Then why are you so selective about which approach?
1. Why don't you do couples? It's not like you're actually going to have a threesome. Sometimes the wife will remind her husband not to touch your private parts, thus making it safer for you.
Of course there are instances where the woman is just as perverted as a man can be. It happened to me. I gave a private dance to a couple when the woman was not wearing underwear and her boyfriend starts playing with her and then puts his hands on my skin and I feel physically dirty and jump into the shower afterwards while still wearing my clothes and shoes. But, that is not always the case.
Couples can be great customers. They could make your night - moneywise. And they don't have to worry about being caught. (And, it's a myth that the woman might get jealous - maybe she's just a bitch because she doesn't like you personally.
2. Why don't you deal with gay guys? 60% of gay men have had sex with a woman. Many gay men see women as a symbol of beauty and sexiness.
Gay men and bisexual men can be great customers. They're senses are more heightened and they have a better appreciation of feminine beauty. They also tend to be sympathetic and understanding of the business. So, don't assume that they're just there for the show.
3. Why not dance for fat or obese guys? With a fat guy, you don't even need to grind much. It's really easy. And they probably have lots of money, because no girls want to be wined and dined by them.