I had an old regular, well name him Joe, from the strip club that i stopped talking to because I was having an old ex bf move in with me for a bit (stupid idea, i know) once i told him that, he freaked out. we had a small OTC relationship, but once he found out my ex was moving back he was pissed off, and tried talking me out of it. I reminded him i wouldnt start dating my ex again cus of a ton of reasons but we were friends and he wanted to move to my current state (we both lived in PA, i moved west and he wanted to as well so i said come stay with me until you get enough money for your own place). so anyways Joe and I werent dating, and that was clear, he knew i was hanging out with him for some $$$. on the day after my ex moved in, joe and i had a huge argument at the club...i was yelling at him that he was jealous and controlling for no reason, he knows i would never get back with my ex etc etc and he was like well blah blah blah so i ran into the dressing room got changed and went home.
the next day, my ex and i went to the mall (in his truck, that still had PA plates) to go get my phone number changed and to get a new phone. well once we got out from the mall, i noticed a familiar car parked next to his truck.....yes it was joe's. coincidence? i have no idea....i took a break from stripping after that and then went to a new club. i wound up back in my old club about 2.5 months after the whole fall out with joe,who i havent seen there since. the last contact i had with joe was in august.
fast forward to today, and i get an email from joe. my email is my last name and first name. I never told joe my email, he didnt know my last name (my last name is polish so its not common and hard to spell correctly) and i dont have any social media accounts they have all been deleted way back in june.
any advice? any clue how he couldve gotten my email? he just said hey we havent talked in a while i feel bad for how we stopped and asked how ive been. i just said yeah it is what it is but oh well im doing good and thats it. is there anything i can do to protect myself further? this is how all of these crazy stalking stories start and it only gets worse from here. i want to prevent that!! any advice is appreciated



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