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That was preplanned and scripted. Borat is an actor - that's part of his usual comedy routine.
I don't really think his act is funny but he is pretty popular. He always pulls stupid stunts like that.





If you're attractive, you're someone's "type" and so when they see you, they're shocked and amazed that the perfect looking woman has walked into their life. I'm not saying that's a good thing, thats just my theory.
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I have this theory about how men become "weirdos". Most of "weirdos" do not know they are being off putting to women. Often they are guys without any game, limited experience, and think that modern porngraphy is some how a gulid to "score" their perfect women. In addition, women behave too nicely to many of these guys and they do not know how to read women. How to combat these alleged "weirdos"? Just say "I am about my money." and these weirdos will lose interested really fast. Why? Because even they fear the whole gold digger thing. So, the key of getting rid of "weirdos". Talk about money endlessly until they can not take anymore. Works like a charm.
Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.



That's some backwards psychology there! Love it!



To answer your question as factually as possible:
1.Western men are heavily conditioned and influenced by modern media (i.e., movies, sitcoms,) to the point where they actually believe that what takes place in a movie happens in real life. So in the movies the common theme that sells movie tickets is that a guy likes a girl and she doesn't reciprocate but over time he keeps approaching her in effort to " win her over" where at some point she gives in and they then fall in love and live happily ever after.
Literally, there are countless guys who actually believe in this narrative (especially the males who grew up without fathers) all because of Hollywood.
Instead of trying to win a woman over males need to recalibrate themselves to learn how to quicky cut their losses. Instead of ramping things up when a woman shows signs of disinterest males need to take that signal and learn to walk away. Better to be with a woman who's happy that you just showed up then be with a woman who you have to jump through a million hoops just to get her to crack a smile.
2. Male ego turns some men into stalkers and weirdos. Some guys have such a big ego (particularly blk and Latin males) they feel they're desired by all women as if they're reject proof. Their egos are so big they don't even leave any room for the possibility that some women just won't like them so when the rubber meets the road and they're rejected that sends them into weirdo overdrive because reality isn't lining up with the image they have of themselves.
3. Some males are just plain evil and have no boundaries or concern for anyone but themselves. These type of men preselect women and force themselves on women without any feelings of guilt or remorse. In fact it's fun and exciting to them. The more you resist the more fun it is for them. In the old days these type of males were hunted down and hung from a tree but today we just imprison them which is too soft of a punishment which as a result creates more evil/weird men. Men like this need to be met with brutal jungle style brutally for all men to see that we modern people have lost touch with.





All men are weird.
& yes, I was stalked, after many yrs of breaking up w/the guy, then years later.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



You've never heard of Borat?





I love the part of the movie where Borat sees the sex tape Pamela made, and becomes totally despondent--then later of course has to whack off to it.
In defense of the actor, it's patently obvious that he is making fun of men so fucked up in the head that they would try shit like this.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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Check this out, there was a deleted scene from Borat, where he visited an actual porn shoot, trying to get work as an actor:
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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I agree with most of this. But.....in my experience the black & Latino culture have a lot of fear-based ideas about protecting women.
In my personal experience I've had a lot of abusive Caucasian partners (note that one was part Latino but did not identify as Latin. He hated 100% of himself.)
Overall the great tragedy of relationships in America is we seek to have our partners "complete" us or "heal" us & that is not possible. You have to be well-adjusted in order to be a good partner. It's true Hollywood "sells the dream" of romance curing one's problems. In reality that is where a lot of our problems start....



Ha the great kriptonite! That said nobody has talked about weird girls so it is not fair. Being stalked by women is less scary (though you never know who is carrying) but still a great destroyer of current relationships, try explaining that to a date...I have this theory about how men become "weirdos". Most of "weirdos" do not know they are being off putting to women. Often they are guys without any game, limited experience, and think that modern porngraphy is some how a gulid to "score" their perfect women. In addition, women behave too nicely to many of these guys and they do not know how to read women. How to combat these alleged "weirdos"? Just say "I am about my money." and these weirdos will lose interested really fast. Why? Because even they fear the whole gold digger thing. So, the key of getting rid of "weirdos". Talk about money endlessly until they can not take anymore. Works like a charm.





Great post Snuffle!
'He hated 100% of himself' Ha! Doesn't that just sum up the problem with abusive men of all races...
Should be etched in stone. I think this might be a little worse in women than men--not blaming the women here though. But women are usually way 'better' at bouncing back after a breakup--ostensibly that is. Because they almost always can get another guy right away, and so often they don't want to wait longer than a few weeks--or months, maximum. The problem being, they often tend to avoid looking within for strength.
Not to stereotype. A lot of guys are the same way, but in my life I've just seen way more women than men 'on the rebound' for a matter of days or weeks before hooking up with yet another bad choice.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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DeathAndTaxes,
In my experience, weird women are just as bad as weird men. However, they have different motives for being weird than guys do. Often they are either awkward in the same way as men nevertheless. In addition, weird women love pushing more emotional and psychological boundaries than men. How do I get rid of these weird women? I talk endlessly about material things and luxury items. Gold digging gets rid weird guys and girls. LOL
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Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.





You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
______________________________________
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