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    Or are they telling the truth. Seems like they all brag how they make 200 grand and then act so desperate for a dance. Look at what they drive off in and I just don't see it. I can't imagine a 200 grander driving a 10 year old Honda. Thoughts?

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    Most dancers are big liars about their money (most guys in the business world are too tho lol); so you have to weed thru to find the honest ones that are legit. They are rare. Most dancers are really bad with their money, don't have a savings account and have some kind of substance abuse/alcohol or material spending habit out of their means and they also take time off the second they have a "great" night until they need to work again.

    I don't understand it. I remain honest, but most people think I'm full of shit and lie about my money too, but whatever. To each their own.

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    Why are you asking the girls how much money they make anyway? Are you at the club to have a good time or gather information on strangers?
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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Maybe some girls drive a 10 yr old Honda because it's still running and they've putting their cash towards something else ... education, buying a house, etc.

    Do the girls ask your income, doubt it ... so why are you concerned about theirs?


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    Whatever happen to going to strip club for fun? Now, guys are questioning dancers about their income. What is next? Questioning dancers about their health insurance or car payments? Geez!
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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Because there's no right answer to this horrible question and guys should stop asking it. If I make lots of money then they'll say something like "oh so you don't need mine then" and if you say you don't make that much they don't want dances "from a bad stripper" or something similar.

    Strippers are a fantasy. If you want to get "real" answers from women go meet them at a regular bar, not a strip club where our job is to be entertaining, not honest.

    Also side note- judging somebody's income by their vehicle is a baaaad idea. One of my best regs drives a Toyota from the 80s- there's nothing wrong with it, so why replace it? I myself am doing fine financially but owning a new vehicle is not a priority. My current vehicle has all the features I want and there isn't another on the market currently that appeals to me. A vehicle is a poor place to put your money, as it is worth exponentially less the second you drive it off the lot.
    Plenty of people out there leasing/making payments on flash vehicles and it doesn't mean they have any real money.
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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Because it's nobody's goddamn business. That's why.


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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    I don't know...lots of people like to exaggerate their income so that they present a more successful image to the world. This isn't just a strip club thing, I've seen it in all walks of life. Also, unless the dancer brings it up on her own, I wouldn't bother asking about her income, it is not something that one needs to know in order to have a good time with her.

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    No, this is a great question. I've always wondered about this as i have a family member that's a stiripper and she and her friends LIE *a lot* about their income. I've never understood it. It's kinda funny because it's almost a guarantee that they'll lie about how much they make.

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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Here's the thing, I think it's hella stupid to be airing out to the world how much you make(especially ppl you don't know)...for various reasons. Keep that to yourself.

    Also, agree... don't fucking ask either. It is rude AF.

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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Why even bother asking if you know they're going to lie anyway???

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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    I would bet that the same proportion of guys in the clubs lie about how much they make, what kind of car(s) they drive, how big their house is, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post

    Also, agree... don't fucking ask either. It is rude AF.
    This is funny because a lot of the strippers i've met have blurted out how much they made like "girl i made $800 last night". I highly doubt anyone is going around asking strippers how much they make. They've watched video of girls getting "rained on" in the club and heard claims from strippers they've known in the past and just ask - because most people are naturally curious.

    Think about it, no one's going around asking CEOs how much they make but if CEOs bragged about it constantly more people would be curious and ask.

    This is what I've witnessed time and time again. It wasn't until I started escorting that I learned that talking about money is frowned upon so now when some chick brags about how much money she makes out of nowhere my eyes just glaze over.

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    Hondas are really good reliable cars though... Anyone smart with their money will hold onto a good working car for as long as they can.

    As for the rest of the nonsense...in no industry on earth is it socially acceptable to ask a person how much money they make and its pretty daft to expect a straight answer out of anyone because that is a highly personal question.

    ETA: So true..the people who feel the need to say how much they make and brag about what they have is doing it to feel good about themselves and appear impressive, maybe its true, maybe (most likely) its not.
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    bc it's none of your fucking business what a dancer makes??? I mean it's an unwritten rule you don't ask someone of any job what they make-- IT'S RUDE.

    Ever thought that maybe someone who makes hundreds of thousands a year just might not be a flashy person? maybe they drive a beat up 10 yr old car, bc it's paid off and they don't want another car payment and it still gets from point A to point B.

