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    I recall a friend who was in love with her S.O. but was miserable because they basically had no sex life. She reasoned that if he ever cheated on her that it would give her enough cause to divorce him. They had been together for about 10 years. So she told me she hired a sex worker to hit on her husband in a bar and told the sex worker if she did get him in bed there would be a bonus but paid for her time regardless. He actually turned down the sex worker! Has anyone been hired for this purpose or any other reason other than just straight sex?

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    No, I'm a professional. Professionals stay out of drama and know how to say NO to a toxic situation/booking. Professional sex workers are in the happy business - and not out to make someone's significant other miserable. All that mess you described simply isn't in my job description and isn't something I would sign up for no matter how desperate for cash I got.

    I've had appointments that didn't involve sex at all but they are few and far between.

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    Default Re: Have you ever been hired to seduce someone's significant other?

    There's a movie called Chloe thats about this exact thing! Its soooo good I highly recommend it. It stars Julianne Moore.
    Do your future self a favor and work hard now.

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    Actually, being a professional "honey trap" or "sex decoy" is a great way to make money. However, their profession is different than sex work. They work to entrap people not make them feel good. Yes, I have done this before but only on social media. I would say that 10 girls hired me to see if their boyfriends, girlfriends or husbands would take the bait. Usually, they would hire me to flirt with their significant others on facebook, twitter, or somewhere else. However, I was hired to be a professional honey trap not as a sex worker. Personally, I did not mind because being a honey trap is different than being a sex worker. My suggestion would be not to do this on your sex worker time but do this as a discreet side hustle.

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    I recall a friend who was in love with her S.O. but was miserable because they basically had no sex life. She reasoned that if he ever cheated on her that it would give her enough cause to divorce him. They had been together for about 10 years. So she told me she hired a sex worker to hit on her husband in a bar and told the sex worker if she did get him in bed there would be a bonus but paid for her time regardless. He actually turned down the sex worker! Has anyone been hired for this purpose or any other reason other than just straight sex?
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    Wow, I did not know there was a whole other niche just for that! Thanks for sharing ��

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    Oh yeah, Spoon_Bender, being a sex decoy can be pretty sweet gig. It is just not that well-known There are agencies that will hire as well such as Honey Trap USA to be an sex decoy I am glad to share that in this thread

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    Wow, I did not know there was a whole other niche just for that! Thanks for sharing ��
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    I've been offered this "gig" many times and I've turned it down each time because it's drama. It's a very dangerous gig. I mean I'm just an online escort that doesn't show her face and I get messages and phone calls from the wife at least three times a year cursing me out for one thing or the other. Imagine the kind of drama such a "gig" would attract. At the core of my being , I'm a hustler but I'm a smart one. A smart hustler knows that all money ain't good money. She's selective. As my mother always says, don't jump from the frying pan into the fire. Be safe out there.

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    You bring up some very good points. Safety is definitely number 1. I'm sorry to hear you have already been harassed. I never understood that with some women. Like why go after the woman, why not the guy? Don't get me started on that lol

    It seems that doing it on the internet is safer than doing it in person but you are right there is still a risk.

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    Well, it is different for me. I have took this gig 10 times before and it does not cause me drama. Nor was it dangerous for me. I always stay safe and use tons of safety precautions. I never used my own phone number, photos, or name when honey trapping.Frankly, it is a totally different hustle than being a sex worker. Entrapping people as sex decoy has never cause me drama. It uses different skills than sex worker and it is about catching someone in the act. Yes, I am selective as a hustler but I am not going to be fearful at making some money entrapping people either. Particularly, if I am not using my own photos as part of online honeytrap and I am getting paid.
    Honey trapping is just intelligence gathering. Frankly, my "honey" trap character is like building a pso character or cam persona. Unlike my phone sex characters or cam personas; my "honey trap" character is design to entrap, gather information, and report findings to those who paid you. It is not about making people feel good, being sexy, being creative or having fun. That is why I do sex work. However, virtual honey trapping is about cleverly laying a trap and seeing who shall take the bait. In addition, I am pretty happy when guys or girls do not take the bait. I love reporting back to their significant others or agencies my findings. Being a sex decoy is a totally different than my sex work hustle. But, it is not for everyone and that is okay.
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    Default Re: Have you ever been hired to seduce someone's significant other?

