I found out that my boyfriend's ex started stripping through some mutual friends. I always felt he still had some feelings for her and that had always bugged me. So I don't know why but I thought it would be a good idea to go to the club with my boyfriend so he could see she was now a stripper, and maybe ruin his image of her.
So we went to the strip club. When we got there we sat down in one of the booths in the back and sure enough about 10 minutes after we sat down, I see his ex getting ready to go on stage. I point her out to him and he seemed surprised. She obviously saw us cause she looked over and smiled. I will admit I was probably one of those catty female customers at that point, pointing at her, laughing and making comments.
So after she is done dancing, I am surprised to see her coming straight to our booth. She comes up to us and is acting all friendly. She says hi to me and my boyfriend. She mentions how she hasn't seen him in a long time and wants to give him a hug, but instead of going to his side of the booth, she starts climbing over me. I was like "what is the bitch doing" but before I could do anything, she stepped over me and then grabbed both my wrists and sat down on my face. I couldn't push her off me, cause she had my wrists and she said "this should teach you to keep your mouth shut and not talk shit".
I was struggling to buck her off of me, but I couldn't get her off and finally turned my head so I could breath. By that time, my boyfriend was able to get her to get off of me. I wasn't sure if anyone in the club saw it, but I was so embarrassed, that I ran into the bathroom and locked myself in a stall. I was mortified and I needed to gather myself because I was on the verge of tears.
Out of embarrassment, I stayed in there for a while when I heard someone come in and say "I know your in there Julie, you need to get your ass out of that stall before I drag you out". Obviously I knew it was Heidi (my bf's ex). Now this is were to this day I still regret on how I handled it. I had never been afraid of Heidi, but I was so flustered with what had just happened, that I starting thinking about getting beat up by her and how humiliating that would be, so I found myself becoming timid all of a sudden. So I came out of the stall and told her I didn't want any trouble. She was asking me if I thought I could come to her club and disrespect her, and I said I didn't mean to disrespect her. I told her if we are bothering her me and my boyfriend will leave and she said "no what you are going to do is get your ass out there, sit down with your mouth shut, and buy Brad a dance and me a drink and then you can get your ass out of here"
So we went back to the booth, my boyfriend looked concerned, but she told him (in a sweet tone) that we talked everything out and we are fine. She ends up ordering a drink and giving him a lap dance in front of me. I ended up paying for the dance and when she got up. I told my bf I didn't feel well and we should go and we left. I was still so embarrassed, that I didn't say two words the whole drive home.
Now I was as honest as I could be cause I know I wasn't an angel in all of this, but isn't what she did assault? And isn't it also wrong to make me buy her the drink and the dance for my bf? Is that something she could get in trouble with if I were to complain to the club?






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