    You can be wealthy and not be flashy. Just b/c you make a bunch of money doesn't mean you need to flaunt it-- that's how you get robbed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prndude69 View Post
    Or are they telling the truth. Seems like they all brag how they make 200 grand and then act so desperate for a dance. Look at what they drive off in and I just don't see it. I can't imagine a 200 grander driving a 10 year old Honda. Thoughts?
    Why do you care? Seriously now, what possible use could that information be to you?

    Quote Originally Posted by NYC.Bianca View Post
    Most dancers are big liars about their money (most guys in the business world are too tho lol); so you have to weed thru to find the honest ones that are legit.
    Why? Are you suggesting that he start grilling every girl he deals with about her income until he hears answers that he thinks make sense? Why is this any of this his business at all? IMHO he has no right to any expectation of honesty when he is probing girls for information that is sensitive and none of his business in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post
    This is funny because a lot of the strippers i've met have blurted out how much they made like "girl i made $800 last night". I highly doubt anyone is going around asking strippers how much they make. They've watched video of girls getting "rained on" in the club and heard claims from strippers they've known in the past and just ask - because most people are naturally curious.

    Think about it, no one's going around asking CEOs how much they make but if CEOs bragged about it constantly more people would be curious and ask.

    This is what I've witnessed time and time again. It wasn't until I started escorting that I learned that talking about money is frowned upon so now when some chick brags about how much money she makes out of nowhere my eyes just glaze over.
    Customers sometimes ask inside the club. I hate it. Idkw they do.

    As for brag telling. Never, to anyone. The only person who knows is my sister, and it's bc she is my bank teller. Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Hondas are really good reliable cars though... Anyone smart with their money will hold onto a good working car for as long as they can.
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    Default Re: Why do strippers lie about their income?

    Why would they be different from anyone else?

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Why would they be different from anyone else?
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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post

    Think about it, no one's going around asking CEOs how much they make .
    If he/she is CEO (or key corporate officer) of a publicly traded company, there's no need to ask. It's public information. If you don't own stock in company, go to Yahoo Finance, and look it up under company profile. Also watchdog websites like www.aflcio.org (under corporate pay watch section) has pay info.

    Getting back to OP subject: As many have stated, asking dancer about her income is not a good way to break ice with a dancer, nor a good start for an enjoyable session. While you're at it, why not ask dancer about which brand of deodorant or baby wipes that she uses. You'd get better luck asking dancer if club has any openings for bouncers, or if she thinks that you'd make a good bouncer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Violethollywood View Post
    bc it's none of your fucking business what a dancer makes??? I mean it's an unwritten rule you don't ask someone of any job what they make-- IT'S RUDE.

    Ever thought that maybe someone who makes hundreds of thousands a year just might not be a flashy person? maybe they drive a beat up 10 yr old car, bc it's paid off and they don't want another car payment and it still gets from point A to point B.

    You can be wealthy and not be flashy. Just b/c you make a bunch of money doesn't mean you need to flaunt it-- that's how you get robbed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Customers sometimes ask inside the club. I hate it. Idkw they do.

    As for brag telling. Never, to anyone. The only person who knows is my sister, and it's bc she is my bank teller. Lol.
    That's like wholesome as fuck. I know you are handing her over a stack of ones that were probably crumpled up and in your g-string but it reminds me of some quaint little town in the midwest from the 1950's. I only know 2 people at my bank and that is because I went out on a few dates with one and the other is in charge of my brokerage account.


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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Well said, all of this^ & yea, love my Hyundai!
    I love my Hyundai tooooo! My gas mileage is amazing and I like being inconspicuous. Plus I'd rather spend my money on my future by loading up my 401k. A fun retirement traveling is way more appealing to me than a flashy car. And my simple answer is always "I make enough." My partner is the only one who knows exactly what I make. I understand that guys are curious but yeah, it's rude as fuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prndude69 View Post
    Or are they telling the truth. Seems like they all brag how they make 200 grand and then act so desperate for a dance. Look at what they drive off in and I just don't see it. I can't imagine a 200 grander driving a 10 year old Honda. Thoughts?
    Why are you asking others such a personal question? And how on earth do you know what cars the dancers are driving when they leave the lot? You seem like a lowlife creep. Gosh what a stalker!

    Are you a strip club loser customer who spends all night in the club annoying girls with your stupid questions, all while not spending a single dollar? You sure seem like it.

    Maybe the girls you speak to are driving "a 10 year old Honda" because they're too busy entertaining such a waste of time like you; because if it were me being asked about my income by a guy at the strip club, i'd walk the fuck away. Why? Because that question is a red flag. Guys who ask stupid questions as such, don't spend anything because they are BROKE. And here you are acting high and mighty.

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