to believe the girls when it comes to these types. American men already know this kind of guy from high school- the guy who gave his girlfriend a cubic zirconium "engagement ring" to guarantee clean pussy for several months until girly caught on. The creepy uncle who is a little overly friendly with niece's bffs. & Everyone's favorite, the guy who "had a vasectomy" but miraculously shoots live rounds still. This guy never goes away. He marries a dingbat woman & chases hookers on the side so he can still pick on women.

    In my experience that's the bottom 25% of hobbyists. The rest of them are fairly sane & can comprehend common sense.

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    BlkSharpie.... are you a cat? Lol Cuz last time I checked, we have one life. I say do it before its WAY too late.

    And thanks for the advice ladies, I will keep my ads up

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    Quote Originally Posted by KALIN View Post
    I've been escorting for the last 5 years and I fondly remember my first client. I found him on SA and did a 30 minute outcall to his office at my university. He was into wearing womens underwear so I had him brig me a pair. He pulled out these lime green frilly panties and he put them on...in his office with the window open...suit on top, womens panties on the bottom. I gave him a quick blow job and was on my way 15 mins later and $150 richer. I ran to the bathroom and was so happy. I couldn't believe I had made 150 in 15 minutes.

    You got a call to the office of a man who works in your Uni? That sounds freakin hot!

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    love this thread as I"m thinking of getting into escorting

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Mine was cute. I went to his place, collected fee. Wham bang thank you ma'am. He liked me a lot. I left early. I spent what I made on groceries the next day.

    The one thing I have learned is do not let these guys play on your greed. I've had my life in peril twice (once was a wanna-be sugardaddy who paid for a plane ticket. The other was a junkie who tried to rape me but I figured it out in time & left the room.)

    If a potential client is not willing to follow basic established rules, DO NOT deal with him. Some of these clients are sadists/manipulators. They will try to worm into your personal life or catch you at a weak moment to take advantage of you.

    Oddly enough hobby board members tend to believe the girls when it comes to these types. American men already know this kind of guy from high school- the guy who gave his girlfriend a cubic zirconium "engagement ring" to guarantee clean pussy for several months until girly caught on. The creepy uncle who is a little overly friendly with niece's bffs. & Everyone's favorite, the guy who "had a vasectomy" but miraculously shoots live rounds still. This guy never goes away. He marries a dingbat woman & chases hookers on the side so he can still pick on women.

    In my experience that's the bottom 25% of hobbyists. The rest of them are fairly sane & can comprehend common sense.
    I hear ya, even when I am dancing dude play this "How far can I go for this dollar" game. I always walk away. Anyone who talks about money or try to bargain with me is a complete waste of time and a turn off. Pay the fee, stop stressing me out about money and you will have a good time thats worth it, end of story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MzBlondie View Post
    love this thread as I"m thinking of getting into escorting
    I wanted to escort all of my life. Sounds crazy but even when I was younger, I've had boyfriends who spoil me. Thats when I decided to dance at age 22 or maybe 23....Now I am almost 30 and I am jumping right into it.

    BlckSharpie, maybe it is better that you enter the game as an older woman. Even though I always wanted to do it, I am SO GLAD I didn't start sooner because I think I'd be a hot mess. Now I party less, about my business more, about my health, going to the gym, way less naive....

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    Quote Originally Posted by BaileyGV View Post
    I hear ya, even when I am dancing dude play this "How far can I go for this dollar" game. I always walk away. Anyone who talks about money or try to bargain with me is a complete waste of time and a turn off. Pay the fee, stop stressing me out about money and you will have a good time thats worth it, end of story.
    A "biker bitch" I knew who escorted in the 1970s-80s told me that when her clients were rude/mean to her they "got less" & when they were "nice" they got more. Meaning she literally walked away from appointments with abusive clients because she had kids at home & knew no fear (her baby daddy was a biker gang leader.)

    Now in the age of the Internet & stricter laws about assault/stalking, the burden is on the escort to screen, screen screen, and try to handle problems as they occur.

    My only regret from my younger days as an escort is that I didn't charge more. I was a bad negotiator AND starved for affection. I often confused the kindness of clients for the kind of affection I should have been demanding from casual boyfriends. Being an escort is knowing how to treat people, but that kind of generosity of heart can drain you.

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    LMFAO Bailey! I might be!! Nah..no, Im def not cat like. Id have to move before I do it though, literally every guy I know goes to every strip club in this city. So...maybe when I move next year, Ill give it a shot...even just to say I gave it a solid go hehe

    Snuffle..I so wish I could be as tough on guys in my personal life as I am on my clients! They make one wrong move or say the wrong thing and Im like uh no, not with me you dont. But bfs..ugh I will stay quiet and rationalize away every bit of bad behavior because I want to keep the peace and just have a nice sweet happy relationship..but it never actually is cause I end up getting depressed over it. I really need to start transferring my skills over that Ive learned in this biz!
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    My first?
    I needed major money BAD, and camming wasn't cutting it.
    An escort friend of mine gave me the number of a lady who she said had tons of work.
    Within 3 hours of calling her, I was on my way over to her apt. to see a ' sub' client. I explained that that was what I mostly had done on cam.
    In walked a big, tall, and handsome, Russian guy!
    My weakness in real life, little did they both know.
    A few key words, whispered in his ear, had him putty in my hands.
    He regressed into a little boy who wanted his Mommy, which I then became.
    The lady I worked with said she was so impressed, that she wanted me to stay to see the next customer.
    But this one was an old, crusty, ornery bastard that wanted us to bow down at his feet, kiss them,all while being submissive. He wanted us to chant" Yes Master, anything You want."
    Um, yeah, no.
    I don't do that.
    So I left.
    The next 3 days were a whirlwind of customers and camming at her place.
    Ironically when I went independent a few months ago, my first 2 customers were a sub, and a cross dresser who wanted his Mommy.
    Hmm. I think I see a niche opening up.

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    Most escorting clients understand the value of the escort. In the words of the two Economists who wrote the "Freakonomics" book series....Escorts are "rental trophy girlfriends"...... We're always sexy/beautiful. Soothing. Kind. Compliant. We say yes where the wife says no.

    The underside of that is eventually we are (in the mind of the hobbyist) party dolls who get put on a shelf. On to the next city, the next agency girl. We provide a service. They provide compensation. [The End.]

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    Rental Trophy Wife! That is GOOD wording, Snuff. I may steal that for my ads hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by BaileyGV View Post
    Rental Trophy Wife! That is GOOD wording, Snuff. I may steal that for my ads hehe
    It's in "SuperFreakonomics." The whole chapter about the Midwestern Call Girl (who is basically a Mary Tyler Moore of escorting) is interesting. The chapter boils escorting down to the same level as being a book keeper or a high end maid. Service job with perks & a short window of opportunities.

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    My first client was passed to me through a friend that escorted. I felt a lot safer because of that. She vouched for him. We met at a hotel & I was dressed up but not to the point that it would give the impression but me being much younger that probably didn't work lol.

    We went up to the room and he pretty much told me he just wanted to do oral on me and to chat. I asked him why he just wanted to do oral and his response was something a long the lines that I'd be clean because I'm brand new. I'm thinking to myself "uhh I still have sex with guys..it's not like you're eating a virgin". But just kept it to myself.

    He was really good at it and I actually enjoyed it. He wasn't interested in sex but I did end up having sex with him. I kind of talked him into it and the reason I did was because I wanted to see how I felt after having sex for money. I felt like I had a safe situation now and i should go for it. Every client is different but knew I'd be better off going all the way with a client that I felt safe with versus guy I knew not much about.

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