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    As I am here posting multiple ads of my blurred face...I am still paranoid that someone would recognize me...I am wondering if anyone was ever found out? Or did you do this for years without anyone noticing? I DO NOT want to be found out, I only told 2 girlfriends because they are both escorts and we tell each other where we are and etc for safety.

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    1st time I was actually halfway outed- my aunt & uncle saw me at a Casino with a customer.

    2nd time- a relative grabbed my laptop before I could wipe the browser history. BAM outed.

    If you blur your face & cover tats, no one can be sure from pics. By now (2017) people usually suss it out from other signs- you're cash rich, your haircuts are nicer, you always have take out containers in the fridge. You take more vacations (paid for by people that only a few of your nearest & dearest meet.) You don't complain about money as much & are always mysteriously busy on the weekend.

    I kept my job on the down low for a year & a half the first time around. Second time around it was on the DL for about a year.

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    Thanks Snuff, it makes me feel better.

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    Im too paranoid to blur my face... I chop it out of my pics altogether. Well, that and just before I started escorting, I saw a horror movie about a guy who when he took pics of people, theire faces were blurred and people died. Still creeps me out to see blurred escort pics cause of that movei

    Anyway...I have a boyfriend from Europe..were on again off again..nothing really serious at this point but we have a great time together and he takes me on trips and gets me really nice presents. Welllllllllll....thats what I told my friends and family anyway lol That explains away my trips, anything new I have, why Im busy sometimes and other times not at all. Ive had friends ask me..hey hows your friend from Europe? Am I ever going to meet him, of all the guys you dated I really like him the most. Yeeeeeeah, me tooooo..but his job is so demanding, its just not in the cards right now

    Ive never been outed..but..Im at a point in my life where if I were, it wouldnt freak me out. People judge me for so many other things that quite frankly, this would just be one more thing to throw on the heap. Some people would be shocked, others would be like..yeah, I can see that. And then eventually it would be forgotten.

    Mostly, the only thing I was ever scared of was kiddo..of any consequences dealing with doing this and being a single mom. But...shes 20 now...though we dont talk about it, shes clever and Im sure knows something is up. But..shes the coolest more chill and awesome person, who would ever hold this against me. And quite frankly..her opinion is the only opinion that matters. Well..hers and my dog. And my dog loves me unconditionally too so yeah, Im pretty much set!!!
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    deleted to protect ladies privacy against trolls
    Last edited by miss.a.p1600; 02-08-2017 at 12:01 AM.
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    Default Re: Where you ever found out? (Escorting)

    ^yes, they can. doesn't take super savvy tech people either. pretty sure it's just a program.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatChevyAdventuress View Post
    ^yes, they can. doesn't take super savvy tech people either. pretty sure it's just a program.
    Scary as fuck!!!! Just crop the entire head off ladies

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    Even with the deletion I think I know what youre talking about...and yes, very scary. Id rather just go with the safer "OFF WITH HER HEAD!" approach Though in my professional pics, I just turn my head to the side so that my hair covers all of my face, that way I cant be likened to the headless horseman of escorts.
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    In my case the damage has already been done & I'm almost finished with escorting/sugaring.

    I think people are just deeply jealous of each other. There are SEVERAL famous people who used sex to pin their star in Hollywood (Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, Anber Rose, the late Anna Nicole Smith...etc.) People have sex. This is a fact.

    Don't hate the player. Hate the game...

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    Default Re: Where you ever found out? (Escorting)

    New to escorting but for cam i had one of my vanilla job customers recognize me. And i dont even show my full face. I was freaked out but i got over it. After all, hes on the site too! I dont see how anyone i know irl could stumble on my escorting pages unless they were...looking for an escort. Lol you'd have to be real hypocritical pos to judge me after that. I wouldnt worry about it.

