I don't know where to start so I'll try to make this short. When I first started dancing I met what you could consider my first sugar daddy. Naive I believed he was divorced like he said, and went out with him. I even stayed at a hotel with him (did not have sex, told him I was on my period so he'd back off. He either didn't buy it or didn't care but I finally got him to stop trying me by telling him I had to go change my tampon. We slept and he took me shopping the day after).
Things were going well till I got a call from his wife who acted like he was abusive, psycho and she was scared of him. This being my first experience, I told her a lot more than I should have (I didn't see the crazy red flags such as her asking me if he held my hand or how big my boobs were), and I even gave her advice on how to confront him and to call me to let me know she was safe. It was that day I blocked his number.
She called me back only to harass me saying I left out information and I didn't tell her everything. For awhile she was convinced I slept with him. I've changed my number twice and blocked her. When I looked through the blocked messages I could see she tried reaching me at least 3x a day for a full week before the harassment tapered off and she left me alone.
I had no contact with them for a year until she found me on Facebook. It had been literally a year and 3 months since I had ANY contact with either of them.
She came back with a barage of insults some of which were racist and made claims that I hadnt left them alone and she was tired of me begging to see him. She's clearly delusional. Ive been going through a rough time and I snapped and went clean off on her, and blocked her. Then her husband gets on Facebook and harasses me (could've been her but idk it was his account). I calmly tell them to please leave me alone and block him.
A week later I get a message from an obvious fake account claiming to be a friend of the couple citing a fraudulent story where they came in the club with their friends and harassed me then as well. Apparently I've admitted to being a prostitute, a tranny, being involved in a host of illegal activity, claiming to have had sex with him, and begging for his attention after the couple "cut me off" (even though I was the one who blocked them).
Its worth noting that she had visited the club with her husband and they would sit and stare at me while she rubbed all over him in attempt to make me jealous. Ladies, we all know I was in it for shopping and sushi so she could really suck the fattest part of my ass in that regard. I do recall one night confronting them and taking them into a dance, I requested that she sit down and I'd dance for her to show her that the dances were in no way insidious and the most he did to violate their vows is take me on a date and have me writhe in his lap.
We also both told her to her face that we were never sexually intimate. She became hostile during the dance and I had them pay me and left. They came in a few times after that and didn't show up for almost 6 months.
I moved clubs and thought I was through with the ordeal til she started harassing me on Facebook. I realized if she's willing to make fake accounts to get to me she'll stop at nothing. I don't know what to do. I've deleted my Facebook since but she seems crazy. My dad, my sister, and a few close friends know about her. My dad doesn't know about the recent events but I don't want to worry him. Who stalks a woman who's left them alone for over a year? Honestly it kind of scares me. They're both almost 50! Too damn old I tell you! Too damn OLD for this shit. I feel like I'm gonna end up on Snapped or something.



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But for real, it got serious..as in...she was relentless and almost destroyed his entire life and involved international legal issues serious. And because I was his ex, she tried dragging me though some nonsense too, basically, she wanted to destroy him, and anyone that had any connection to him. Even his professional contacts were harassed by her. There was no stopping this woman. I dont talk to him anymore, but it started over 5 years ago, before they even broke up, and as far as I know, shes still after him.

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