Hey everyone- I'm new and hope I'm not posting in the wrong place, but here seemed good enough. Mods feel free to move if I'm wrong.
Anyway, I will leave a little bio about what I'm going through and hope that I can get some advice from you girls on here about going forward with career options, etc.
I'm a married stay at home mom to a 1 year old child. We live paycheck to paycheck, and almost worse than that, I'm bored stiff in life right now but not yet ready for another child. The restlessness/boredom is making me depressed/anxious and my home life is definitely suffering due to it. I had an opportunity to work in a strip club when I was 21 but I turned it down due to "feeling bad about it". Now, I'm almost 27 years old and at a place in life where I really don't care, in fact, it excites me. I don't want to dance at this point due to some jealousy issues with my dh and me being 5 -10 pounds overweight, plus weird looking tummy from pregnancy, so I'd rather not show that off right now. I did just start a strict diet/workout regimen last week and have been sticking to it pretty well. I'm definitely considered conventionally attractive, and have done some freelance modeling, despite being a few pounds overweight and in need of toning. I do have a proportional, hourglass shape with nice boobs/butt so that's a plus, I guess.
I bartended at a dive bar in college and it remains one of my favorite work experiences ever and I've kept wanting to break back into bartending after moving to the big city, but I have had little luck. I am at the point where I've been obsessed with watching YT vids and anything about bartending. I've almost gotten hired at a few "regular" bars in my area, but something always fell through with them hiring someone else, but liking me enough to give me a courtesy rejection call and letting me know that they're keeping my resume on file. Ugh- so frustrating. Due to childcare constraints, I need a job with evening-only hours and some more flexibility about my lack of formal experience, so I've looked up gentlemen's clubs in my area, wrote down addresses and phone numbers and am considering just walking in and asking for a hiring manager.
However, my insecurities are that I am in a major city and have been looking at upscale places because I'm well educated and feel like I can be of interest to those types of men, if only long enough to flirt a bit and make their drink. But, I am not sure if I'm pretty enough or in shape enough to work there even as a staff member. I also wonder what if they only hire girls in their early 20s? I am pretty sure that I can get away with saying I'm 23, but when it comes time to give them my license and SS, that's obviously not gonna fly. In addition, I have no idea how much experience they actually do want in terms of bartending or waitressing.
So I guess what I'm asking is if anyone here can give me advice on what to expect when I walk in the door of an upscale, big city gentleman's club and how best to prepare myself to impress them enough to get hired. I also wouldn't mind going to a club in the outskirts of the city, but it'd be a bit off the beaten path for me and the city is better for me location-wise and probably money-wise too.



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