    (Although blurring doesnt seem safe. Most sites i see with blurred faces i can CLEARLY see what the look like. Like Sharpie, im a fan of hair in face

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allraedy View Post
    New to escorting but for cam i had one of my vanilla job customers recognize me. And i dont even show my full face. I was freaked out but i got over it. After all, hes on the site too! I dont see how anyone i know irl could stumble on my escorting pages unless they were...looking for an escort. Lol you'd have to be real hypocritical pos to judge me after that. I wouldnt worry about it.

    (Although blurring doesnt seem safe. Most sites i see with blurred faces i can CLEARLY see what the look like. Like Sharpie, im a fan of hair in face

    With web camming it, is inevitable to be outed.

    Sometimes I see an escorts ad or site and she would slighty blur her face and I'm thinking "What the hell was the point of that?" Because you can def ID her if you knew her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BaileyGV View Post
    With web camming it, is inevitable to be outed.

    Sometimes I see an escorts ad or site and she would slighty blur her face and I'm thinking "What the hell was the point of that?" Because you can def ID her if you knew her.
    I've noticed with how hypersexual most men are, you can always argue that you look like someone he once knew & he just got too excited. "You must be happy to see me!!!! Noooooo I'm not her but she must be hottt!!! I'm soo flattered....etc."

    Guys admit they usually check a girl out by literally looking her up & down first before they even get to her face so they are really visual.

    The best way to fend off nosy questions is to act completely weirded out. Or walk away.
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    I did! My pool guy showed up at my incall! He and I were both very shocked and uncomfortable. He was not currently working for me but had been the pool guy when my husband and I were still together. He was still, as far as I know, my ex-husbands pool guy so I just asked him not to mention that he had met me in this way and pretty much just shut the door. It was unnerving.


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    When I first started, I was dumb enough to have one pic with my face in it, but I thought it was at an angle which wouldn't be a dead on match with pieces of my hair laying across my face. but sure enough, one of my guy friends found me out. He made the typical douche move of trying to get free sex from me after that. So I guess at the same time he found me out as an escort, & I found him out as a total douche bag. It was humiliating but worked out in my favor. But I have definitely learned my lesson, always crop your face totally out of the picture. I've moved on from the point of giving a shit what people think since then. But it's just a safer move to crop your face out for a multitude of reasons.

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    Yes, I was found out to be a sugar baby/cam model by one of the guys at my mother's job. However, everyone knows that I am a sex worker and that my family has tradition of doing this type of work. Nevertheless, this guy thought that he was going to spread it that he saw me on this Italian cam site and millionaire match but my mother told him something pretty amazing. She said " And so! Will you pay my daughter's bills? Because I know that I can't and I told her that this is a great profession to get into. My grandmother, great-grandmothers, and great-great- grandmothers was making a living off sex work. In fact, my daughter is honoring our ancestors with her profession. Now what the fuck are you complaining about?" Then that type of talk stopped at my mother's job.However, my profession as a sex worker suprised no one in my family or friends. I know that is not everyone's experience but that is my experience with being founded.

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    As I am here posting multiple ads of my blurred face...I am still paranoid that someone would recognize me...I am wondering if anyone was ever found out? Or did you do this for years without anyone noticing? I DO NOT want to be found out, I only told 2 girlfriends because they are both escorts and we tell each other where we are and etc for safety.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Yes, I was found out to be a sugar baby/cam model by one of the guys at my mother's job. However, everyone knows that I am a sex worker and that my family has tradition of doing this type of work. Nevertheless, this guy thought that he was going to spread it that he saw me on this Italian cam site and millionaire match but my mother told him something pretty amazing. She said " And so! Will you pay my daughter's bills? Because I know that I can't and I told her that this is a great profession to get into. My grandmother, great-grandmothers, and great-great- grandmothers was making a living off sex work. In fact, my daughter is honoring our ancestors with her profession. Now what the fuck are you complaining about?" Then that type of talk stopped at my mother's job.However, my profession as a sex worker suprised no one in my family or friends. I know that is not everyone's experience but that is my experience with being founded.
    I wish that my parents were this open minded. It was be a mad house if they found out. I wouldn't care though because when everyone wanted to make theirs own decisions I couldn't say shit....even when it affected me