    A client of mine wants to hire me for something similar (i guess). he wants girl on girl. but with his girl. he wants me to run into them, but pretend like I don't know him and that I am into her. With the goal being it ending up as a 3 some.

    It sounds really crazy, but I am kind of intrigued by the challenge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spoon_Bender View Post
    I recall a friend who was in love with her S.O. but was miserable because they basically had no sex life. She reasoned that if he ever cheated on her that it would give her enough cause to divorce him. They had been together for about 10 years. So she told me she hired a sex worker to hit on her husband in a bar and told the sex worker if she did get him in bed there would be a bonus but paid for her time regardless. He actually turned down the sex worker! Has anyone been hired for this purpose or any other reason other than just straight sex?

    No fault divorce has pretty much eliminated adultery as grounds for divorce.

    I understand at one time a couple who wanted a divorce would hire a photographer and a lady to sit on the bed with the husband, and use the pictures as proof of adultery. That was a long time ago.

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    I think with honey trapping it gives the person the peace of mind to finally have proof that they are with a cheater and that they no longer have to fall for their lies and made to feel like they are the paranoid/crazy one. It gives them a clear head and the strength to finally GTFO.

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    Being professional means being discreet. I would never accept a job that violated someone's privacy. If someone wanted to discover if their partner is cheating, why not hire a private investigator?
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    Private investigators, corporations, and even government agencies hire honey trappers. In fact, private investigation agencies are some of the agencies that I was talking about it. Honey trapping is not sex worker and discretion is not apart of honey trapping. It is a different mindset than being a sex worker. You work as apart of counter-intelligence and entrapped those who fall for the bait.Yes, honey trapping goes super deep that even governments use honey trappers to gather information against their enemies during war, to prevent terrorism, or to stop sex predators such as child molestors.
    Who do they hire? Sex workers, out of work actors, and other entertainers. Now, I have not gotten into governmental honey trapping nor industrial espionage. But, some sex workers also work as apart of corporate espionage rings to gather information on new technologies. By the way, honey trapping does not violate someone's alleged privacy because it involves them taking the bait or not. If they reject the bait, then they have nothing to worry about it. In fact, these people who reject the bait is every honeytrap's dream.However, if they are cheaters, foolish enough to give up corporate secrets, foolish enough to give up government secrets, and so etc...than they deserve it. Spouses, companies, and even governments needs to know who they can trust as apart of their team.

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    Being professional means being discreet. I would never accept a job that violated someone's privacy. If someone wanted to discover if their partner is cheating, why not hire a private investigator?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Private investigators, corporations, and even government agencies hire honey trappers. In fact, private investigation agencies are some of the agencies that I was talking about it. Honey trapping is not sex worker and discretion is not apart of honey trapping. It is a different mindset than being a sex worker. You work as apart of counter-intelligence and entrapped those who fall for the bait.Yes, honey trapping goes super deep that even governments use honey trappers to gather information against their enemies during war, to prevent terrorism, or to stop sex predators such as child molestors.
    Who do they hire? Sex workers, out of work actors, and other entertainers. Now, I have not gotten into governmental honey trapping nor industrial espionage. But, some sex workers also work as apart of corporate espionage rings to gather information on new technologies. By the way, honey trapping does not violate someone's alleged privacy because it involves them taking the bait or not. If they reject the bait, then they have nothing to worry about it. In fact, these people who reject the bait is every honeytrap's dream.However, if they are cheaters, foolish enough to give up corporate secrets, foolish enough to give up government secrets, and so etc...than they deserve it. Spouses, companies, and even governments needs to know who they can trust as apart of their team.
    I hear you, DonaDiabla. The OP specifically referred to hiring a sex worker as a honey trap. Just saying I wouldn't personally do it since I'm expected to provide discretion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ad_Astra View Post
    I hear you, DonaDiabla. The OP specifically referred to hiring a sex worker as a honey trap. Just saying I wouldn't personally do it since I'm expected to provide discretion.
    Exactly....

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