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    Default is giving private / lad dancing optional?

    would it be okay for me just to dance on stage and not give dances? besides the loss of those tips.. would it matter?

    does anyone do this?

    are clubs okay with it?

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    Well, you're always allowed to turn down dances, but it's kinda how you'd make the bulk of your money.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: is giving private / lad dancing optional?

    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Well, you're always allowed to turn down dances, but it's kinda how you'd make the bulk of your money.
    This ^^

    Unless you're working in an urban club or very rare ones where stage tips are awesome, there wouldn't be much of a point to bothering to come in. If there are a lot of girls working you might only go up once or twice, and there's no guarantees anyone will tip at all. In a lot of clubs, stage is simply advertising for private dances. Sitting around for the other four hours or whatever of your shift making no money doesn't sound like a good time.

    A lot of strong hustlers avoid/pay to stay off stage because it ends up losing them money- it's much more likely that you'll close a big VIP sale than have somebody tip you hundreds on stage. This job isn't like the music videos tbh.

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    Default Re: is giving private / lad dancing optional?

    I worked at one club 10 years ago that a dancer did only stage. Now she was weird, between stage sets she just stared in the dressing room mirror and picked her skin (meth? Idk)
    Try a club with more blue collar crowd and high top tables and quick customer turn over- more tip rail action since you can't get do a lap dance at a high top table, the guys can tip at the rail and spend less than a dance but get 10 + guys at that rail you can make some money each set.

    This doesn't mean low contact, the club I was at you got some serious beard burn on your breasts...but making $40 to $60 in a three song set at 7pm was a nice trade off. Dances weren't bad at this club either, since there weren't rooms it was all in the open.

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    Default Re: is giving private / lad dancing optional?

    i guess it depends on the club, when i first started years ago there was one girl at the club who only did stage, in between stage she literally sat at a table the whole time and never moved and never talked to anybody

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    Default Re: is giving private / lad dancing optional?

    maybe very rarely at an urban club would this be worthwhile to do, but honestly thats kinda like asking if you can be a doctor who doesn't have to interact with sick or unhealthy people ever and only tells people they're cured.


    private dances are 75% of the job. if that doesn't float your boat, then dancing is not for you, but you might consider camming.

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    That's like...the job .getting naked and giving dances is kinda what it's all about. If that doesn't appeal maybe try burlesque or like gogo dancing lol, because you probably won't even be able to make your house fee on just stage, esp if there are a lot of girls on.
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