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Yes, I was found out to be a sugar baby/cam model by one of the guys at my mother's job. However, everyone knows that I am a sex worker and that my family has tradition of doing this type of work. Nevertheless, this guy thought that he was going to spread it that he saw me on this Italian cam site and millionaire match but my mother told him something pretty amazing. She said " And so! Will you pay my daughter's bills? Because I know that I can't and I told her that this is a great profession to get into. My grandmother, great-grandmothers, and great-great- grandmothers was making a living off sex work. In fact, my daughter is honoring our ancestors with her profession. Now what the fuck are you complaining about?" Then that type of talk stopped at my mother's job.However, my profession as a sex worker suprised no one in my family or friends. I know that is not everyone's experience but that is my experience with being founded.
    Do you think your mom would consider adopting me???? I wish I had a family like yours! Veeerrryyyy jealous....lol.

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    Default Re: Where you ever found out? (Escorting)

    What guys ask for face pics,do you just straight up tell them no?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HaitianKitty View Post
    What guys ask for face pics,do you just straight up tell them no?
    Of course...

    "For privacy reason, I do not have any pics of my face to share. All the photos I have available are on my ads and website!"

    Thats it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Of course...

    "For privacy reason, I do not have any pics of my face to share. All the photos I have available are on my ads and website!"

    Thats it.
    Ok I thought I might been the only one doing that,cause some girls are so open with showing their faces

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    Nah, actually, Id say the majority of women who dont post a face pic arent sending them off to guys either.

    Ive heard guys say other girls do it...they are just saying that hoping you'll fall for it.

    Other girls arent doing it, not nearly enough anyway for it to be a selling point that you should too.
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    Man... I'm a newbie to the whole escorting game and my first ad I posted on BP was after the whole censoring bullshit. I tired renegade but was too scared I'd get chopped tf up. And where I'm located you have to know people to get work, the online presence for escorts is little to none. I'm no slow chick so I used like little emojis on my face, but next time I'm just gonna used chopped off pics from a professional photoshoot. Sadly my ad got flagged and I was out of 20$. Tbh the only people I have to worry about are church folk, and nosy ass kids from my school but I always tell them my business. Hell I tell it so people don't feel like they're one upping me by trying to "Expose me" like fuck off. But of course only a fool tells all their secrets.

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    Okay so I got outed by my dads next door neighbor. He has added my on facebook randomly one day. He was about 38, married but I guess he was separated living with his dad down the road but I accepted it because whatever. Well we were hanging out, smoking weed and he called me Aria (name I had used back then).
    I wound up sleeping with him on a regular basis which to this day I dont know why because it wasnt even good lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jupiter77 View Post
    Okay so I got outed by my dads next door neighbor. He has added my on facebook randomly one day. He was about 38, married but I guess he was separated living with his dad down the road but I accepted it because whatever. Well we were hanging out, smoking weed and he called me Aria (name I had used back then).
    I wound up sleeping with him on a regular basis which to this day I dont know why because it wasnt even good lol
    but he told my dad and now my dad thinks im a forever ho but I am so whatever lol

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    Lol my first ad I blurred out the face pretty well I was good then the second time some guy recognized me from a dating site I got a bit cocky and just blurred my eyes anyways he became a regular after that. Now Idgf really there are pics that are blurred and some that are not and since I do my own editing my face is heavily edited so even if you unblur them it barely looks like me. Unless you can pay my bills there is nothing you can tell me. Everyone looks like somebody lol I sometimes have people ask if I have a sister especially when I am at school, etc... I am not very close to my parents now and if they did find out I will tell them to fuck off. Unless the person wants to book me they can fuck off.

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