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    Default i want to get into escorting...newb ??'s

    these are more personal questions not regarding the "business" side of the job...i know how to use the search tool!

    i want to get out of stripping (after about a year and a half) because i don't like the club atmosphere anymore. i dont like the quick hustle, the late hours, too much alcohol (its difficult to say no when your being offered free drinks for 6+ hours), dealing with guys/girls my age going to the club and tipping you $1 on stage and then getting mad when you try to sit and talk with them etc etc. but i love the idea of stripping/sex work. creating my own hours, selecting my own customers, making my own rules. I want to get into escorting because i feel like it would be a better fit for my personality type and looking at other escorts' websites makes me SO jealous how strong and independent these women are. so with that being said....

    1. (if you switched from stripping to escorting) do you find you drink less while escorting? i dont have an issue with drinking, its when im being ASKED if i want one. i cant say no. i understand drinking with escort clients is optional/most likely, but do you find its more controlled?

    2. how long did it take for you to start getting into your "groove"? i moved from PA to CO and right now stripping isnt profitable enough for me to stay here on my own. i have about 1.5 months till ill have to move back to PA if i dont decide what i want to do. (not desperate for money ATM but want to make sure i dont end up that way....)

    3. there is a SW member here i know lives near my area and she seems to be pretty knowledgable about escorting here (also seems really sweet) im not going to mention her name on the post, but say it was *you*, if i PMed you with MY ideas and asked you to look over it and see what looks good and what doesnt that you would?

    thank you ladies...im still bouncing back and forth between switching strip clubs or getting into escorting but my main concern is the alcohol. i can be at a restaurant or bar and have a drink or two but its hard to say no when your having drinks constantly offered to you, fed up with dealing with guys not wanting to spend $40 on a nude dance unless i suck thier dick, and being tired from working until 2-4 AM.

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    Default Re: i want to get into escorting...newb ??'s

    Wooow a unique question about the biz! Never thought Id see the day!

    Well, with escorting its an entirely different environment. The only drinking that really happens is if you go on a dinner date (at most a glass or two of wine with dinner) or sometimes a guy will want to bring over a bottle of something to the date and ask your preference. But, its not the kind of environment where you are drinking to get drunk, or a club scene or anything remotely close..the drink is indeed a social drink and drinking to get drunk..or just having one after another like what you are describing would be kinda weird and guys would probably be pretty uncomfortable with that.

    That being said...there is zero pressure to drink. As a matter of fact, many of my dates do not drink at all..for extended dates I always offer something to drink and it ranges from a bottle of wine, to peach snapple to bottled water depending on the guy. Many women even if they drink, do not drink on dates at all as a safety measure. You could do this job and drink nothing but sparkling water and the guys wouldnt even raise a brow.


    As for getting in the groove, it took me a month before I got my first client...as I understand it, being new / fresh meat anywhere makes it tough to start because guys dont be the one to take one for the team..with or without reviews, they want to see that you are around for awhile, advertise consistently and are established in some way before they'll book a date to see you. But after that it gets easier. Ive been in the biz several years now and still trying to find my goove, but thats cause I live in Florida..the land of the starving escorts *sigh* as long as you are not in FL, it'll only take a few weeks to a couple months to get into the full swing of things.
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    Default Re: i want to get into escorting...newb ??'s

    1. I get what your saying about drinking at the club but with escorting it's no where near the same. I rarely drink while I'm with a client. It's more about getting business done and getting paid.

    2. For me I started to get in the groove after a month but I also had a lot of clients my first month. I probably had 4-5 the each week starting out so after a month I felt a lot more comfortable.

    Me personally I love escorting. I feel like I was born to do it. I know that sounds crazy just the way I feel. I wake up happy knowing I'm going to get paid doing something I'm good. It's not for everybody but I feel like I'm in control and my own boss. Once you get over the sex part with random guys it's not a big deal IMO. If you're worried you're going to have to answer to a guy about the hundreds of guys you've been with you might want to think hard. But for me I know that if I ever do want to settle down whatever guy is willing to overlook all of my past will be the one I stay with. Besides a lot of guys I've come to know just don't care. Society is becoming more accepting to escorting too. I think one day we will see more legal brothels around the country. You just got to get rid of those politicians that are old school. In 20 years a lot of things will be better for us.

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    My number is already whore level so idc about that, I do kinda care what my future husband would think but I'm in my early 20s and my future till I'm 30 includes me getting myself comfortable financially and learning to be an independent. I love sex and I've been told I'm good at it so why not

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    Sidenote...being intimate in personal life is verrrry different than as an escort.

    Yeah, the mechanics are the same, but its just different when youre with someone you are into, even if just a little bit...and someone you wouldnt in a million years want to see naked if not for the fact that they are paying you. The same level of intensity / passion / how your body naturally reacts and what makes you a good lover is totally different.

    Oddly enough, not sure if its cause of how long Ive been in the industry and Im just sort of...numb or jaded in a way? But I find that Im a lot more exciting as an escort than I am in my personal life...theres a certain level of performance that I know I need to put out there. And Im not an over performer by any means...not like Im screaming or anything LOL just that I am performing, on stage in a way....everything is 100% about his needs. Even when a guy says he wants to please me....what he really wants is to feel like a champ for being able to please me, its still all about how he feels and not much of anything to do with me. In my personal life, Im just me..take it or leave it and my needs matter a lot more than that.

    All that being said...its not just about sex either. Sometimes...its not even about sex at all. So you need to come into it with a lot more to offer than just that.
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    ^^ I appreciate your hits of reality blksharpie lol... i have no idea what to expect. all i can do is make sure im ready for whatever happens...so please send me any/all advice tips!!! Im esp. gonna write down the guy's info on a post it every time i do an outcall. that was an awesome idea blksharpie i read from another thread....idr if it was old or newer lol all of the helpful info is from 2010-2012 threads

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    Holeeee Crap lol! Yeah, my tip about the post-it was several years ago for sure. Kinda neat that youre doing your research and finding old stuff lol I still do that actually. I never want kiddo to be in a position where I dont come home one night and she has no idea where to even start looking for me. Morbid, but realistic.

    Yeah, much of what you'll learn, you'll learn on the job. And just when you think you know what to expect...along will come the unexpected. But you'll learn soon enough how to handle whatever comes your way.
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    i have a few tricks from stripping under my belt from stripping, but when i saw the post it note idea i thought that was genius. technology these days they can track your phone but god forbid anything happens thats the first thing some creep will do is break/leave it

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