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    I feel like this site is a great resource for dancers and customers. It has helped me as a female customer to understand etiquette better and avoid some of the pitfalls and mistake customers make. I was hoping someone could answer a question on private dances that I had.

    I understand that being a good customer means being respectful to the dancers so I have very careful not to touch or otherwise offend a dancer during a dance. But how do the dancers feel if you ask them or give them directions during a private dance. For instance, one of my favorite things about a private dance, are the times the girl will bend over and give me a nice view of her asshole. Of course that doesn't always happen during a dance, and sometime she will do it once and not again and I find myself waiting for her to give me another look. In a case like that, would it be rude if I asked her to show me her asshole again? Would it require a bigger tip. I don't want to overstep my boundaries, but also if I am paying for the dance, shouldn't I get to see more of what I like?

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    Default Re: Private Dance Question

    i can't speak for everyone but in my case i'll show you my tonsils if that were your thing as long as you stay respectful and tip some.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xbrandyx View Post
    i can't speak for everyone but in my case i'll show you my tonsils if that were your thing as long as you stay respectful and tip some.
    Thanks for the reply. So it wouldn't be rude of me if I asked? And if I ask would an additional tip be expected?

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    Default Re: Private Dance Question

    If she already performed a move you liked, I don't see why she would have a problem with you telling her "I really like that move, can you do that again" *gives tip*. Personally I like to get feedback during my dances... And an "Oh wow, I like that. You looks so good from this angle." will usually encourage me enough to repeat that move a couple times just because I know you enjoy it. As long as you're being kind and respectful to me, I'm more than happy to make sure your dance is a good one.

    However, some moves are more vulnerable than others. So if you were to ask to see a certain move that requires her to take a risk on you behaving, you'll have to have built a little trust with your dancer. The more comfortable she is knowing that you won't overstep her boundaries, the more likely she is to oblige. And yes tipping is more likely to make her happy to meet your request but so are repeated dances. The longer I dance for someone, the easier it is for me to know what to expect from the customer (is he a grabby asshole I can only perform safe moves on, or is he a good customer I feel comfortable performing fun moves with and someone I want to keep happy so he'll buy more time?)

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    Thanks for the feedback Leather_Jacket. Seeing how others act, I think I just want to be sure I don't offend the dancers. Would me asking her to bend over and show me her asshole be a vulnerable move? Would you think I would need to build more trust before I asked a dancer something like that?

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    As long as you are nice and respectful I don't see what the big deal is.
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